My Sexual Turn-ons

[cherryphi82]

Younger men. That’s probably already clear from my communications on this site but I’ve always had something for men in 18-25 age range. It’s not just young men in particular, but bishounen. This is a Japanese term for “pretty boy” or “beautiful young man”. Yes, I like beautiful men. That doesn’t mean you have to go to pedicure or manscape or put more lotion on than I do. No, this is something about the eyes. Like Romeo, they are soulful and brooding. They are somewhat mysterious yet straightfoward enough not to be wishy-washy. They are often dancers or artists in real life.

I like modesty. Yes, men who cover up. I don’t like guys who show off their torso at every turn. It’s not just a dress thing but something in a person’s behavior. There is an irreverence and a disregard for life in men who are not modest. You can be modest and confident.

I like men who are sexually pure. Men who keep their minds free from the pollution of this world, who do not sleep with a lot of girls just to prove something. Self-discipline is sexy. I do not like irreverence or salaciousness of any kind, especially in public. I want a boy to be humble and together. Somebody who pays attention, respects their elders and doesn’t talk ill of women or children. Somebody who values spirituality such as the ten commandments or the principles of Buddhsim or Vedic principles if you’re not from an Abrahamic religion.

I love men who have respect for older women. Always have. Most of my boyfriends have always revered my mom and I got a kick out of it, although I admit I was jealous too.

I love men who are not afraid of more voluptuous women. I myself am small, but I hate the craze for thinness in this world. I appreciate men who are inclusive of all shapes, colors, sizes and hair styles.

I love men who are somewhat disheveled. This may sound contradictory to the fact that Iike men who dress on point, but it is really not. You can dress well and still be “legere” which means laid-back. I adore men who have peach fuzz facial hair and edges..

I also like men with unique hairstyles, such as bantu knots or locs or that a-line cut that AJ from the Backstreet Boys had way back in the day.

I like men who worship the female. I don’t just mean live ones, I mean men who believe in the divine feminine. But I can’t stand men who talk about it. This goes hand in hand with modesty. Show, don’t tell.

I like men who let me embarrass them because I like to see the expression on their faces when I do it. That’s probably why one of my dream fantasies is to make a young guy cum in public in front of all of his friends.

I like men who are into other men or are bisexual. That alone doesn’t guarantee that I like you, but it gives you at least some points.

I like men who have bronze or caramel skin. I do not like tans on white men, however.

I like lanky and skinny men. Probably because I have a preference for boyish men.

I’m not into manly men. I can appreciate a cut body, but I have found myself largely incompatible with men who are meat heads or overly bulky. As I said, I can appreciate someone disheveled, but I don’t need all that rugged bravado. Also, mysterious & brooding =/= silent stoic type. Yes the former, no to the latter.

Men who wear jewelry, especially choker necklaces (another AJism from the 90s) and earrings.

[I_Do_Mind]

I absolutely love your MyTake, I can relate with a lot of these myself. Who wouldn't Lol nice pictures by the way? Oh my gosh so many of these are so me low key, great job with this you are amazing hit this one right on the nail spot on :)

[cherryphi82]

Thank you dear!!!

[I_Do_Mind]

Really thank you, you put my thoughts into words with your MyTake keep making Takes like these that are filled with sincere honesty like this one, so relatable.

[I_Do_Mind]

Wow OMG thank you for the mho!!! I just had to give praise for this Take, it is a true masterpiece reflecting my deepest thoughts and admirations and I know many others' as well.

[cherryphi82]

Thank you @I_Do_Mind you are so welcome! I really appreciate knowing I'm not alone in these preferences. Who are some of your favorite idols?

[I_Do_Mind]

Chance the Rapper, Harry Styles, Nelly, I love Zedd, I would like John Legend if he was younger, I love Micheal Cera have for years, and I had a crush before on Adam Lambert, I also like Drake but he is not my top ten, oh and Ed Sheeran. Most are singers because I wish I could express myself like they do and I love the passion in their vocals and how they present themselves.

[JDavid25]

Wow, that number 9 though.. I ain't gon lie that seems kinda sexy.. But, wow you would just ate up a young guy, and give him the goods.. Interestin take..

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO! :D

[laurieluvsit]

That is a most interesting myTake Ms Cherry... yes, indeed :)

[cherryphi82]

Thank you, dear @laurieluvsit! You're always so kind :)

[laurieluvsit]

You are too Ms Cherry, that's why I like you so much! Maybe we were sisters in a past life? ... lol

[cherryphi82]

Could be. Or maybe because we're both from Europe... aren't you from Sweden originally?

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, grandparents on mother's side immigrated here from Sweden. Daddy is 1/2 German and 1/2 English

[cherryphi82]

I see. Very interesting!

[loganj]

I agree that most women probably understand where you are coming from but probably dont express it openly

[gigi7]

Creeeeeeps

[wankiam]

interesting that your preference makes you a milf while being an older guy into younger women makes me a paedo in many eyes on here

[cherryphi82]

Read the comments. They suggest otherwise.

[wankiam]

here... yes but you should see responces i normally get ;)

[X1erra]

Interesting take. I am in no way having all the features that you wish for, but at least I do have some. ;)

[Josht13]

aayyy baby my car runs on respect for thicc women, I fucc traps and can't stop cumming in awkward situations.

[cherryphi82]

Hahaha...

[John_Doesnt]

Great myTake, your turn-ons should include stuffed animals though.

[cherryphi82]

Haha...

[LegateLanius]

Interesting

[Josht13]

this comment needs to be banned

[LegateLanius]

@Josht13 what if we ban you instead?

