This shouldn't take too long.
I see a lot of posts here on GaG,
usually from females, that ask advice on whether a particular guy who talked to them or has texted them is trying or was trying to "trick" them into sex. It's usually accompanied by a lengthy (too lengthy, often) explanation of the surrounding affairs that lead them to being all twitterpated and cornfuzzled about why he would ask them so many times for sex when they're not so clear on the idea of whether they want it with him.
...*facepalm*
1) Guys ask for sex because they want it. That's like asking why you'd ask for a chocolate bar-- because you want it. I can't believe anyone could even be confused about that. "But, but why does he KEEP asking?" Um... because he wants it and he's hoping you'll change your mind. Duh.
2) People. Huddle up here-- There is no such thing as someone "tricking" you into sex. Being tricked is what happens when somebody Rick Rolls you online or sticks a soda into your six-pack of beer and you didn't notice or says they washed your car when they didn't. Getting a dick inside you is not something that happens as a result of "tricking"-- that happens because you wanted it to happen. And if you DIDN'T want it to happen, that's called sexual assault. Were you sexually assaulted? No? Then what are you talking about.
I'm amazed this needs to be said--
Take responsibility for your actions. It's your body and you choose what to do with it. If you want to have sex with someone, and they want to too, then do it. If you don't, then don't. Holy bloody fucking hell this is simple.
Getting mad after the fact that you didn't get everything emotionally that you wanted out of the other person, guy or girl, does. not. mean. that you were tricked in any way.
"But- but @Anon-ymous1! What if they TELL LIESSSSSS? ? ? ?!1 !!!! ? Like that they would be with me forever, or move in with me, or never even glance at another member of the opposite sex again except me, or buy me a pony? And then they didn't do that thing afterward? So that must mean they tricked me right?"
*pinches bridge of nose and squints in obvious mental discomfort*
If you are only having sex with someone because you think a checklist of conditions on your mental clipboard has been met ahead of time, then you didn't actually want to *have sex* in the first place... what you actually wanted was all that other stuff. So, again, refer back to ^ that part up there-- if you want to have sex, then do. If you don't, don't. It's your body, and you choose what to do with it. Acting like a little kid by hemming and hawing about being "tricked" is absurd. It's ridiculous. It makes you look crazy. Note: SOMEtimes, guys do this too, and the situation is no different; they look equally ridiculous. It simply seems that girls talk about this far more.
If someone tells you things ahead of time that will happen as a result of having sex with them, and those things don't end up happening later, THEN DON'T HAVE SEX WITH THEM AGAIN AND BLOCK THEIR FUCKING NUMBER if that's what you want to do. They may be a crummy person in your mind, but you weren't "tricked," because you still willingly chose to have sex with them. You're actually just patronizing yourself if that's what you think happened.
~ Thanks for your cooperation. Hugs and kisses.
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