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How To Give A Mind-Blowing Handjob

I haven't been in relationships most of my life, only the last year, so you can imagine I have a lot of experience with a lot of different men and usually casual or even a one time thing. So no I don't make it romantic, turn on soft music and use massage oil. I usually did it in a bathroom stall with loud bar music background and spit on some drunk guy's dick ;) I usually gave blowjobs, but sometimes just a quick tuggie if I didn't feel like sucking it.

How To Give A Mind-Blowing Handjob

First off, the visual aspect is important. use what you have. I am not too skinny, but I have really large firm breasts, so I get them out. Also eye contact and looking at him with a horny face helps, whether you like jerking the guy or not.

How To Give A Mind-Blowing Handjob

Then you can make the situation more sexy. If you do it to your husband and he likes the romantic stuff, go for that, but I can warn you: most guys don't like the soft romantic thing too much. I mostly jacked a guy off in a bathroom, behind a dumpster, in a backroom and honestly that helped me a lot. Guys liked thinking that I lowered myself, acted like a slut, just cause I wanted to jerk their dick so much. I did talk dirty like that, let them call me a slut and played into that role, which gave them an ego boost and thus made them cum quicker. Again, it was just an act, but it works.

Then we get to the technique. Not too fast from the start. build it up and find the right grip. It takes some practice to find the grip so don't be to fast to tell the drunk asshole who hits on you to fuck off. He's a perfect practice target. Use spit! Don't spit in your hands, but on his dick, trust me guys like that way better. When it's wet, you are free to focus on the motion. Keep your wrist loose, the pulse steady, move your fingers a little and give it some twist.

Then we get to the climax. Guys have to cum and of course they prefer to do it on you. I can tell you that my face is the favorite target to most guys, but when you are wearing make up and have to party on afterward, my boobs are the best place. Easy to wipe off.
If you don't want it on you, it's best to get up, get close to his face and maybe moan or talk dirty to him so he focuses on that instead of being aware he's shooting into nowhere. That's not sexy to them. Or it's not ok for him to make a mess, hold your other hand like cup in front of it.

How To Give A Mind-Blowing Handjob

There you go. I hope i helped a lot of girls out and my experience wasn't useless ;)

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  • You experience is experience however i have done all you said not too, in my experience the only thing I agree with is hold his dick firmly, however I can get a guy to blow his load pretty easily, if they don’t like soft music I use trantra I tell them to relax I use oil, I use those techniques I requires to put them in a meditation you move very slowly and use your breath to stimulate them, I hold their cock firmly as they relax I prepare the area around the groin, men responsed better to anal then woman because of a glad they have in which if you poke it will make the orgasm feel better, guys hold on to your load as long as you can the feeling will feel better, just because one way works for you p, doesn’t mean the do, s and don’ts you’ve found just means it works in that environment and at that time, the key to tantra is knowing sex isn’t beginning, middle and end, too figure out it is about how do you feel? How does she move what is her smell, listen to her cries of pleasure, when her hand moves up and down what does it feel like? Everything counts. I can go on about it I’m a lot of detail however am limit by paths word count so I will leave it here, if your interested in my technique then just ask, obviously am I’m a relationship however that doesn’t mean I can share my knowledge on this matter.

    • This would be hot if we didn't low key hate each others opinions :D

    • I can give you details if you like I don’t mind. I don’t hate your opinion I disagree (okay at this point my pride is gone) see I can play nice... kinda 😂😂😂😂😂.

    • This sounds more better than the take.

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  • Some good techniques here, but it's not a one size fits all.

    1. Some of the things you said men don't like, I like.

    2. Just like women, men like variety too. The HJ you describe is a very good one. But if it's the same every time, it will soon become a bad one.

    Finally a sad point...
    It's sad to me that women have to "fake" that they enjoy various aspects of this. It's a puzzle to me why both men and women don't naturally (in many cases but not all) enjoy the things that turn the other on the most. You would think that nature would make them not only enjoy all these little details, but crave them.

