My Journey Into a Female Dominated Relationship

[Anonymous]

My story:

I was a loving housewife, we had been married for 3 years. We had 3 kids and one day my husband left his tablet unlocked on the kitchen table.

I did it, glanced at his browser history and there was porn. DISCLAIMER: I know guys look at porn, but this was sick stuff. His main site was one that I won’t name but it has the word “domocracy” in the title. There was torture and killing, exchange of nasty fluids, sick crap. I was like, my God, is this what he’s into?!!!! F***.

I was crying ready to leave him, pack up the kids and go to moms f’ this guy. And I went online for advice and found this site. I posted the question “my husband's into sick porn” hoping for some advice. And I got lots. But I was also pissed.

I thought about it, and thought about it for a few days. I came up with a solution. I sat him down and confronted him. I gave him 3 choices

1. Leave, and never come back - kind of what I was wanted.

2. Give up the porn, not just the sick stuff but all porn. Many of you guys don’t seem to get this but it’s exploitive, hurtful and kills the self esteem of your partner.

3. Or we’ll do it his way. I will try being a Dominant woman.

He had a week to decide. I then took the kids to my moms house and ignored him for that week.

Meanwhile I read a little online, read some forums, made a plan. I knew he wouldn’t leave. After the week I met him for coffee. He begged, I held firm, he picked number three. I sent an email to him from my phone, one I’d written earlier. This is what it said in essence, I think you are a sick twisted man, but we’ll try this. You will provide me with $5,000.00 cash, I don’t care how the F you get it, beg, borrow, or steal. You will complete an online BDSM quiz, that will establish your hard limits, anything else goes. This is going to last one year, if you back out, try and change the terms, or F with me you leave, no middle ground. I’m in control here, don’t forget it. I’ll move back home when you have completed these two tasks.

That was just over two years ago. I have a house slave now, he cooks, cleans, and is totally attentive to me.

He’s locked in chastity, with a remote shock device on his cock.

I let him out if I want him, but that’s becoming rarer and rarer. I have been thinking of dating, casually outside of the relationship for more fulfilling sex.

Is he happy? I think so, he’s certainly eager.

Am I happy? Not really, bored is a better word but he’s good with the kids, and he’ll never leave.

What’s the worst thing I’ve ever done to him? I caught him on a porn site, I hate him looking at porn, so I locked his cock into a spiked cage, put on a playlist of BDSM porn, and tied him up watching it while I went to an impromptu night out with the girls. He was sore for days, and learned his lesson.

Advice to young ladies who are in the same boat? F’em, beat the crap out of him, and learn to love it.

Ciao.

[Annie_Mosity]

BEWARE!!! BEWARE!!! BEWARE!! This is SANDPLANET people!! She's back with a new story (sorry, HE!!)

If some of you are not familiar with his/her work, please see this old post. It comes back now and then with a different story, but it always involves something to do with male chastity (like the device above) or mom/son incest. If you are having private conversations with this "woman" then please be aware you are being lied to for their own sexual gratification.

Please see the post linked at the bottom for more details but this isn't funny anymore MoonMice/SandPlanet/Fiona83/SandraSlip/MindPieces whatever you are called this week. Why do you need to do this to get your rocks off? I already knew it was you before we got to the chastity device. It's like you think everyone forgets your weird kinks... just find a boyfriend who is in to this so you can stop dragging innocent people into your wank-game.

A Cautionary Tale: Has anyone ever catfished you on GaG, too? ↗

[ManOnFire]

Wait a minute, wait a minute. First you tell us how horrified you are by what you found him watching, then you confront him and even bother to give him that third option, he chooses it, and then you yourself go on to live a life of treatment towards him that is similar to the shit he watches. How is it any different? This Take is very contradictory, and I honestly wonder if this is even real or your own sick enjoyment disguised in disgust. Or if the story itself is even real. It actually sounds like BDSM erotica of its own.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

.. still a better love story than Twilight..

[ChronicThinker]

This guy has a brain ^

[Hidden_P]

Yeah I’m not buying it either

[ManOnFire]

@ChronicThinker @Hidden_P Something about it is very off. I wouldn't be surprised if it's this person somebody told me about who's been running around online with different aliases posting crazy stuff like this.

[ChronicThinker]

Plot twist: the pink user is actually a cuck male.

