Love and Relationships are dead. R.I.P!!!Modern Dating World
To understand what I mean, you gotta realize how dating has changed. The Dating Scene is a shadow of it's former self. People use app like Tinder and stuff, to just sleep with lots of people. People have "fuckbuddy" relationships where they use each other for sex. Relationships are avoided by young people. So in the Modern dating world, relationships are cancer to most people, and they would rather just have sex with FWBs and hookup all the time. Of course, Guys being biologically wired to sleep around, are going to take advantage of this, and they do contribute to the death of relationships, however, ultimately, most of the blame falls on girls. This is because women have all the power when it comes to sex. So if girls stopped engaging in hooking up and stuff, relationships would become a necessity again - this is why I feel that girls don't really want relationships as they have the power to put and end to hookup culture yet they allow it to thrive. And hey, there's nothing wrong with having sex, hooking up can be great I'm sure, but if it's destroying meaningful relationships, that's when it becomes a problem.
Birth control took the risk factor out of casual sex for women. It empowered women to have sex for fun. To have carefree sex just for their pleasure. It's not that women have "changed" in that they now want to have sex with lots of guys and sleep around and stuff. Women always wanted that but fear of pregnancy prevented them from doing it. Thanks to birth control, women have the same sexual power as guys and yes, they take full advantage of that. For every guy who is sleeping around and just wants sex, there is a girl just like him. Many girls just want sex and want to sleep around. Girls even encourage their friends to go get laid and stuff like that. Basically, when it comes to sex, Guys and Girls now treat it the exact same way - a fun commodity. Does that mean girls are bad and are whores? Of course not. It just means that thanks to birth control women now treat sex exactly like Guys do. And that's harmful to monogamy and relationships in general. This is because girls no longer save sex for marriage or even relationships, they no longer have anything to lose by hooking up with many guys and so that's what they do. The truth of the matter is that relationships are no longer needed to enjoy sex and that's why many young people don't want relationships anymore, why would they when they can have 4 fuckbuddies and be free to have lots and lots of sex, without having to put any effort in or having to commit to one person! So empowering women sexually is great sure, but relationships pay the price. Because if girls didn't do anything casual guys would be forced to date her to get sex and of course he would most likely fall for her in the process. Less casual sex would mean more meaningful relationships.
It's no secret that Religion is dying. Fast. Especially with young people. Many young people are Atheists and most young people aren't too Religious. Religion enforces sexual morals in people, and makes things like casual sex, sleeping around and porn "immoral" things. But now seen as no one cares about Religion and therefore morals, these things are just accepted and embraced. Thus, sex has absolutely no meaning and the human body is just a pleasurable piece of meat. Thanks to pornography, the female body is literally a sexual object to most young guys. I happen to think that is disgusting and girls deserve better but then again I think girls enjoy being sexual objects in guys' minds. After all, girls wear push up bras, yoga pants, revealing clothing to enforce sexual desire in guys. Girls post raunchy pics on Instagram to get likes and stuff - not to mention girls watch porn a lot and willingly do porn so maybe they also like the objectification of women. Anyways, sexual morals have been destroyed and sex is no longer seen as a special thing. So, as a result, young people spend their time fucking around rather than looking for love. This isn't really Girls fault but its a factor in the death of relationships, so I thought I would also include it.
Thanks to Feminism, many girls want a good career. That's OK. However this affects dating. Many college girls are so busy with school and work, they don't have time for relationships. But they still want sex, as all humans do. So then they have casual sex with guys to fill that void. Nothing wrong with that but it also hurts monogamy and relationships overall.
That's about it. I hope this makes sense to you. It is a fact that relationships and dating are in a sorry state and there are reasons for that. I hope I have explained them well enough here. Girls are not perfect AT ALL. They're animals, just like men are. So guys are also to blame. So overall, both guys and girls act like wild animals these days, with no morals.The truth of the matter is that girls like sex...so why WOULDN'T they have lots of it? It's not their fault but it just so happens relationships and monogamy are hurt in the process but then again...maybe that's what girls want. Girls have all the power when it comes to sex and now we see how they choose to use that power - by having rampan casual, meaningless sex, like animals.
What do you think!?
And please no one get offended, especially girls. This is just my take on why relationships are dead/dying. If you think other reasons are also to blame, please share them! Thanks for reading!