Sexual Relationships 
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This could easily be the biggest mystery of your life. Making women reach climax is umm...REALLY difficult. Reason? Women are complicated sexual beings. Also, reason? Not all men know how to dip-it-and-do-it and hit the right spots that will make your partner cum. Now to make amends, take a minute and sort out your issues. Also, try and not be selfish and only think about your dick. And remember, intercourse alone is not enough to make women feel desired. Here's how you do it.
1. P is for Passion
Create a buildup to the main event. In other words, make her want you (and want the sex). Send her dirty messages (yes!). Indulge in a bit of pre-foreplay roleplay and make her feel wanted.
2. One word, Foreplay!
Don't just take off your pants and get on with it. Kissing, touching, caressing and a bit of oral stimulation will help you make her get wet, sooner than you can say, “Honey, I'm home!”
3. Become an oral expert
If you become a man skilled in the arts of oral sex, you'll be in great demand. Several women are of the opinion that if their lover was considerate and skilled in the arts of oral sex, it wouldn't matter a damn what size his penis was). Below are a few general rules which might be helpful.
Build her up for oral by slowly sliding her panty down, gently touching her inner thighs, kissing the inner part of her knees, her inner thighs and hips.
Early on, light licks on her labia majora (outer lips), labia minora (inner lips) and her vaginal entrance are most likely to get her aroused. Make sure you figure out what she likes when you are exploring her pussy with your tongue.
After a while, you can switch to more direct contact with her clitoris, ensure you build the pressure of your tongue on her clitoris gradually as too much pressure early on the clit can make it go numb.
She'll probably like all over stimulation to start with, then as she gets more aroused, a finger in her vaginal hole, pressing on her G spot will be helpful in increasing her excitement even more.
When she is well aroused, a finger or two inside her vagina, gently playing with her G spot, as your tongue lightly flicks across her clitoris, is almost guaranteed to get her to orgasm - though you may need to increase the pressure to tip her over the edge into orgasm when she's ready to cum.
5. Talk Dirty To ME!
This could easily be the most underused medium during sex. And no, only pornstars aren't the only ones with a free pass to talk dirty during sex. You can do it too. Just don't repulse her with it. Make sure you know what you are doing. Do your research, read a lot of erotic literature and make sure your monologue is fool-proof!
6. Introduce a third man…
We are not talking about indulging in a threesome, but introduce a sex toy. When used well, can work wonders. It can help you stimulate her erogenous zones with minimal effort—speeding her toward climax (yay!)
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