[Hidden_P]

If I found out my partner was into porn that ended in death that would be a deal breaker. Either this is a very unstable woman who’s kept her children in a dangerous position or more likely its total shit.

[ManOnFire]

@Hidden_P I'm thinking it's total shit. Or she actually gets off on having people read such an "experience."

[Hidden_P]

Mmm see I don’t think it’s female. “I spent a week at my mums with the kids” - mum would ply let alone the kids why they were suddenly away which would impact on the mind. Regardless of that, a week is not long enough for anyone to go “you know what... yeah I can deal with sex that might kill me/punishing the person I married in front of others”. It’s just total shit. A Male on the other hand having a fantasy (males generally deal by putting in boxes) will easily forget factors like the mother and children. It sounds more like the alone Male viewpoint looking forward to what to come. Or. As said, a mega screwed up female.

[lord_chilled]

You actually bought this?

[JimRSmith]

@ChronicThinker My thoughts precisely. There's at least one repeat offender in this category has recently turned up on the site again. Keep your eyes peeled.

[HereIbe]

@FýrdracaDócincel, the Epistles of Paul are a better love story than Twilight...

[VaIiant]

Fyr, everything is a better love story then twilight. Why is everyone dissecting this Take so much? It’s clearly BS.

[ManOnFire]

@Hidden_P True. Those are good points.

[ManOnFire]

@JimRSmith Jim, you were right😉

[Lovvyyy]

@ChronicThinker Actually not that hard to figure out, don't need to be a genius for that. I think any non-idiot was assuming the same by readin' this shit. I'll add more. The pink anonymous being a submissive man is not a plot twist at all.

[Ahsthen]

@Lovvyyy : it's all entertainment.

[MeatPuppet]

I think you actually enjoyed it, lol.

[ManOnFire]

@MeatPuppet Hell no.

[MeatPuppet]

Sorry, I didn't mean to send this comment to you.

[ManOnFire]

@MeatPuppet Got it.

[JSmith925]

@ManOnFire - Yeah, I'm going to have to just go ahead and agree with you. The motivations expressed sound highly suspect. "Beat the crap out of them and learn to love it?" What sort of marital advice is this? ~JSmith

[JSmith925]

Oh, and why is GAG promoting a story that not only sounds contrived but is also on a subject that interests a very narrow segment of the populace? ~JSmith

[Ahsthen]

@MeatPuppet : I did, beau. Read my topic response. I added.

[Annie_Mosity]

it's total shit, it's SandPlanet back with his male chastity fetish...100%. I could tell before it even got down to that part that it was her/him making up shit again... A Cautionary Tale: Has anyone ever catfished you on GaG, too? ↗

[JimRSmith]

@Annie_Mosity Could you send me a PM about this, please? I want to run something past somebody who's clearly familiar with that situation.

[Annie_Mosity]

@JimRSmith have done...

[Nik1hil]

@FýrdracaDócincel you had to find the ray of sunshine in this gloom

[ManOnFire]

@JSmith925 Dude! I was wondering the same thing!

[StrangerByTheDay]

I totally agree with you guys. and if it is indeed a real story, in my opinion she discovered a dark place inside of her she likes, as well, like he does. so she is taking advantage of the situation to enjoy her being dominant and pleasuring herself with BDSM :-|

[Annie_Mosity]

@StrangerByTheDay no, it's someone fucking with you all for shits and giggles (and some wank material)

[VaIiant]

@Annie_Mosity exactly

[Lovvyyy]

How do I remove notifications from this?

[VaIiant]

@Lovvyyy scroll up and mute the Take

[Lovvyyy]

@VaIiant Thanks.

[Dchrls78104]

@Hidden_P... Is perhaps what he wanted lol

[Dchrls78104]

@MeatPuppet Doesn't it occur to you that he might also have enjoyed it?

[MeatPuppet]

@Dchrls78104 Yeah, I do.

