Attention Ladies: Breast Size Does Not Matter

Your breasts are your own breasts. Don't feel ashamed of them.
Your breasts are your own breasts. Don't feel ashamed of them.

Believe it or not, but breast size does not always matter.

In response to an anonymous young lady's question about what guy's truly think of small breasts, I felt compelled to write this article. As Westerners and Americans in particular, we live in a culture where size truly does matter. From larger homes and cars to larger servings on our dinner plates, unfortunately often resulting in larger waistlines, bigger is often valued as better. In some instances, such as in the case of breast size, this very same attitude is applied toward the female body. Well, while the majority of men prefer larger breasts, I'm here to speak up as one who feels differently.

Not All Men Care About Breast Size

Some men are not even sexually attracted to breasts.
Some men are not even sexually attracted to breasts.

Different men have different sexual preferences, and while the majority of them prefer larger breasts, it should be understood that not all men care about breast size nor is the size of your breasts necessarily a dealbreaker. Speaking for myself, I am not even sexually attracted to breasts at all regardless of their size. This is not very common, but breasts do not arouse me at all. I am among the few males in the world who feel no sort of sexual attraction toward breasts whatsoever.

This is not very common, but breasts do not arouse me at all. I am among the few males in the world who feel no sort of sexual attraction toward them whatsoever.

It goes without saying then that if breasts do not arouse me, that the size of them does not matter. That is not to say that I am repulsed by breasts or that I would make no effort to include them in sexual activity if that were what my partner wanted, but in terms of my own sexuality, breasts do not bring me any sort of pleasure whatsoever nor do I have any desire to engage in any sort of activity with them. Simply put, there are other parts of the female anatomy that matter much more to me.

I Care Much More About Your Ass, Legs, and Feet

I am much more sexually attracted to the lower half of a woman.
I am much more sexually attracted to the lower half of a woman.

Not all sexual preferences are the same, and while I cannot speak for all men, I am much more sexually attracted to the lower half of a woman than I am her breasts. The ass, legs, and feet are much more important to me than the size of her breasts. I would much rather be engaging in sexual activity that involves these female body parts than anything that involves the breasts. In fact, sexual activity involving the breasts brings me no sort of pleasure whatsoever, but again, I would still give them attention if that were what my partner desired for her own pleasure.

It is hard to explain, but I have a massive fetish for women's feet. The sight of a woman barefoot or in flip-flops has the same sort of primal, drool-inducing, hypnotic effect upon me that cleavage has upon men who like breasts.

It is hard to explain, but I have a massive fetish for women's feet. The sight of a woman barefoot or in flip-flops has the same sort of primal, drool-inducing, hypnotic effect upon me that cleave has upon men who like breasts. Granted, while the majority of men might not feel the same way, it does prove that not all sexual preferences are the same. It needs to be understood that even aside from foot fetishism, a large percentage of the male population prefers the ass or lower half of a woman.

Receiving Bras is Still Incredibly Sexy Though

Even though I am not sexually attracted to breasts, I do still like receiving bras.
Even though I am not sexually attracted to breasts, I do still like receiving bras.

Even though I am not sexually attracted to breasts, I do still like receiving bras. This might seem contradictory, but it has to do with the intimacy involved, and, as degrading as this may seem, the idea of keeping a trophy from my partner. To receive a bra from my partner is an incredibly sexy and meaningful gift that arouses me not necessarily because of her breasts, but because of the intimacy involved, the fact that it is such a personal and sexualized item, as well as the idea of being able to keep it as a trophy regardless of breast size. If you are uncertain about your breast size, you should try slipping your partner one of your bras as a sexy little surprise. Men love to receive used bras and panties from their partners for the same reasons I explained above, and doing so might help you to become more confident in your own body and breast size.

In Conclusion...

I don't want to lie or mislead you. The majority of men do like breasts and larger breasts. But the point is that not all men like breasts or care about breast size, and even among those who do, having small breasts is not necessarily a dealbreaker anymore than hair or eye color. There are countless men who, despite preferring larger breasts, are still able to love and cherish their partner's breasts for what they are regardless of size, in the same way that fantasizing over your favorite male celebrity does not necessarily make you any less attracted to your real life boyfriend or husband. Similarly speaking, there are also men like myself, fetishists or otherwise, who prefer the lower half of the female body. In conclusion, the point I am trying to make is that having small breasts does not necessarily mean that you do not have options or that it is the end of the world. It is most certainly a handicap in the same way that I have to deal with the burden of being short, but it does not have to define you nor does it mean that you are doomed forever.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Most men do prefer bigger breasts but I've found that some men can "prefer" one thing but still be just as happy and satisfied with a woman who may not meet that specific preference. I think in most cases, it's the overall package that matters much more. I don't know many men who date a woman ONLY for her breast size.

