The down side of hooking up

Bradley Beach, NJ
Bradley Beach, NJ

I was really happy the day I hooked up with a construction worker in my office. I was pretty, charming and an associate at one of the oldest law firms in Manhattan. I got to wear nice outfits, had a nice office and enough work so I didn’t feel useless. I was on top of the world, and I wanted to celebrate.

He was standing in the doorway while they were remodeling the conference room. Long dark hair, blue eyes, a skull tattoo on his bicep. I walked right up to him and started talking. He knew exactly what I wanted. I asked him to come in my office and check a broken light fixture. When he followed me in, I locked the door behind him.

After he left and I came down from my orgasm, I sat in my chair and started to shake all over. I was too terrified to leave my office, too terrified even to move. I was certain people could see the cum on my face, could tell that I was still damningly wet beneath my skirt.

After I don’t know how long, I texted my friend. A few minutes later she texted back: “Dw girl. You’re good 😊. Nobody knows.” I sighed with relief and texted her back a 💗. Then I straightened my clothes, got up and left my office to get some work done.

That was the last time I hooked up with anyone. I had three or four extremely short-lived boyfriends (each of whom I was convinced was the love of my life) before I met the guy I’m with now. We’ve been together four months, and I’m really happy.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • You gave that construction worker a dream come true, something every guy has on his wish list.
    I could never do it no matter how horny I was, I'd masturbate before hooking up for obvious reasons.
    If I don't have feelings for a guy I couldn't have sex of any kind with him, I wouldn't get the intense pleasure, I wouldn't be able to look into his eyes during sex which is something I enjoy as well.
    I get more from closing my eyes while masturbating and the many thoughts racing through my mind.

    Thank you for a well written MyTake

    • You’re welcome 😊

    • Thank you PG!

  • Awesome job 🤗 (hugs)

    • 💗💗💗

Most Helpful Guys

  • Risking your career as an associate for sex... oh I wonder now lol
    Hahha

    Look lol maybe if you were a female version of Harvey Spector
    Im not sure if i believe this is real lol

    But nevertheless. You have quite the imagination princess

    • It's not like she worked WITH him.

    • @DocilexElle that changes nothing I dont see a construction worker risking his job either for a quickie Its quite obvious when you have one job at the office that you aren't doing it and hVe gone missing

    • It was an impulse. And I thought I was untouchable at the time. Trust me. Some of the partners have done a lot worse.

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  • Damn that story is hot lol, congrats on your new guy again 😄

    • Thanks 😄

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  • Sounded like a dangerous thrill. You got it out of your system and went on to more rational connections.

    • Pretty much

    • Good for you...

  • Well damn... you brave

    • I mean even if i do that, i gotta know the guy for like 3 months to a year and he’d prob have to get tested first. Im too scared to hookup lmao

    • We only had oral. Never did that again.

    • Oooooh u made him eat the kitkat 😂 u so bad. But nah girl people be gettin mono and stuff from sharing drinks and utensils and kisses and stuff. I’d be paranoid to even let them go down until we’ve had a doc appointment first 👌🤷‍♀️

  • Glad to hear you are happily esconsed in a permanent relationship.

    • Thanks 😊

  • Of course it feels great in the moment but when you realize that there may be consequences, you can't undo what has been done. Once again, experience is a wonderful teacher!

    • Thank you

  • Hot story with it happening at work!
    I dont like the idea of someone I dont know, regardless how attractive they are. But I think the thrill of getting caught would be fun. Just not in my profession. Lol

  • Mmmm. Not sure what the upside was... I've never done it.. is it hotter than sex with a guy your in love with? As to risking your career - no... the guy has no control over your career so I'm not sure what some of these comments are about. If discovered - worst is that you would have gotten lewd attention from the other guys at the firm...

    • It’s not hotter than sex with a guy you’re in love with.

    • Not judging... but still then dont see the upside? 🤷‍♀️ Power play? Acting on animal instinct? What does a woman get from it? (I'm trying to figure out if it should be on my bucket list or not)

  • He's an idiot. He should know better.

  • Well written myTake!
    I think that the possibility of being discovered or that someone else could suspect what was going on actually added to the thrill!

    I think that what remains with you is the thrill of the experience and the certainty of being a beautiful, intelligent and fascinating woman.

    • Youve probably done worse with other chicks lol ;)

    • @Saffygirl Hmmm no, I didn't do anything with other women that aren't my girlfriend.

    • ok lol

  • Wow 😍

    • 💗💗💗

  • I don’t agree with hook ups just don’t get why would just have something so intimate with someone who doesn’t mean nothin?

    • Agreed.

    • Sex is not all that intimate. The sole purpose of sex is to reproduce. It is just sex lol people are programmed to have it anyway but I understand why some aren't comfortable with having sex with someone they don't know at all.

    • @Jiuytessss Ok but sex is very intimate a lot hormones are being produced and used. Like oxctoycin. I just hate having to be that close to someone who idaf about.

  • In your imaginations!!

    You are a good person, who loves love and someone who is very down to earth. And nothing wrong with having desires. It gives you energy. You have very active mind which would make you a great writer one day. Wish you good luck.

    Passion vs Duty!! I hope you would make your duty a passionate one!

    • Was talking about this

  • Thank you for sharing with us. Very well written MyTake :) ;) :D :-D

    • Thanks 😊

    • :D :-D :P :-P

  • Woah, so hot lol
    I wasn't expecting this article to be like this at all

    • Thank you 😊

  • Dang girl you got it going on

  • That’s a pretty hot story Princess! Given you’re a lawyer I’m kinda shocked you like that type of guy. I figured you’d like more refined pretty boy types.

    Glad you’re happy with your boyfriend. I wish you two all the best.

    On a side note, you’d never seriously date a guy like that right? Only fuck them right?

    • Mostly I do prefer refined pretty boy types. I was in a mood that day. No, I would never date a guy like that. Just sexual stuff.

  • I couldn't do that. I'd be too scared to get an STD. Why was it just oral?

    • I don’t go all the way when I hook up.

    • I'm glad you're content with someone now :) :)

    • Me too 😊

  • Really that's the downside? Not, it turned out was an ex convict wit a rap sheet a mile long that includes rape, assault and murder. Not that it turns out i am now pregnant by this gem of a man. Or not that oh hey, he gave me HIV or Herpes?
    See i would think that would be the downside.

    • We only had oral.

  • i've never been the type to hook up.. i feel like if i am having sex with someone i want to be with them...

  • Why are you telling us this?
    And you left out the good part.

    So you're into the bad boys, huh?

    • Only in certain moods.

  • The reaction you had was, alas, part of the socialization you had that says casual sex is wrong/bad. If you hadn't been raises on the myth that sex is only for "relationships", you wouldn't have freaked out after.

    Don't get me wrong; there are reasons for that conditioning; not rational, but historical. And you still need to fit into society as it IS, not how it ought to be. As a young associate, it's important to at least pay lip service (no pun intended) to the corporate mores.

    Don't let your conditioning be what controls you; be your own person, and let reason and rational thought be your guides, instead. You may very well end up in the same place, but the foundation will be the stronger.

    • Thank you

    • Happy to help! :)

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