    • Agreed.. soo many women are ALL about acting and being fake to their core.. it's pathetic. They learn from an early age is this corrupt world to be FAKE and act at nearly everything. it seems to be ingrained in little girls from the start and only gets worse as they get older. Thats why I reconnected with an EX of mine from 15 years ago who was always a little TOO honest, but I far prefer than because she tells the truth to a fault and tells me what she likes in bed, what she doesn't like and constantly compliments me, my looks, body parts and other things about me. Before some of it bothered me.. now I don't ever want to let her go. Sooo sick of fake western American woman who have no real passion or honesty while this girl has both as she is VERY horny and doesn't play games or even wear fake up.. I hate that crap so much. Women have somehow been corrupted as their entire existence seems to be about lies and deception from the start.. even when it comes to sex.. sooo sad.

  • A lot of men don't like handjobs, no, it's really that they don't like them but they are like,"if you gonna give me handjob give me a blowjob too". The thing about handjobs is that they are disease free, so a girl doesn't have to worry about getting any disease from a random guy. Also a lot of spit it's better for handjob, dry one doesn't feel particularly great.

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  • Not useless but it sounds like the behavior of a ho or just plain BS. :(

  • When did you do start liking giving). Or maybe they were an avoidence technique?

    How do you feel about dealing with sperm?

    thanks

  • My ex-boyfriend preferred handjobs over blowjobs. He told me the important thing is to keep going and don't pause or stop until he cums.

  • Hate handjobs. I’d rather just not fool around with a girl, I could just do that better myself. Do girls not feel the same way about fingering?

    • Oh please! You would turn a hand job down? You are so full of shit!

    • @dublinrollergirl Ok true. However, I’m pretty sure that’s only because I am hopeful the hand job will turn into more. Let’s put it this way. Would I leave my house at midnight for the promise of a handjob? No. Would I leave my house for the promise of a blowjob/ sex? Yes.

  • They like it even more if you suck

  • Oh my Hell you are awesome!!! Let's find a bathroom stall right quick, you and I honey! Want to play? ;) Damn that's hot. Love your attitude about it too. Would love to hear more.

  • So much criticism. I think all of her points are solid. Like some of you said in a round about way, EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. I think she understands the blowjob thing she said this is when she doesn't want to do it. Everyone put in their add on to what has worked for them but I'ma gonna say it again, these are solid instructions. Well written as well.

    Good work OP.

    • **Add on** The one thing that someone brought up that would streamline everything but I know not everyone like messing around with it is prostate stimulation. Helps out 100% of the time

  • Thanks for sharing very well written MyTake.

  • No girl can give a better habdjob than I can. So really, it is only nice for a few seconds as a tease if something else is coming, like bj or sex. If it is just a habdjob, no point. Sorry.

  • Pro-tip: you can't. he's been doing this since he's been 12. you're not gonna get better than he is, plus every guy likes it differently. i personally don't like handjobs. if you wanna give me head or pussy, yeah i'm down but a handjob, naw thanks, i'm good.

  • you forgot prostate stimulation

  • Wow you have me really wanting one after reading that!

  • Note to self a - Don’t walk behind dumpsters outside establishments where people typically get drunk 😳

  • Handjobs are dumb and pointless. Either suck, or leave it to me to do. I can use my own hand just fine; why would I want yours

  • Not really any such thing as a "mind blowing handjob" handjobs can be done yourself. It's the most boring sexual act.
    Blowjobs or sex or nothing. That's what I have always told my partners.

    • ha. you're a demanding asshole. I am relatively new sexually and would dump you for being so entitled

    • @Ann242 why would I want a handjob when I can do it myself?

  • Step 1: Give a blowjob.

  • Turning men on 101 ;) lol thank you! ;)

    • Put medical gloves on, put lube on his dick and stroke it slowly but firmly ;)

  • Thank you

    • You 15 don't be a hoe yet.

  • Well here's a thot post

  • Thank you girl!!!

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