I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Just kidding.

Though there’s more to the story than you think. It is true. Mostly. I actually am more attracted to average-looking women. Though I don’t really like to call them that, rather I prefer to call them real, everyday women, because the truth is the majority of the female population really is very “average-looking,” and truly beautiful, gorgeous women are few. And either way, it’s fine by me.


“Beautiful” women can be boring…

To be sure, there are lots of beautiful women I do double takes with and will go over and talk to them sometimes. And to be completely blunt and honest, I would even have sex with many of them, but I actually would not care to be in any serious relationship with most, no.


When I was young, all I ever cared about were very exquisite, exotic-looking women, and I still have some favorites, no doubt. I especially have a thing for women with dark hair, long, thick eyebrows and glasses, like Middle Eastern women and the character of my much-too-young sexual obsession Ariel Winter on Modern Family, lol.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

But I guess now as I’m in official adulthood, I don’t really need a woman to be drop-dead gorgeous for me to be into her. And more and more I prefer it that way. Plus a lot of the kinds of “gorgeous” women guys like are not even particularly special to me. They usually just have pretty faces and so-so bodies, but I wouldn’t ever date them.


In much of my experience with “beautiful,” very attractive women, many of them really don’t seem to have particularly interesting personalities or lives, especially the ones who are crazy about dogs or cats and post photos of them on FB or Instagram endlessly, or are fitness freaks, university nuts, or very wealthy. And some of them can be even goofier or more awkward and introverted than the goofiest, most introverted guy. And it does remain to be a fact that many beautiful/very attractive women - if not most - are stuck-up and conceited and will shamelessly tell you they think they’re good-looking or sexy. Many times I got that opportunity to chat with a “gorgeous” woman, just to really be disappointed or turned off once I could see more of who she was, how she thinks, or what she’s into. And the thrill was gone.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Sadly it is still true that looks are all they really have going for them a lot of the time, and many of them still do count on that to give them an advantage in life. Despite how they want to be seen “as a person” who is deep or smart, beautiful women who are truly intelligent, lively, and contagious are actually very few.


So there is an element of truth in me saying I’m not really attracted to gorgeous women. Because ultimately who they are, what they carry - or don’t carry, how their brain is and how their personality is, can make me not attracted to them.


“Average” women are more curious...

For me I take more interest in women who are average or have what you might call a mild prettiness or attractiveness, or have looks that actually are beautiful but not considered as such by popular standards. A lot of them even have nicer bodies, to me anyway. And yes, I tend to prefer thicker women and those who don't exactly have perfect looks. They usually are just overall more interesting. When I see them I find myself wanting to know about them. I get curious. What's your name? How do you make that funny voice like that? What is that pendant on your necklace? And we usually can laugh, be goofy, have fun, and chat a lot easier. The whole situation is generally more comfortable, whereas very attractive women can sometimes treat you like you should be grateful that she's even talking to you, as if she's a celebrity.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

I also think more average looking women tend to be a little more relaxed because they know that society doesn’t regard them as gorgeous so maybe they don’t spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think. “Beautiful” women however, want to live up to people’s view of them I think, so they worry about what others think more often. And although I can want sex with both gorgeous women and just pretty or average ones, I often find myself wanting sex more with an average woman, especially when I learn about her stories of sleeping with other guys in the past.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

So for me I don’t really need a drop-dead gorgeous woman in my ife in order to be happy or sex-driven. For the most part, if she looks decent enough and has a nice face and a nice figure, and she makes me feel good when we talk and interact, and I can see she has some personality and a good heart and character, I’m happy.


Types of “beautiful” women people praise or who guys go crazy over…

Here are some women that a lot of people would classify as "beautiful" but to me are really not particularly special looking but are just okay:

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women
I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women
I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women
I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women
I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women
I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Types of “average” women I like who people tend to look at less and who guys think aren’t special...

By society's and the media's standards, these are considered plain women or not very attractive but to me tend to have looks and figures I like about them even if they're not downright gorgeous.