    If a man loves 36D size breasts but a woman who's a 32B and has a beautiful face and great personality comes into the picture, he can still find her attractive and be satisfied in a relationship with her. At least, that's how it's been in my experience as a woman with a smaller chest. I used to be really insecure about it but now I couldn't care less. It's never stopped me from getting a boyfriend and I've never gotten any complaints about my size.

    • most of us do "prefer" bigger breasts but there's a healthy limit + for myself i'm fine with smaller breasts as long as it's not completely flat because i still want to know i'm touching a woman.

    • When i saw the woman i love for the first time months ago truthfully speaking i was checking her breasts out because she had an open top on but she also has gorgous legs and a nice ass too. She is the total package. Looks brains a good kind caring heart

    • @RobLovesDemi19771992 that's great! :)

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  • To me they don't. I love my small B-cup, puffy tits and I am the only one that needs to like them. If others accept them, fine and welcome. I will not spend $$$ to have augmentation for something I love just for the sake of pleasing others.
    Furthermore, breast augmentation bears risks. I am not talking about those about a job by the plastic surgeon gone wrong but more about later back pain because of the unnatural position that has to be taken to balance out this extra weight

    • I accept them😍😁

    • great, that makes 2 of us and they just reacted to your comment ;-)

    • Perfect opinion! Plus, there are some limitations on flights with implants, I think.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am one of the men who prefers larger breasts on women, yes. But even in that I feel like I'm out of the loop because I really like super huge breasts that are what a lot of guys feel is too much even for them. But I like them natural and look better on thicker women.

    Women with smaller breasts don't bother me, they can still be very hot, and I'm not gonna put them down, but because I like women with fuller bodies anyway it only makes sense for large breasts to come with that. Enormous breasts just make me feel really passionate and homey as weird as that sounds. So even in my choices I still feel out of the loop, especially that I'm not an ass man either while a lot of guys are. I don't care about butts, breasts are superior to me.

    Attention Ladies: Breast Size Does Not Matter
  • I agree with a lot of it. When it comes to breast size, what I DON'T like are really BIG breasts !! I don't find them attractive, in fact, quite the opposite. Attractions are different for every man. BIG butts are "in" now - I don't like it. I like curvy, round, smaller butts but they don't have to be "bubble butts" (those ARE special though!) A woman's butt is accentuated, or not, by her back curve too. I like that a lot, if she has it. If not, no big deal. Her overall appearance is what does it for me. Face, hair, lips, her legs and feet right back up to her hands and nails. Does she take care of herself? Breast size is way, way, way down on MY list.

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  • What planet that had no women were you born on? 90% of men like big boobs for some insane reason. But looking at divorces, I''m thinking they get a divorce when they start hanging too low and marry a girl with small, but still perky, breasts.

    • I am busty and I felt like this is an insult. Just because a man likes big boobs doesn't mean he likes ONLY those on a girl ( beside her boobs he likes her personality, eyes, the way she loves him) Maybe those will be saggy. My gradma is 70 and busty and she has been exercising her whole life and her breasts still aren't saggy. Its not like a man will leave a woman just because one of the things he liked on her are not atractive anymore. Only if he married u for just that one thing and thats unlikely.

    • Its pretty funny and kind of pathetic to be honest, to claim that divorces occur because wifes tits gets saggy and the man can't get over it. Im sure it does happen but rarely. Msot of the women in my family are busty and they are not divorced

    • I have big boobs too, and I was just generalizing. Of course all men are not like that. But the media and sites like Instagram and magazines tend to promote big boobs so guys just go for it.

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  • So lame, let women feel how they want to feel a out their boobs and keep out of it.

    You read my mind tonight. A plastic surgeon friend of mine has to tell the husband to leave the room because he is trying to remodel his wife as Barbie 2. 0 after babies.

    Some plastic surgeons just allow the boyfriend or whoever to pick implant size and other things while the woman sits there and says yes dear.

    But Dude, it’s her body. Don’t be trying to put DDD on a 112 lbs woman. It ruins quality of life.

    My boobs aren’t that big but I’d kill for just a B cup. They can’t be reduced that small unless I have cancer threat.

  • I agree don’t obsess over the breasts.

  • I had small A cup boobs before I got prego in 2017.

    Guys I would date would comment to me when we were at the mall about how they wished I had big tits like the girl that just went by. Usually a girl with an hourglass figure. Big D cup boobs, 36" hips, curvy butt, narrow waist (24"), and a sexy curvy flat tummy, usually with a sexy bulge in the bikini area up front.

