Does IT Really Matter?

Every day, as I scroll down the feed of live questions, there will always be one common question popping out. Guess what it is about... Yes you got it right!

The eternal question "Is my dick big enough for you ladies?"!

Does IT Really Matter?

Guys… don't get me wrong. I know you're proud of your member but constantly asking if your size is a turn on is actually a turn off. It screams insecurity. It screams attention.

I know you want confirmation if you’re a 3, a 6 or an 8 or 10 is a blessing to us ladies when it's time to get down and dirty. But really it doesn't make a difference if your performance doesn't live up to your size if that's what you want to hear.

SIZE DOES NOT MATTER.

Does IT Really Matter?

I will not speak for every woman on this planet but I want a lover not just a sexual partner. We don't have to be in a relationship but sex to me is intimate and personal. There has to be some attraction and connection going on before I get in between the sheets with you. I have to be hungry for you and you for me...

Make me long for you, bring the tigress out of me and I shall bring the animal out of you. Awaken the beast out of each other. Nothing else matters as long as we are both dancing the same tune and both reach the climax of pure pleasure.

Making love with a woman is like pottery. So intricate yet so sensual. Every mold, every curve... Caress her gently yet pull her close. Let her unleash all her inhibitions towards you with passion. Let her take the lead. Let her blow your mind.

Do you see the part where I ever mentioned your size?

No.

Does IT Really Matter?

It doesn't really matter. What matters on the other hand is how you treat a woman. How you treat her is what makes you a better lover in bed and a better man in life.


It’s not the dick that makes a man.
It is the man himself that makes sex one hell of a mind blowing ride.

Does IT Really Matter?

Thanks for the time reading.

XO's Pinay_Ako

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I believe size queens are few and far in between. Obviously, a guy with a larger size penis (7 inches or more in length, 6 inches or so in girth) is going to be able to do things a man with a smaller penis cannot. Some positions are difficult to keep up without slipping out with a smaller penis. Some positions are nigh impossible with a below average sized penis. Some women like the feeling of being full and some do like the A-spot stimulated, which is at the very back of the vagina by the cervix.

    However, guys beat themselves up far too often on this subject. What can you really do about it? Wallow in sadness that you are only 5 inches? It is pointless. It is probably true that penis size is important for casual sex where a woman isn't going to necessarily have feelings for you to amplify her arousal, penis size isn't nearly as important in a relationship where intimacy, passion, romance, and love can get her aroused. I have given my woman a hard orgasm 30 seconds after penetration because she was so aroused beforehand.

    It also depends on what she likes. Does she like it slow and steady? Does she like it hard and fast? Everybody is different on what gets them off, and penis size is only one part of many that matters.

Most Helpful Girl

  • i am with you not for the size of your dick, but for the size of your heart.
    Are you with me for the size of my breasts, or how tight my va jay jay is, no.

    • That's a very good point @ariadneR. Well said 😘

    • Hey pm me

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  • Thank you so much my dear.
    I just love you for that article <3
    Indeed what i have been explaining a lot to many stubborn people around.
    Personally, I cannot have an intimate time with a girl if I am not really emotionally and mentally connected, if there are no feelings. And of course the difference between "Sex" and "Making Love".
    It is like you wireless connect to my brain and snip the ideas and make a good writing about it :-D
    Yeah, not to talk about guys who actually ask if the vagina have a size matter like the penis does... pffffff
    Are you serious people? Is that all it is about?
    My friend once told me:
    "why most guys constantly keep asking about the size? Size is not really a problem, it is the act and how they are showing the emotions that is important. besides, we grab them while they are inside"
    The last words, I hope I have understood it the right way.
    I meet loads of people when I go to the bar, but few of the women I meet are mentally connected. It is a turn off for both, me and her.
    What do you think my dear?

  • Size matters to a lot of women that enjoy sex lol. We don’t all want 10 inch dicks I just mean at least 5 inches

    • Don't forget the guy has a tongue. ;)

  • The amount that refuse to accept the truth that majority of women don’t achieve orgasm from penetration hence making their size irrelevant is alarming. Egos over reality so often here.

