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Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

Well,hello everyone.

it's me again.

So lately on GaG I've seen many guys anonymously asking "Why girls suddenly block them on social media yet they did nothing 'wrong' to them?"

So I got inspired & thought I should give you some reasons that girls ghost you,block you or ignore you that you guys DON'T CONSIDER 'wrong'.

I guess it's a triggering topic and some of you will be offended,but that won't stop me from revealing the harsh truth.

Disclaimer :

This MyTake's purpose isn't to offend someone on this site, if you do get offended it's your problem not mine.

Let's Start.

Things You Should Never Do When You Approach A Girl Online

1) Do Not Try To Make The Conversation Sexual From The First Second.

Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.
Every girl's expression when a guy sends them right away sexual messages.

Many guys approach a girl and their first message to them are things like :

"U make me hard."

"My balls are huge."

"I want to f*ck you."

"My d*ck is 25 inches,wanna suck it?"

Congratulations for being so blessed by god...

But we don't care,at all.

And the way that you are trying to turn us on has only one result and that is to annoy us.

I understand that you are in the mood,everyone is at some point of our day is BUT stop pointing it out and sending messages like this,it's offensive and really annoying.

2)Do Not Try To Turn The Conversation Into Sexting From The 3rd second.

"Oh god,not again!"

This is also something that many guys do,they send messages to a girl,have a casual-normal conversation with them for like 2 minutes...

AND THEN BAM they start talking extremely kinky and sexually.

The conversation just takes a 360° unpleasant turn.

From : "How are you?"

You went to :"I want to tie you up and make you scream my name."

Yeah,SLOW DOWN.

Maybe you think that because she answers you,she automatically likes you?I don't know.

But you have to understand that there is a difference between being polite and wanting to sext with a stranger online,and believe me it's a BIG one.

(At this point I want to say that I never understood why you guys do that by the way.)

3)Do Not Ask About Their Sexual Life.

"Is this guy for real?"

"Are you a virgin?"

"Do you have sex with your boyfriend?"

"How many guys have you had sex with?"

IT'S NOT YOUR BUSSINESS.

This is a personal information that we don't share with many people that we are actually close with,what makes you believe that we'll share this information with you a.k.a a horny stranger online?

Exactly.

NO LOGIC.

You should never go for personal informations like these with someone you've never met before,especially a girl.

4)Don't Insist.

This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)
This is a real example. (No Idea why I haven't blocked him yet.)

If you see that someone does not answer,stop insisting cause it gets extremely creepy.

And before you start attacking me on this one,yes it's somewhat rude for her not answer your messages,ever.

But in our (girls) defense,we get so many messages everyday we can't answer to anyone that decide to just approach us.

So...Move on to the next one boys!

-END.

AngelicSin

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not a woman's problem to educate idiotic men who don't know how to communicate. But this is what happens on the daily especially on Instagram. Women love to show off how men are crude, stupid, uneducated, creepy horny.. yes I said creepy horny.. and forget totally about wanting to find a real relationship for themselves. You won't ever find one if you entertain or try and educated dumb asses... or take your eye off the ball. You have one life to live.. tomorrow is never promised. Ladies... concentrate on the men you are interested in and forget about the rest. It's a total mind fuck that you would even entertain these stupid MF's. Rant over... Nice take.. LOVE YA..

    • Loool

  • Sad that someone needs to post these, written out, in detail!!
    Even sadder, is the fact that the 'offenders' are too ignorant to read and/or understand these!
    So tired of so many 'Knuckle-draggers' here!!
    I want to believe your post will help, but to them, I doubt it will!!
    Maybe wait, three months, and then try a pop-up version, with a lot of pictures, for the 'Monkeys'!! :) :)
    Thanks for trying. . .

    • Lol at least I' a good Samaritan

    • Oh, I know, and I applaud your desire to try!! How long have you been on here? After a while you get it! Most cannot be helped!! I stay for those few that I can connect with, and chat, like evolved beings!

Most Helpful Girls

  • This, unfortunately, won't stop all the numerous pervs from doing what they do because they simply don't care.

    • True but I had to be a good samaritan and try

    • @AngelicSin: Thank you for the MHG. :)

  • So basically: don't be a social retard lol. Good take.

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  • BRAVO Ms Anagelic. You're right on the mark, as always! :) Couldn't have said it better myself... lol

    • Lol thank you

  • Things you should never do to a girl online?
    1: Say "hey baby, let's meet... I'm thinking 3 am, the old abandoned silo out of town or that rocky crevice out in the woods?"
    2: Send a dick pick
    3: Mention the parts fridge

  • I wasn't even aware there was a private messaging feature! After seeing those screencaps, I wonder if I should even be here..

  • Great points... I get tired of having guys approach me on line with precisely one thing on their mind !!!

  • You were spot-on, UNTIL you get to #4.

    You see, a lack of response leads many guys to think that their message was not received, so they try and try again and again.

    If you politely have a canned automatic message saying "Thank you for your message but I am getting so many I may not respond soon..." that will do a world of good.

    Or heck, a blunt but polite "thanks but no thanks". Yes, there IS the risk the guy will respond like an asshole, but for most of us, at least we know our message of interest was at least received and reviewed.