    After I was prego, my boobs are CC cup but I also put on 60+ pounds.

    Guys always stare at my big boobs but don't like me fat

    • go to the gym if you have some spare time. also, find someone who doesn't care about your breast size but still go to the gym, obesity is not something you should live with.

  • I have A cups.
    My man is a boob guy and likes them big. Early in our relationship he made comments about my boobs. i was too insecure and young at the time to stand up for myself.
    It’s in the past now but it makes me wonder. If you’re so unhappy with my breasts, why would you even go out of your way to get me like you did? He chased ME. He wouldn’t give up when I said I wasn’t interested.
    I suppose that’s what you mean by size doesn’t matter. Even though he hated my breasts he still thought I was worth the effort.
    Confusing

    • A cup girls look great when they're 18, and they still look great when they're 78. And I've had both. Consider yourself lucky; gravity is a bitch.

    • I like a cups too. As long as she is a good athlete

  • What if you’re practically flat chested like me
    I weigh 95 lbs I’m a size 2 in clothes it’s quite hard for me to gain weight
    And I’m basically flat chested and I KNOW that’s unappealing

  • Girls, remember: cupcakes are still cakes.

  • I'm a boobs man and do like bigger breasts, but smaller ones are fine, too.

  • Of course breast size wouldn't be a dealbreaker in most cases.
    A guy not being attracted to breasts at all is even worse for me than the one who prefers large. It may seem very strange for you, but look: I want my man to be attracted to my bust. Not just accept them while prefering other body parts. Not caressing them because he thinks I want it, but because HE wants it. And like you stated, most men prefer big tits. So yeah, for someone with small ones this is a really bad situation. So I can only live with it or get implants

    • Guys feel the same about their penises. Worst thing a woman can say “it’s fine”- great, glad you don’t think it’s bad, but we want the girl to be turned on by it as well...

    • @Trippintfout It's a stereotype that women care about length or girth or anything. Penis is a penis, they are all equally attractive. But I see that you understood what I wrote, so yes, breast size matter

    • That’s like saying boobs are boobs. Saying a penis is just a penis means you don’t have a strong sexual preference one way or the other, but many women do, and more than ever before. Guys don’t post about dumping girls for boob size, or cheating because they aren’t satisfied with the quality of sex they have, yet women post that all the time and that their ideal is 7 of better (like 10% of the population). Men don’t have hang ups about their stuff all on their own, it’s women making us feel this way with comments along the way. So while you may not agree, realize many women feel differently

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  • Most men do NOT prefer large breasts. I have conducted two polls on this site, received over 1.000 responses and the results were consistent. About 25% of men prefer big breasts - 36D or larger. About 25% of men prefer small breasts - 34C or smaller. About 50% of men have no preference.

  • I’d prefer my partner to be a boob man because for me personally because it is a big pleasure zone.

    But I do think you’re right, cup size is not a big deal. I am however pretty well endowed in that area.

    • Boobs are amazing and all guys love them boob guy or not. My girlfriend has the cutest boobs and I love them

    • I don't know you, but I like the way you talk!

  • You say a majority prefer large breasts. Many do, but I wouldn't say most. I've seen just as many not simply be fine with small breasts but prefer small boobs over big boobs and like small more. Don't forget, big breasts stick out more, but small boobs are often 'perkier" so both have their pros and cons. I don't care and like boobs in general, as long as the woman isn't flat chested, I'm fine. Plus I'm more of an ass man anyway.

  • Breast size doesn’t matter

    But breast shape does

  • Breast doesn't matter to SOME men, but for other men it may matter. There are some men who prefer bigger breast or only want to date women with big breast.

  • My gal could have a small set and I would still be over the moon about her. I would love her as the 'whole package' - boobs are only a small part.

    This is kind of like the 'size matters' for me - huh? Some women - maybe most like a big guy, while other women really don't care about the size of his crank.

  • I don't care much about breast size, as long as it is breasts and not pecs.

    The last girl I was with has small breasts, B's I think. The one before was DD. I was equally obsessed with both of them.

  • I like breasts... the size never has mattered... it is the person inside that counts.

  • Tell that to my exes...

    • Shape is important tho, do you want us to give you an opinion? :))

    • Not round for sure... try a little saggy with big areolas lol

    • :o :)

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  • "Men love to receive used bras and panties from their partners"

    You're a Buffalo Bill in the making...

  • Even if big boobs really do it for you, most women don’t have them. I’ve been with mostly b cups, just like women have mostly been with 5-6 inch guys. While I like bigger boobs they are not a requirement at all, and doesn’t make a woman any less attractive...

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