  • For most girls (that I know of) size doesn't matter in the sense that they won't leave a guy is his dick isn't big. Unless it's too small. After a bad experience I talked with a friend (girl) about it asking her to be brutally honest. She said she had wonderful sex with a guy who was 6 inches, probably bigger. And then she had a boyfriend who was little under 5 inches. And the sex wasn't that wonderful but she was madly in love and would never pick the other guy above her boyfriend.
    So, basically even if your girlfriend has had sex with bigger guys it doesn't mean she won't like it with you. And not always the best sex a girl had was with the biggest dick she's got. There is a good chance your girlfriend had sex with a guy who was better than you. But she's with you for a reason and it's unlikely she's gonna ditch you because of your performance.

  • Haha. Size matters. It's just the truth.

    • maybe your truth... not all

    • Right. Okay. I think honesty is important. And although this may be true for you, I doubt you want a man with a 2 in penis.

  • I never thought about it because it doesn´t matter. Love has nothing to do with dick size.

  • Amen sister! Lmao thanks for putting this out here

  • Lucky there's no such thing as a small dick anymore, because reading through G&G, the average size seems to be 9 inches hahaha

    • Lol 😂

  • Sounds like this must be true then...
    "For fulfilling sex... if size doesn't matter.. does even having one matter anymore?"
    It's not the size of the ship,
    nor the motion of the ocean,
    its whether the captain stays in port long enough, for all the passengers to get off.
    My auntie said it ain't the size of the boat but it's the motion of the ocean. But I said: Well it takes a lot longer to get to England with a small paddle!" -
    Women who orgasm via stimulation of the vaginal fornix can likely get spoiled by an endowed penis. The fornix is located in the very back of the vagina (it is also called the cul-de sac), slightly beyond the cervix so it is the deepest part of the vagina. When (and if) the women is aroused enough the cervix tents up and allows for penetration of the fornix.
    For hypergamy, after a girl has been riding the cock carousel for 15-20 years, her sexual value is diminishing rapidly and she wants a piece of the American Pie... yes indeed, size does not matter.

    Does IT Really Matter?
    • This is what women really think of dick:
      https://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results

    • Yup. Thats why you should avoid marraige at all costs

    • @redrocket68 Check this out dude it will seal the deal on marriage:
      What are some Signs a man is intimidated by a woman? ↗

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  • Yeah, most chicks out there will tough out a small penis if the wallet's big enough.

  • Oh, Pinay_Ako, you are passionate

  • Mine is big, so it doesn't matter.

  • (Applause)

  • Fantastic MyTake @Pinay_ako! You're spot on! 😘

  • "Honey, does my ass look too big in these pants?" lol

  • well uh, hello there one in every ten girl

  • If dick size doesn't matter than why are dildos so big and why do women laugh at guys with a small penis?
    Ha! Pwned you.

    • That's not every woman... You guys have tongues don't you? ha

    • Laughing at a small penis is something that mostly happens on movies and TV. The next time you're in an adult shop take a look at the dildos. They come in a wide range of sizes. Then DISCREETLY look at the ones the women are buying. They tend to be fairly thin and reasonably short. In fact, when I'm at an adult shop the most common length I see women buying is 4", and an employee confirmed that it's a popular size among women. She also confirmed that the big ones you're talking about are almost exclusively purchased by men for anal play and women who make their living doing cam shows (which I didn't know any of the women around here did, but apparently it's their steadiest customer base), where MEN are expecting women to ride dildos that have to be almost as painful as giving birth, since they're not much smaller than a newborn that's a bit on the small side.

    • @tiffany_g do people still go to adult shops in this day of the internet?

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  • Just wait. In a few days there are going to be several female answers here rejecting the whole point of this. Thanks for the effort though.

  • "What matters is how well you treat her"
    Clearly you've never dated a woman.

    • True. I haven't... but I'd rather be treated well than be treated like shit. It matters to me. Sex is only one part of life.

    • Status, looks, height, money, the ability to make her friends jealous. These are things that matter to women. Every man reading this knows I am right. How you treat her is mostly irrelevant. You are a prop in the façade that is her life. Nothing more. Please just honest for once.

    • Don't generalize women. Not all women are shallow or insecure about making other women jealous. Not all women need a financier to cater to her needs when she can also make her own money. You're only 18. You haven't met a lot of power women... Women making their own money and living the life. She won't take no BS. If the man isn't treating her right, do you expect her to stay? I think NOT. I think it IS VERY RELEVANT

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  • Hey it matters to us guys

    • Lol it matters to women

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