Pretty face and great curvy body on this one. Absolutely love the boobs. Almost reminds me of my old co-worker lol.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

I like the way this one kinda looks like Katy Mixon.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

The Latina with glasses and thick eyebrows. Nuff said.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Glasses again and really hot figure. Good Lord.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Has an okay face but the brightness it seems to have is what I like along with those nice pretty eyes. And I love how enormous those breasts are. Jesus. Makes me wanna......😉

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

The perfect all-natural bronze Indian or Pakistani girl. My exact definition of Indian beauty. Rich, thick black hair and big beautiful eyes and thick eyebrows. True Beauty that is ignored in her culture because she doesn't look white enough.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Dayum. That hair always rocks, and that naked brown arm makes me horny as fuck. I would shmelessly ask this one for a hookup in a minute.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

A red head beauty, and the imperfections of her freckledness are part of the appeal. Cute, humble face. Looks like a more attractive version of my old tomboyish co-worker.

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

Everyone on GaG wanted to deny the Absolute Sexiness of this chick but I stand by it. This is Sex on Legs 100%. Love the thickness and those heavy melons💗

I Am Not Attracted to Beautiful Women

If any "plain looking" girls on GaG would also like to share a photo or two, you are welcome to do so😄

#AverageGirls

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  • Everyone reading this mytake, what the mytake owner meant to say is that he's not attracted to "conventionally attractive" women. You can't control what you are and aren't attracted to. There's actually a big difference between what you consider "beautiful" and what is considered "conventionally attractive." Sorry the truth hurts but it is what it is... "Beautiful" is entirely subjective because it's based on a person's opinion. "Conventionally attractive" is objective because it's based on the beauty standards of the beauty/fashion industry and what most people consider universally attractive.

    Anyone who is bother by this myTake is either stupid, delusional or both. Most people on GAG have no room to talk against this. I bet the women who are offended by this myTake consider themselves attractive even though they aren't conventionally attractive because if they actually were conventionally attractive they wouldn't care about this myTake. The men attacking this myTake? I'm pretty sure 99.9% of them are very unlikely to settle for a conventionally attractive women and I think it's very likely that most of them have had a crush on one of those "ordinary looking" woman too. As a general rule of settling for a conventionally attractive woman, you would have to be conventionally attractive or filthy rich but most guys on here aren't either of those lol.

    • Wow! Perfectly put!👍👍👍

    • Thanks

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  • Many people don't buy the whole Mid West America White Girl beauty thing either. Basic white bitches I believe some may call them. The states dominates the mainstream media and the image it puts out as The Ideal is the mixed European heritage White girl. It's shoved down our throats everywhere you look so it doesn't surprise me that people get sick of it. I get sick of the male versions with their gym bodies and hairless chests and exact same haircuts. Boring as fuck. I prefer a face with some character, a body with some story behind it, something a bit more unique than the basic white gym boy.

    • Well put!

    • Thanks for the MHO 👍

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  • Great take. I have a few females friends that consider themselves as average looking but I think they're gorgeous. They always say they wish they can be like me and not wear any make up but I think it's mental because I don't think they need it either. I honestly hope a lot of girls will see this. I still see girls calling themselves ugly because they're comparing themselves to girls that are considered sexy and it's sad because every girl is beautiful. Society and media made up the word " ugly " same for guys.

    • "I still see girls calling themselves ugly because they're comparing themselves to girls that are considered sexy" - Exactly. I wanted to mention that but didn't want this Take to be too long.

  • I wonder how these average women feel when they find out you don't consider them beautiful.

    • I'm sure they'd be ecstatic as that's what every woman wants to hear isn't it?

    • @Silver158 I don't think you read me correctly.

    • I don't think my sarcasm came across correctly

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  • haha i get you.

    folks that spend all their time on their appearance rarely have interesting lives

  • Very interesting Take. Coincidentally, yesterday I happened to sit next to what was me the most attractive woman I have seen in a long time. I was attracted as could be to her, but even if I were single, I wouldn't have hit on her solely on the basis of her looks.

  • This Take was for sure interesting. On one hand, you say the women aren't good looking, just average, but on the other you say they're better. since I don't think I fit into the standard beauty ideal myself, I don't know whether to feel flattered or a bit insulted.
    Also, I feel like you're being a bit too judgmental about hot women. Lots of them have truly amazing personalities, aren't obsessed with their looks and are just great people all over. Every girl has something t offer besides her looks, it just depends what you'Re looking for.

    • No what I said was that "average" women are not considered beautiful by popular standards but are to me. And, yes, your looks would definitely be considered beautiful especially since you're blonde. Not all beautiful or hot women are stupid or uninteresting, but very few of them are. I would not at all say that LOTS of them have amazing personality.

