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Ever questioned #WhyMe and why do you keep falling for the same bad habits? I’ve fallen for many guys in life and these are the mistakes I realized I continued to make.
1. The Jailbaits & Jailmates
Lol I know it sounds weird but for a girl who prefers someone her age, she kept falling for guys out of her age range, particularly those who were younger. Don’t worry, we were all of legal age aha. And to most of you, this wouldn't even count as a “gap”. I always wanted someone my exact age or possibly 1 year older. And although thats what I mostly stuck to, there were some slipups. At least 5 great guys i met were 2-3 years younger than me. Smh. And omg, when that stopped, the older gaps started. I was falling for guys who were 5-10 years older than me. None of these guys were really on the same page as me in terms of wanting the same things at the same time in life.
2. The Justice “Out of My” League
I’d consider myself like a 6.5 and I usually go for 7s and 8s cause I feel they’re more in league. Yet, I have the weakness that everyone has when theyre starstruck 😍 I couldn’t stop falling for 9s. Yea they always acted flirty with me but we never made it to relationship status. There were at least 4. I mean, i tried. But the attention I got out of them was better than none. I literally almost pulled Superman Rob and Batman River 😭🙌
3. The Going the Distance
No matter how badly I tried to keep it in the zone, i kept pulling up at autozone. I continued to fall for guys who lived hours away, regardless if they were in my state or out of state. Then it sucked cause we were both always carless. Like wtf man!! When you have no car, its hard to go far
4. The Dying Family Ties
I’m big on family although mine have been acting an ass lately. I was hoping to find a guy who was a loner but still spent lots of time with family. Yet i always got the opposite. There was my ex whos mom didn't claim him and left him at diff fam members house. Then there was the one whos drill sergeant dad scared him into not wanting to have a family of his own one day. And then there's my current whos fam only notices him when they feel a “new gf” threatens to replace them.
5. The Fussers & Cussers
Apparently I have a thing for arguing. Its like if you dont argue, the relationship gets a bit boring. And if its not the arguments, then its the guys who can't catch a break with the cusswords. Like omg use your substitute words Mr!!
6. The Chocolate Lovers
I didn't think it could get much worse than the amount of black guys who told me my eyes werent light enough and that my booty wasn't big enough. Ha, I remember when I used to get all cheeky when a guy of another race was interested in us black chicks. But I prefer the ones who hardly reminded you of how different your skintone was from theirs.
Instead I always got stuck with the “Omg I never f*cked a black girl before. Are yalls pssys as tight and do you have pink npples too? Im sure you have a big booty because come on, you're black! Omg I bet you're a great dancer! Should we name our future babies Shaniqua? Is this your hair real? You should try color contacts. Wow I thought you’d live in the hood, but your house is really nice. I’d date a black chick but not marry one because my family doesn't want me to.”
7. The Impatiently Not Waiting
I kept wanting guys who’d wait til i was ready to have sex. But I kept ending up guys who didn't even wanna wait up to 90 days. Freakin ridic ugh!! And they were so dang sexy too, bt I’m not tryna give up the cooch to just anybody
8. The Fever for the Nonbelievers
I’m a Christian, but used to say I’d date someone nonChristian, however I preferred they still believe in God. Even when i was ok with them not believing in God, it was still a struggle. I got tired of them questioning my beliefs.
9. The No School No Rules
My ex got his GED but that was after failing the same grade 3 times in a row. My current boyfriend may not even graduate college on time and it pisses me off a bit cause I take school seriously. I won't even go on about the other guys who didn't make it to college. There was one who made it through several professions but he wouldn't stop going to school lol. He just kept going for degree after degree. He had like a bachelors for several majors. And if it wasn't about degrees and diplomas, i kept falling for guys who felt skipping school was cool. Ugh
10. The Big Boys Dont Cry
I don’t want a guy who cries during movies like the Notebook and Titanic, but it would be nice to have someone who isn't afraid to show their emotions. I have to pry it out of these men. They think its weak to cry when in a moment of need. But I dont see it that way. I need someone who will break down with me and hold me at the same
11. The Broken Gaydar
Gosh I don’t even want to think about this one. No offense to some guys who i helped “get off” in the past with my dirty words... but um, I’m willing to say whatever it takes to make em bust a nut. Anyways, I’m not into this kinky eat a guys booty, stick a finger in his butt stuff, dominatrix crap. Its just not me. And then when this one guy told ne he made out with a guy as a dare to make sure he wasn't gay. Like what the actual fck...
12. Finders but Not Keepers
So my friends say we don’t have the same type. Well, why is it the guys I like either choose my friends over me, cheat on me with my friends/enemies, or that friend tries to get at my man. Like wtf. Whats mine is mine! Not whats yours is mine
#FeelFreeToList below the mistakes you continue to make (regardless of the list above) and list the types you #PickAndChoose
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