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Men just wanting sex from me

Men just wanting sex from me

Nowadays all I get Is men just wanting to have sex with me. Before I could barely get attention from boys ,the occasional cat calling was all I got. These days it's just thirsty guys wanting to get in my pants . Where does it end...with me at there place ,then what I go home feeling used and unhappy .

And I get all men are not like this hence people are in relationships . But why is it going this way for me.I try to make myself interesting ,feminine and available. But all I get is jerks trying to fuck and leave.

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I try to give as many guys a chance as possible but I always end up unhappy , I'm starting to second guess my sexuality because I'm not attracted to these men that just want to sleep with me.I'm looking for an actual relationship and I'm starting to think I have a better chance looking in the same direction as me another woman,because who will understand me better.

I'm so frustrated I'm looking for answers and solutions . I need serious help ,I don't see chance for living as a cat lady .

Men just wanting sex from me

I'm waiting for my forever and after. Is this too much to ask for . I feel at my lowest with relationships and I feel like giving up .

Men just wanting sex from me
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  • Tdieseler

    Loooooool... seriously... and all these moron guys are going to act like they are gentlemen number one... morons
    Boo, first thing you have to understand is that YOU are the muthafuckin problem. look at all the nonsense you are spouting... first off... "just wanting sex from me"... umm, thats an easy fix, how about you get sex from them? my good friend does that. Snag a guy, has sex with him, he catches feelings, and she dumps him. She went for what SHE wanted... which is something YOU are not doing. which brings me to my second point.
    "im waiting for my forever and after"... lol... see my point..."waiting"... instead of fucking doing something about it.

    So the guys you meet just after a while seem like they just want to have sex with you...3 reasons i can dig up (for now) as to why
    1. you must have a very sexy body, or flaunt your body, or they just assume you are ugly and will take what you can get lol
    2. You must be a horrible conversationalist, and bore guys because you dont understand them, but you want them to understand you. that shit is irritating.
    3. You dont express you... you just wait for the man to make the move... and he did make a move, he wanted to have sex and you turned it down. maybe you could have used number 2... and be more engaging so the topic doesn't swing to sex, good body or bad body.

    Thing about you women is you just want to lay back and just let some guy do all the work, bring you all you want on a silver fucking platter... does not happen in my fucking world. You make a move too... or if i have to, best believe me, its NOT going to be in her best interest. Im making the move... so im serving and satisfying ME.
    You want your happily ever after... YOU get up, YOU approach the guy, YOU engage the guy, YOU tell him Who you are, What you want, and be forward and he will be like "message received"...
    OR, keep fucking "waiting"... and while you do that... get them muthafucking cats... you gonna need them.

    Understand guys... and we are so simple that why we confuse you complicated ass females... we only want 3 things... but because you women want 23, 451 (and counting) things... you can't comprehend that guys just need 3 things. and you can't even give the 3... but you want your 23, 454 (and counting) things satisfied... really?

    i'll tell you the 3 if you respond to this... then im going to come at you again with some real talk

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    • Lol, brilliant! MHO right here ^

    • Tdieseler

      @White_Widow Thank you ma'am. I appreciate that. Im surprised i have a female agree with me...
      white widow you are ruining my rep here lol... i base my responses on how many females down vote my opinion. The more down votes, the more likely that what i said is some real truth. So now i have a female up vote... yikes.. so either im wrong or you are one of the rare females who prefer real shit :) .

    • Lol, most that know me on here would say I am one of the rare ones. Your answer was just too brilliant not to say anything and trust me, the fact a woman responded positively to it, probably won't do either of us any favors 😉😂

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  • taleswapper

    The one thing all these relationships have in common is you. So ask yourself; what are you doing, that only attracts guys who want nothing but sex? Or, more likely, what am I doing that drives away guys who want more? Why don't I notice them?

    Here's a clue I've noticed. If you tell a good man "go away", he will. He respects your agency. So the persistent ones are the one's who DON'T respect you as a person. they keep coming back over and over, and a LOT of women mistakenly admire that sort of persistence.

