I see so many questions related to penis size, and I have just got to put some truth out there. I apologize in advance for any offense and for maybe being too open about myself.
YES SIZE MATTERS, just not nearly as much as you may think.
I understand why it is important to you. You want to know that you are the best. Maybe you just love the look of awe on a woman's face when she sees it. Maybe you are terrified that you are not good enough, or that she is secretly laughing or dissapointed.
For my average and below average guys.
She has had bigger, but she has not had better. Now I know bigger is better right? Yes, a bigger cock is somewhat better than a small cock. But it does not mean the sex, the connection, or the relationship is better. How do I know this? Because who is she with now? You are obviously best at something.
We care about size. We want to know that you have a normal sized functioning cock. But average is around 5 inches hard and we don't know your inches just by looking. I have had guys that I thought were average tell me they were 4 inches. I got used to it and so did my vagina. And the sex was still good.
This is how I judge the quality of sex in order from most important to least.
1. Are we in love or do we have a strong connection?
2. Am I feeling sexy?
2. Are we sexually compatible? Do we have similar likes, communicate well and catch a good rhythm?
3. Is he skilled? Can he turn me on?
4. Is he a gentleman...ladies first. :)
5. How does he look naked and how big is his penis?
See where I put the D?
Now for my big guys. I know what you want.
We really don't want to have conversations about how amazing your penis is. In fact, if you get cocky...see what I did there...then it is a BIG turn off. And I am liable to go back to the little guy. The biggest I have had was somewhere between 11 and 13 inches. He was also very thick and great in bed. But what I loved most is that he was very shy about his penis and did not want to talk about it. He also wasn't the best I've had.
Last note is this. I find maturity very sexy. A guy who is jealous and worried that he is inadequate does not come off as mature. The guy who can't get enough of himself and thinks he is God can take a hike. But the guy who can be straight forward about himself and doesn't care about my past. I won't be able to keep my hands off him.
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