    • ugh, i need to click on a new Take, this one has made me drop a few IQ points.

    • and thank God my man is smart, hot as hell, kind, funny, and loyal, and he appreciates me, my appearance and my persoanality. ooh, and no, he is not rich, i am not after his wallet. Shocker. He's all that matters to me, and thank God for that. You know how easy it will be for me to get rid of your beliefs? it is as easy as simply clicking the close button. i suppose you will say the same about me, but it will be too late by then. I will have moved on to a more intelligent discussion.

  • Yeah, because you turn them down regularly.

  • IME, most very good-looking women are either: stupid, shallow, gold-diggers, too much work, clueless how relationships work and really don't care. This seems to be a strong trend over 30 years.

    • Clarification: I've seen this strong trend over 30 years of dating. The single women in their 40s are single for a reason. They never really figured out the common denominator to all their failed relationships is them.

  • Average is beautiful... the more average you look the more beautiful you are. It's about familiarity.

    • Right. Well put.

    • Thank you

    • you're average. aren't you?

  • Just look at the women used in all these pictures (not one was one I looked at and said to myself, "I wouldn't fuck that")... each, could be something a man could grow to love depending on her personality and compatibility. But let's face it, if she's acting like a kunt... ain't nobody got time fo dat!

    What's beautiful is somewhat of a social construct, but 'healthy' is definitely a component. If we made them run a 1.5 mile run against one another, timed them, and then compared their looks to their times... you'd see a correlation.

    By this I mean... I'm dead certain the reason I'm a pimp instead of an incel is because I'm dead certain I'd outrun all these bitches. Out lift them. Outwork them. I mean just look at them... beatable.

    • what does look at them they r beatable

    • @AMEL2332 I agree... I think. (?_?)

    • no i meant what does " look at them they r beatable" mean

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  • Hmm this is very interesting indeed! But generally I think that you are not alone. I read a study that says that people in general find average faces more attractive than faces that are particularly striking. Go figure!

    • Wow really? Glad to know it.

  • "There's a lid for every pot."

  • Dammn! this MyTake actually made my day. I like how you were blunt (but in a good way) I wish more guys and other people would express the way that they feel about beautiful women. I to, love beautiful women, but for me they seem hard to approach.

    • that's because you make it hard to approach them. We are human too, what is so hard about it? afraid we are going to eat you or something?

  • Huh... interesting. I will say though, freckles are life, not flaws. <3

    Otherwise interesting take.

    • Exactly, I have them and I don't think they make me ugly.

  • So basically you like women with a bit of weight on them and because that's not considered conventionally attractive you think the rest of the world considers them 'not beautiful/average'. Most of those women you posted are pretty in one way or another.
    Oh and by University nuts I hope you don't mean educated.
    But this take is all your 'opinion' so I'm not here to argue.

    • They AREN'T considered universally attractive, no. "Oh and by University nuts I hope you don't mean educated." - By that I mean they have textbook smarts and that's it.

    • what other kind of smarts are there? Textbooks pretty much teach you everything about the world, and usually a person who can do well in university is smart in other areas as well. We all know your highest level of education was high school.

    • @DianaWest Something called life smarts. 'Textbooks teach you everything about the world.' Well, if that's as far as you can think then you've already failed lol! Life and this world are waaaay bigger than what textbooks are gonna tell you. "We all know your highest level of education was high school." - Actually, I have been to college😲

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  • Ha Ha Ha.. just kidding! You got me! Nice take dude!

  • beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

    • average women had to develop pesonality because they are average bro. as average dudes do. common sense.

    • They didn't HAVE to develop anything. They just did.

  • It's interesting that I seem to have much different preferences than a lot of guys.

  • But that means in your eyes the girls that are generally considered average looking are the good looking ones to you, while the ones that are generally considered good looking are the average looking ones to you. No?

    • Correct.

    • So you just have a different taste in looks than most guys?

    • I think I probably do, though I do know there are other men who feel exactly the same and would not be into the "beautiful" women either that I showed in the Take.

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  • Indian.
    My friends are pretty fair and one day this guy tells me, "It's like chess with more whites and one brown."

    • Wow.

    • Rude much?

  • The Latina with glasses looks A LOT like my friend's daughter, so much so I did a double take to make sure it wasn't her.

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