[StrangerByTheDay]

@Annie_Mosity I have to agree with you. it sounds too sick and twisted to be true. but in case it was true, those are mentally ill and need help :-|

[Diamondblade]

You cuckold the dude GIRLFRIEND, WOW now you start dating and you bring that person home and you too do it where ever you can force your hubby to watch or he can join in and do what you tell him to do. Daaaaamn you guys are one real kinky bunch. Do what rocks your world, by the way how do like porn now... Lolol I'm pretty sure you found what makes you more exciting then he did... have fun loloolol

[StrangerByTheDay]

Hello dear,
I understand your struggle but not your logic at all.
I even have doubts if the story is true or just something you had to write down to take it out of your head and amuse some people.
Anyways, you are really contradicting yourself and thoughts. In my opinion, you enjoyed the BDSM experience more than your partner did and taking advantage of the situation to go and have more fun outside your home. It also may look like you have always waited for some excuse like this to "legally" cheat on your husband. Am not defending neither of you here. am just laying down my opinion regarding what is written above.
Frankly, mostly all the couples I know watch porn together and try new things for a chance to bring them closer to each other and enjoy more intimate stuff. besides, they are giving their body to each other.
I like dominant women, but not that extreme!!! those are sick things. am not much into BDSM. some things could be stimulating. but the torture thing is too much.
If you did it, then you liked it and received pleasure from it!!! otherwise you are some kind of criminal.
I hope someone else's opinion is more positive, but frankly my dear, you are to blame too!!!

[JayMichigan616]

If it's real you're still not being totally honest. To even put option 3 on the table you had to have been somewhat intriguedu by the whole concept in the first place

[Ginfiend]

Someone is trying to make up the next fifty shades, I see...

[Jan_Classic]

The story is boring from the very beginning. Sh1te it may be more boring than the 50 shades of gray (and I was sure it was the most boring BDSM story). Let's call it "Kids play at a kindergarten". Well maybe you practice your writing skills and make it tastier.

Being more specific:
1) The husband is a boring stupid omega male
2) The woman is a boring omega housewife
3) Moving (with the kids) to the parents place is so boring and childish
4) getting 5000$ you must be kidding me. When I was completely broke I could get these coins out of the air. Borrow or credit or just sell my collection of beer bottle caps.
5) A real awesome story you could've missed actually. Like you leave the family house and he brings 3 hookers with him and they hang out for like a week. Well that what I would do (for the fresh 5000$ stack), but I'm always under supervision. And it doesn't look like my madam would ever leave our house lol.

So basically you turned your boring life into another boring life, omega husband to omega husband.

[MlleCake]

10/10 never happened.

[Ahsthen]

You ain't as salty as you make out.

[MlleCake]

@Ahsthen I'm just as salty as I appear here, over the totality of my posts on GAG. When I am crabby I am slaty and have little patience. When I am feeling gracious I do gracious things. But I know FLR and that story is straight out of the wank bank of a man who has never been in an FLR, or in any kind of bondage.

[Ahsthen]

I didn't think you was crabby. And we don't know. Could be. Could be not. Either way, it highlights the dysfunxion of the human condition - which is funny - and the need for genetic therapy.

[BonnieBunny]

@Ahsthen SODIUM CHLORIDE

[Ahsthen]

@BonnieBunny : yes? I use it.

[Jxy95]

Wow is that made up or real?

[martyfellow]

I think it’s enough to beat him up. The rest is over the top...

[brocklee]

Wow. You two were made for each other. Don't lose him. You are going to have a hard time replacing him. Any man with even a marginal amount of self respect wouldn't put up with a tenth of your horseshit.

[AdorableLilo]

This was on the homepage of GaG and i saw two comments which made me interested in what made these people call out bullshit. I read half the story and went straight to the comments. You people are hilarious, man

[Astria]

Another reason why porn is bad.

[AnimaLover_17]

That poor poor man. My god...

[AnimaLover_17]

Aside from the fact that is entirely fabricated for bait.

[BuchitaBuchys]

This shit seems fake. You either have a wild life or wild imagination.

[whatthehellwasthat]

Thats a pathetic story

[Hidden_P]

So... even if this story is true you stayed in a relationship you mentally abandoned years ago, you punish him for it (exactly what you didn’t like, you became what you didn’t like) and now you don’t want to be faithful.

Not buying it. But either way.

This isn’t how you get a puppy.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Please, their are other sites you can talk about your fantasies (though honestly if this is your fantasy then I think you have some issues).

[englisc]

This sounds like a really healthy way to deal with the problem.

[Onlythisone]

I think men posing as female online are where he majority of stupid opinions about women come from.

[Curmudgeon]

First, this seems FAKE, as someone else pointed out.
Second, even creepy porn is often fascinating in a trainwreck sort of way.
Third, the BEST way to deal with porn is to watch it with your partner, point and laugh. Because when it isn't creepy, it is downright silly.

[Jadusable]

Cool story.