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  • stepje92

    Before judging others, think about yourself first. You only have one chance to give a first impression.
    1. Dress for the occasion. That means: don't go walking around in miniskirts in college. When you're off to a party, choose to either enhance cleavage or legs. (The same with make up, choose eyes or lips)
    2. Think about how you behave compared to your girl friends. What's different?
    3. Enjoy spending time with friends. The times you long for something to happen (attention or whatever), always end in dissapointment. The unexpected fun times are whenever you're not thinking about men and being your true self. That's attractive (to good men).

    4. So on these occasions, so give men a chance to meet you (as every man is different). If they give you good vibes, enjoy. If they don't, tell them.

  • J3nny

    Stop looking and love will find you. Stop hooking up with random guys and focus on finding yourself. Don’t question your sexuality because that’ll lead you down another bad tangent. Be yourself and stop worrying about being in a relationship. Find things you enjoy doing and join clubs so you can meet guys with the same interests. And don't be easy.

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  • Aiko_E_Lara

    Oh dear. You let them have sex with you. Don't pretend you don't like it because that's a lame excuse to hate and blame men and be a slut at the same time because sex is not just for men only. Girls choose dick sizes too tho and you know what that means.

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  • RolandCuthbert

    Young one, if you want to be around men you share interests with and have stuff in common with, you need to make some changes. I don't know much about being a woman. But I know this, if you want men who want a real relationship, you need to put yourself in situations where you meet those kinds of men. And if you have interests, hobbies, activities that you enjoy you need to find groups dedicated those interests and try meeting men there.

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  • SoulOnIce

    When I look back at the girls I’ve dated, hooked up with for a few weeks, and the ones I’ve enjoyed one night of fun with, they had one element in common.
    The direct correlation that would become evident between the girl’s level of interest in me would always end up depending on my level of desire to be with her.
    Sadly, I think it just winds down to the old adage of “people want what they can’t have”. It’s always been like clockwork that the females I’ve sweated, ended up losing interest. Now, how quick that happened would vary greatly. For instance, in my last LTR relationship, it started out as a no strings cpl Times a week hookup with a girl I haven’t seen since many years back. The first 1.5 years I truly didn’t have an emotional investment. It was an amazing time filled with her sex drive being through the roof and me feeling like I had her sweatin me hard without puttin in effort. Let me tell you as soon as I realized this girl was really great and I needed to take her seriously before she realized she deserved better, that was the start of a three year slow grind of power shift where I was eventually left blue balled/lost and broken hearted thinking WTF just happened?

  • ObscuredBeyond

    No ring, no zing. Gotta set those sorts of boundaries, especially now that you have a reputation. Otherwise, players can smell your weakness from miles away. You've painted a target on yourself, and the predators laugh at your willingness to be played.

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  • SexyAshh

    Not sure how old you are but i was like that when i was younger. I still put my sexuality out there, and idgf how its percieved, but the men that come into my life know im not fucking around. In time and with age, you grow more comfortable within yourself and straight up lay down the boundaries. I grew up quickly, but it takes some longer. Dont worry about the small stuff, when it happens it happens

  • Valnac

    Without knowing your true age, it sounds like you are starting to mature but still have some immaturity.
    It’s probably the immature guys you’re hanging with that only look for sex. Keep your clothes on and your legs closed, you should start meeting more mature guys soon, be patient.

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  • LogicBomber

    Men are programmed to procreate, women are programmed to settle and raise offspring.

    Stupid female shaming bullshit telling men how they should be "real men" by somehow living up to stupid female ideas of what they want because you know telling biology it's wrong enough times will magically make it change. FFS

  • DonCachondo

    Ah yes, the female version of the friendzone hehe
    What? You don't enjoy having sex with them? You think they OWE you a relationship? XD

    But for serious:
    You're probably not offering them any more than sex OR EVEN WORSE, they didn't think so highly of the sex they had with you and decided to roll their 'dice' elsewhere.

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  • Fatboy98

    This is why I made a policy as a gentleman. "No sexual activity until I earn a woman love and trust." Sex is sacred and also love earn privilege nothing else. Also in my opinion, if some people are the type to communicate their feelings by talking, sex should be an alternative. The mind and body is doing the talking for you.

    • Tdieseler

      you think that huh... lol.. you'll learn.

  • Landshrk0068

    Don't blame men for something, YOU are allowing men to do this to YOU. Take responsibility for YOUR life.

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  • Dri11

    Please don't feel miserable. I totally agree with you. I personally despise people who just want to get sex from someone. I'm a guy who values the connection with people over sexual pleasures.

