The last time I wrote a Mytake on strip clubs all hell broke lose. I formed lots of enemies and had to add at least five more members to my block list do to all the people I offended. I really cannot believe how narrow-minded people still are towards this subject nowadays. anyways this Mytake made sound like a rant but I'm just writing it out of boredom and hopefully I can help enlighten people on this. anyways here are the reasons why I will never stop visiting the strip clubs.
1. I need a break and have fun for once
I work hard from Monday to Friday and of course, I along with the vast majority of people out there would agree that any normal and sane human being that works this much during the week deserves to be rewarded with a quick getaway every now and then in order to drain out their daily stress and compensate their hard earnings. people have these getaways by...
• going out clubbing
• partying
• visiting their favorite bar for a few drinks
• eating out at their favorite fancy restaurant
• going out for a gamble at the casino
• going to the movies
and many other things that would be considered “fun” by these same vast majority of people. So, with that said visiting the strip clubs is one of my top favorite choices when it comes to having fun and escape my daily stress. so I really don't see how choosing to visit the strips as a getaway makes me a movie villain all of the sudden.
2. It’s not every day that I get to relax, drink, smoke and watch hot and sexy women dance naked all under the one roof.
Let’s be honest, what man would not want to do all these things in one place at the same time?
Anyways this is pretty much self-explanatory. At the strip club I can do all these things at once without getting in trouble or have regrets later in life. I can also pay a little extra if I want to take things to a whole new level and want to get a lap dance and come closer to the strippers. Also, the fact that strippers have the confidence to do these thing without it’s a major plus.
3. No, visiting the strip clubs does not mean I’m "lonely."
This was one of the top overly generalized misconceptions I received in the past Mytake I wrote on strip clubs.
Anyways it seems like so many people nowadays can’t tell the difference between loving someone or just being sexually attracted to that person. Therefore, they somehow get this idea that men who visit strip clubs go there to…
• Find love.
• Date the strippers.
• Feel wanted.
Or just simply make some sort of connection with the strippers. Obviously, these are the last things men think of when we visit the strip clubs. This is no different than saying that folks who hit the casinos go there to quit their day job and make gambling for money their new job. As I mentioned above we only hit these places to chill and have some fun, period!
The bottom line, if you’re a man and want to see the same tits and ass for the rest of your life then be my guess. But don’t you go judging and pointing fingers at me. Calling me things like “loner” all because I refuse to see this aspect from your point of view. Let's not forget that your needs to point fingers like this pretty much confirms that you're indeed the true lonely loser yourself. Seriously, if you believe that asserting to rejecting women makes you a bitter loner this obviously means that you cannot find true happiness and fulfillment in life on your own without relying on another person (male or female) to provide it for you.
4. No, strippers aren’t slaves and I support their services
Another misconception I got on my last mytake. There were a few people who hit me with over-emotional comments like…
“I feel sorry for those girls because I may be wrong, but I believe that most of them would take an honest job with their clothes on if it would pay what they make now to support their families.”
As if women nowadays are too stupid to choose these types of jobs themselves. Till then NO, I don’t live in a third world country so the chances of me doing business with a victim of human trafficking or sex slave are extremely minimal. once again I appreciate their services because not only do they…
• Take their clothes off for me.
• Show me a good time.
• Get intimate with me for a brief moment
But they also do all these things and let me be at peace afterward, something that non-strippers have a very tough time doing.
5. I am not asexual, therefore I enjoy being sexually attracted to the female body
Not too long ago my friend and I were having a conversation about how we men are forced to live life in the black and white nowadays. If a man frequents strip clubs, he is a...
• Pervert
• Misogynist
• Person who doesn’t see women as “human beings”
And much other nonsense. But if a man doesn’t check out or idolize a woman’s body in the other hand he is either
• Asexual
• Gay
• Lame
And many other derogatory terms. It seems like today as a man you’re gonna be poisoned no matter what. So, in this case, I think I rather be poisoned with the first one because at least I would enjoy that poison before it gets the best out of me. Let’s not forget that I’m not doing anything wrong either way, it’s not like I’m invading these women’s privacy by checking them out at public places on the down low such as…
• local gym showers
• dressing rooms
• in the privacy of their own home
all without their consent, something that would be pretty lame, meaningless and boring either way. Strippers, on the other hand, know what they are doing and automatically give me consent whenever I visit these places and I pretty much reward them for doing so.
6. it is not against my family or religion
I’m originally from the Dominican Republic and people down there are nowhere near as prude as we Americans are. Not only do people there not fear nudity, but they seem to be very open-minded towards men’s and their sexual needs. Often time to them the man who doesn’t check women out or idolize their body in any way will get scorned as being gay or just very lame.
I remember being very timid growing up and whenever I visited my family members who still reside there they would often tell me that they can’t wait till I turn 18 so they can take me to their local strip clubs hoping that being exposed to hot naked women would help me overcome my shyness.
So, with that said my family is very ok with me visiting strip clubs. I’m also single so I’m obviously not committing any type of infidelity when I visit these places. Lastly, I don’t worship any religion that forbidden me from visiting these places.
7. I'm still young and don’t believe in settling down(Aka surrender)
This was literally the last misconception I got in my last mytake.
I remember one of the female users stated in her opinion how she thinks visiting the strip club was a waste of money from her point of view and that why won’t I quit visiting these places and get a girlfriend with a high sex drive instead? I replied to her that I’m simply not ready to see the same pair of tits and ass every single day and of course she couldn’t digest this properly so moments before blocking me as way to tell me “you’re right, my views aren’t based on true logic and common sense” that she really thought ALL men in their 30s wanted to settle down.
Seriously, where exactly do any human being with at least one brain cell will get the idea that...
• All men in their 30s want to settle down?
• That all men must think the same way?
• Must change their standards with age?
Seriously, last time I checked age was nothing but a number and nobody is entitled to change over it. I even have a lot of elderly family members that tell me how they wish they can visit these places themselves if they were still young and single. I sure as hell don't want to live with these regrets when I do get old and come close to kicking the bucket.
So with that said I really don’t see any positive on why I should stop visiting these places
Conclusion
There you have it folks, my reasons why hitting to the strip clubs will always be one of my top favorite things to do on a fun night. its 2018 so I still having a tough time understanding why people (especially Americans) are still not open-minded about these places, because last time I checked stripping has existed since the dawn of humanity. since when have men not enjoy watching sexy women dance and show off what they have? the strip clubs aren't the only things that proof this, look at he porn industry, modeling magazines, and all other things that support women exhibiting their hotness and attractiveness.
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