There is a stereotype that gay men give better head, and that gay guys have more and better sex. However, I have learned that the definition of good sex is dependent on the individual rather than the gender.
Women go through the exact same stereotype. There is a persistent stereotype in the media that lesbians have more orgasms, and that stereotype is also skewed because lesbians simply focus more on clitoral stimulation. It isn't because women are better at having sex than men. Women are more likely to communicate what they want and need in bed with another woman.
My experiences sleeping with women have been negative and positive. Many women that I sleep with associate sex with penetration, and many women that I sleep with always want me to orgasm. Very few women view sex as more than just penetration. We can do oral. We can touch. We can kiss. There are many other things we can do. We can use vibrators. However, society doesn't teach young women and men about sex ed in their early years unless you live in the Netherlands.
With men, I have found that men tend to have a broader definition of sex. Gay men tend to associate sex with intimate touch. Some of the past men that I have had sex with, I have never penetrated. However, intimate touch was involved. I think this is because spontaneous gay sex isn't a thing. I can't penetrate a guy without a lot of preparation before hand.
Therefore, gay men are forced to broaden their definition of sex if they want to have sex. Then there are instances where I have had sex with overly aggressive men that wanted to simply orgasm and be done. These men viewed sex as a means to and end rather than an experience.
Overall, I would say that I have had positive and negative experiences with both genders. I have learned that good sex is dependent on the individual rather than the gender.
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