When Three is Company and the Love is Loud! Balancing My male roommate and the guy in my life.

[Mermaidme]

Loving out L

Loving out Loud

So I have a dear guy friend who I worked with at two jobs and we go to the same place dancing. He is sort of dorky in a way and what I mean is we dork out together that is our level. Not romantic! He later confessed a crush on me after I let him move in. Yeah ok. We both ended up in a bind and it seemed I needed the financial help and he needed a place temporarily. He travels for his work and is often not here. So it is quite ideal. Easy to get along with not here a lot.

So right before I had him move in a few weeks before I started to develop a relationship with my guy I keep talking about on here from Bosnia. We all go to the same club. My roommate only knows people that dance though. My guy just goes to chill after work with friends he knows who my roommate is.

I sit in the morning having coffee with roommate guy then my man shows up and says hey to him and we go to my room and lock the door.

We talk we cuddle we massage each other. But then we get more and more passionate. And I can hear my roommate making his coffee up or heating up something in the microwave. So I know he can hear us. But this is the time he has for me between his construction jobs he is the primary parent and has to be there after school even though his kids are older but for dinner and stuff. He doesn’t stay the night he sleeps where his kids are at home.

It is my house use and I promised my man nothing would change with my roommate. So the huge bed I have that looks like a treehouse slams into the wall and he hears us calling each other pet names. We don’t exactly yell but I can hear my roommate who is quiet doing what he is doing getting water and stuff.

Then when he has to take off I go finish my cold coffee with my roommate after I make sure there is no cum in my hair or anything like that. Then I take off to the gym and disappear for most of the day.

But then we watch TV roommate and I at night and he tries to make that his selling point that “it’s nice to have someone to watch TV with at night isn’t it?” If I was far enough along with my guy in this relationship and we were together at night we wouldn’t be thinking about TV. I just feel like I leave all day to avoid the TV. I know he is a friend and respects my relationship but I sense sour grapes.

[TheWormGuy]

are you ready or able to move in with your 'man'? if you're actively avoiding watching tv with your roommate, then maybe you feel uncomfortable with how things are and you might need to get away in general. but in some cases it could be that you have some feeling for your roommate and feel uncomfortable with those feelings. I'd recommend taking some time apart from both parties to think about your situation and what's going on, then talking about it to both of them either together or apart. remember, communication is key in all relationships, sexual or otherwise.

[Whaaaaa]

You are damn near 50 ma’am and you still have a roommate.

[Saurav11]

😝😝😂😂

[Mermaidme]

I own the house! He is just staying a couple months because his work provides a place. And it would help me I am paying my own bills without him. But it still helps.

[Miristheiss]

You've got a guy who'll date you while you live with another guy, a guy that likes you. Ok. I wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. That is just inappropriate and crosses so many boundaries. I hope your guy leaves and finds a girl who isn't living with another man.

[vittle1999]

Good news is that your roommate is temporary. If he has a crush on you but you have no such interest in him then it's his problem not yours. You can always get another roommate after he leaves. Just continue with your life as is.

[Robertcw]

Honestly that sounds awful. Why put yourself in this situation? It's fucked up for all parties involved.

[Browneye57]

Get your own place. Problem solved. Geesh. You just want to blab your stupid story.

[NYCQuestions1976]

So you were getting smashed out while your roommate was making breakfast? lol

[Hoggy1]

Just fuck both of them best of both worlds

[JennieF]

Both?

[ILoveBigBoobs]

This! I like how you think!

[SamiDz]

Good take.