    (By the way guys, when you are turned down, always reply to the effect of "Thank you anyway. At least SOMEONE is reading my messages!")

  • Figures it has to do with the sexual crap. Not a surprise at all. The way I see it that's online sexual harassment. As for "moving on to the next one", they might as well just quit altogether. Better to quit and stop trying altogether. Online dating is a mess anyways, but if somebody insist on trying, help themselves. It's just one of those things where "your mileage may vary". Better to just go join a local social club or something instead and you'll have a better time instead of wasting it on dating websites.

  • I noticed you didn't say "no dick pics". THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING

    • I'll save her the trouble... No... we don't want to see pictures of your dick !!!

    • @CindyRuns Trust me - everybody wants to see pictures of my dick. I'm unusually small. It's a curiosity

  • As someone who has met and had sex with a woman on Tumblr in person, be aware that women don’t typically want to just say yes to sex without getting to know you first. We probably chatted 3-4 weeks before we set a time. I have also Kik sexted with someone in a shorter timeframe, maybe a couple of hours, but it certainly didn’t start with “hey b****, wanna f***!” We chatted about what we liked and didn’t like and then I rolled that into a story like you would read in a dirty romance novel. We even traded pictures, but I set the mood first.

    • While a woman can send you a dirty picture and get you hard, getting a girl to do this online or not involves seduction and imagination. You have to spin a story that will endear her to you. An 8 inch cock with 3 inches of girth isn’t what she’s interested in

    • Still, if a girl is smart she knows that you are just grooming her for the sex question. Maybe some women are wanting sex too, but the good girls are more wanting a relationship which is based on love, not sex.

  • R. I. P. fuckbois who do this all the time.

  • well thanks a lot for pointing the blatently obvious, i was expecting something more intellectual..

    • Sadly though it isn't that obvious since so many men do it every single day lol

    • No it isn’t that, we simply don’t care. I’m not following any rules 🤫

    • Good for you, now get off my post you annoy me

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  • That all sounds pretty lame stuff. It seems pretty obviously amateurish. But I wonder how m any girls say yes?

    • Very little to none

    • @AngelicSin Not so true... Many guys have done the experiment, where they create a fake profile, featuring a very good looking guy and they say those things you've mentioned in your thread (even worse than that) and the amount of women who reply and actually are ok with that behavior is by far not "little to none". I am not saying that you are one of them, but don't be so sure about the amount of women who actually reply to those men if those men are hot. If you don't believe me, try that experiment yourself. I believe in what you say on your thread though. Many men have a despicable attitude when it comes to online dating.

  • So have I been a Good boy so far.. 😘.. 😂🤣😂🤣
    Or should, I go bad..

  • you forgot 5 and that is...

    5) don't send her pics of your dicks

    which is what most dudes like to do nowadays. the rest of what you said was pretty much common sense

    • Only lame asses send dick pics. Those who can't get a girl with their personality and who have limited social skills. News Flash - the dick pics don't work either.

    • @TrixiePooch I agree all the way except for the personality and social skill part. Its actually the looks that matter the most in the online world.

    • And then some people wonder why they marry someone who looks good but has the personality of a dead toad and the brains of a turnip.

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  • Experiment most every man has tried... Create a dating profile, some super attractive douche of a man, abs, high income, blue eyes etc. Annnnd wait for the nastiest, RAUNCHIEST shit from women to end up in your inbox.

    Be great if everyone stopped being full of shit and just get to the damned point. How many people have missed their person because someone wanted to play some stupid assed game? Bitch you want some damned dick too everyone once and a while! Christ with the games, and tests!

    • Excuse me but are you blind? stupid? delusional? When did I ever said that women don't want sex? I actually wrote that we get in the mood everyday. Lmao

    • You're the blind one sweetie. Then again reading your responses to the other men here, yeaaa you don't give a shit. You have a preconceived notion, maybe some dude made you made and you came here to rant. You haven't actually LISTENED to what we are saying to you. 'RWAR follow my rules, when speaking to me!" Let me say it slowly K? WE. DON'T. BELIEVE. YOU. WHAT. YOU. TELL. US. AND. WHAT. YOU. DO. ARE. TWO. SEPARATE. THINGS. YES. WE. KNOW. YOU. WOMEN. LIKE. DICK. BUT. WE. ALSO. KNOW. THAT. THESE. RULES. ONLY. APPLY. TO. CERTAIN. MEN. HENCE. MY. ABOVE. STATEMENT.

    • You should reeallyyy calm down, heart attacks are really often at your age don't want anything bad happen to ya

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  • Nothing offensive with your take in my opinion. And most of those are common sense.. I guess it’s not that “common” then lol

  • So true!!! This real example of a stalker is every girl living nightmare! Great take!

    • Yeap, thankk you

  • thank you

  • Or just like don't message her unless you've already spoken to her a bit outside of whatever chat you're using.

    Unless she's chill as fuck, or you yourself are hot as fuck, she's gonna get scared regardless of what you talk about.

  • Great
    I just stay nice and kind like always
    by the way congrats on the editor title :)

  • I don't approach women online anymore. Online dating was waste of time

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