[Josht13]

I don't parrot useless opinions and they tried it before.

[LegateLanius]

@Josht13 considering the fact that it's her turn ons, I have nothing to contribute to her actual article but I found it interesting. Why hate on me?

[Josht13]

If you got nothing to contribute don't contribute. I don't just bust your balls for it

[LegateLanius]

@Josht13 Okie Dokes

[lord_chilled]

aren't you married?

I dont think you should be paking posts about liking younger guys.

I dont think thats being appreciative of your man.

[cherryphi82]

He once was a young man like that...

[lord_chilled]

Okay. I might consider trying this. When im married and in my 30s or 40s im gonna make a blog about how hot young girls or teen girl groups are and show it to the wife. I guess if she gets upset i could mention that she too was once a young girl like that.

[cherryphi82]

You can keep your sarcasm. You don't know the kind of relationship I have with my SO.

[lord_chilled]

To be fair, i was only mentioning what you are doing. Why the double standard? If you feel justified in this kind of thing i wouldn't say the relationship is very healthy.

[cherryphi82]

What double standard?

[lord_chilled]

You said i was being sarcastic, since telling my wife " she was a youn girl once" would obviously upset her, especially in the given sitiation. And lets be real, it would probably upset most women in ANY situation. So why do you think its okay to use the " my husband was a young man like that" as an excuse? Thats a very obvious double standard there

[cherryphi82]

Why are you concerned with what I do? I mean how does personally affect you?

[lord_chilled]

You made a post. I gave you my posts. If you put something out there you can be criticezed for it. It doesn't personally affect me. I just dont think its right.

[lord_chilled]

*my comment/opinion

[jasondee504]

Wtf did I just read.

[Cdtightsandvlvt93]

What do you think of men that wear women's lingerie?

[cherryphi82]

Mmmmm... not sure... not really into that.

[Cdtightsandvlvt93]

That's fair

[HereIbe]

You read a LOT of Bishounen, don't you?

[JayLiche]

This post is like a dream come true

[sexcrazed123]

love your take. would get some browny points but fall off the bus with many LOL

[cherryphi82]

What do you mean?

[sexcrazed123]

some of them are relevant to me and some of them are way off. lanky and skinny - way off not into men at all - way off do not mind being embarrassed by girls sometimes - point enjoy company of older women - point absolutely love the female and the female body - point do not mind voluptuous women, actually find them somewhat appealing - point

[cherryphi82]

Yeah, well, I don't mean the female body. I mean the divine feminine which is more of a spiritual essence. Most men love the female body to the point of objectification. That's absolutely nothing new and doesn't turn me on in the least. It's however rare to find a man who actually likes women for their spirit.

[cherryphi82]

And I rarely give brownie points. You could even fit all of them or be AJ from the Backstreet Boys himself and I'd still send you through the ringer.

[rockrewls]

Alrighty then...

[Tohhru]

Interesting

[F7777]

I Love Chubby white girls :)

[cherryphi82]

I'm not chubby, lol.

[F7777]

No worries still you are white :)

[cherryphi82]

Hahah.. is that what makes the difference...

[F7777]

yeah I like white girls :)

[cherryphi82]

I like brown girls. I think they're way cooler. And cuter.

[F7777]

well i am brown thats why i like white :)

[cherryphi82]

Ah.. there you go... lol

[SilviaKelly]

I like white girls eating brownies... special brownies that is.

[ovoxo_]

Is it just you or is it a thing for older women (35+) to like younger weak and boyish men?

[cherryphi82]

I have no idea. I don't think of these men as weak. All I know is I'm old enough to know that guys who consider themselves strong and masculine are usually assholes who don't listen squat to what a woman wants. My best sexual experiences have been with men like the ones I've described.

[ovoxo_]

Most likely because you're aggressive or you have a dominant personality yourself. Therefore you don't get along with guys that are like that as well. Are you married or single?

[cherryphi82]

Married. Dominant personality, sure, but aggressive... nope.

[ovoxo_]

My point exactly. I noticed older women tend to be like you, except aggressive as well. Younger women who usually have a more submissive personality don't have a problem with masculine men.

[cherryphi82]

Ok, but what's it to you? I mean, I can have my preferences, you can have yours, and then we're both happy.

[ovoxo_]

I asked one question.

[cherryphi82]

Yeah, and I asked one back. Why does it matter?

[ovoxo_]

It matters because I asked. I must get an answer as soon as possible.

[cherryphi82]

Lol, ok then

[ovoxo_]

Give me an answer

[cherryphi82]

I really have no idea. I'm not excluding the possibility that there's a pattern. For me, it's more a feeling of safety. I like guys who are cuddly and boyish over rugged and stoic. There's nothing wrong with rugged men, I just don't feel safe around them or like I can really open up to them.

[ovoxo_]

Thank you

[ovoxo_]

I'm rugged and stoic. Do you like me?

[cherryphi82]

Uh. I don't dislike you. Yet, lol ;)

[ovoxo_]

Thank you. But I'm asexual.

[cherryphi82]

*scratches head* Ok? and I like green peppers?

[ovoxo_]

I thought you were hitting on me because you said you like younger men

[cherryphi82]

I have no idea how you would have gotten that idea. I didn't even see your age.

[ovoxo_]

Because I'm asexual

[cherryphi82]

*confused* You thought I was hitting on you because you're asexual... that's the weirdest thing I've ever heard.

[ovoxo_]

I'm confused as well now

[cherryphi82]

Well, then why don't we call it a night. We had an insightful exchange, lol.

[JChrome]

ewwwwww

[Anonymous]

Sure