    Trust me there are guys out the not just looking for sex. I sincerely hope one day you could find your own prince. CHEER UP.😄

  • lightbulb27

    well, I think women made a mess by corrupting a lot of men, so that's part of the problem. Parents made a mess by training a bunch of spoiled brats. Then, all the women go for that same group of 10% confident, aggressive, successful brats. what to do?

    There is one common element in this issue... you? So what is goign on that you are drawing and attracting these men. There are good guys out there, see them on this site, see them around... but do you see them? Are you available to them? My guess is your "message" is too much for those less confident guys to handle so they don't try. Or you are going to the wrong places, and talking to the wrong guys. You may be conveying a strong sexual vibe. were you sexually abused?

    and if you are actually sleeping with these guys, then stop doing that before there is a commitment at least.

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  • humanearth

    Sometimes ot could take 20 years to find the close to perfect person. My best advice I can give. Don't go looking for it. It will come to you, when you least expect it to.

  • frozenx

    Withhold sex until you have a relationship established! Honestly if you want someone that wants you for you, that’s what you need to do!

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  • Rae33

    Sounds like you have a lot more self searching and understanding to accomplish, before you try understanding this level.

  • Michalhq

    I feel sad for them, sex is amazing but sharing life with other person is so much more. Take my apologies for all men behaviour, I hope you will find someone better.

  • Asad1ONE1

    Because women these days have stuck-up and manipulative attitudes who do want sex but act like they don't. That's desperation and insecurity at it's finest. To answer your question why, it's the very same reason women "just" want sex from men.

  • I've had great luck in dating and finding love. Don't give up👍

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  • Volb3at

    There are far too many people like that these days, sadly. You’ll find someone better.

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  • lsjr16

    Most guys are just having sex with a lot of girls cause society has put it in their mind. Just let the guy know your not intrested in sex first and see what happens

  • Riggers

    Your problems are not real problems, Stop being a fucking pussy.

  • No_Archons

    Do you have a dad? Why is he not teaching you how to navigate the world of men?

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  • Keep your legs and bum closed and your mouth and tell them no sex

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  • genericname85

    men want sex before they commit, women want to commit before sex. that's how it has always been.

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    • also what do you mean "nowadays" xD as if guys have ever been different.

  • crazy8000

    You either have a personality that makes it that way or do you go for only that kind of men ;)

    Begin to keep track on what you do, what you choose. look at what is the same and the difference. what kind of behavior those men has.
    If you're seeing millennium generation you most likely gonna get people that only are able to have that kind of relationship, sucks at building bonds, creating deep connections, build trust, their skills to build genuine and deep feelings are missing , in general sucks at building real relationships IRL.

    You're the key to this.
    Good luck with the realization of your life.

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  • Tomsta

    Where are you meeting these guys. As not all guys are horndogs

    But if the ones you seem to get with are then its the guys YOU are going after

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  • i_am_tbjxii

    Be patient don’t change the woman you are. Trust me there are guys out there that really just want a woman as treat her like a queen.

  • HereIbe

    You pick what you pick, and what you pick determines what you get.

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  • zagor

    If you go home with a guy and fuck on every first date, yeah, he got what he wanted.

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  • Kitty46

    Don’t have sex with them, you have a voice, use it, tell them NO!

  • Stan_Control_

    I feel sorry for those fools who see nothing more than an object when they look at you.

  • Has a woman ever tried just wanting sex from a man?

  • Have you ever wanted to get married and become a housewife?

  • WhoDatGuy

    Would a fisherman blame the fish if he used the wrong bait?

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  • ma1022864

    I'ld like to ask you if its ok
    Do you have sex on your first date with someone?

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  • meatloafballs

    Get used to it women have the power to make a man wait but they are just a sleazy and horny as men

  • rollajedi

    We all aren’t dogs chasing sex. I’d much rather have a woman for companionship

  • 5yrup

    lmao

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    • Uncut

      You beat me too it.

  • So you are a Ho?

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  • abundantlyrich

    Where do you meet these guys

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  • Are you a prostitute?

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    • up_64

      Ouch😂😂😂😂

  • MisterLoverLover

    God. That made me cringe in despair!

  • Anonymous

    You've a reputation

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  • Anonymous

    Sounds like your easy. If you always end up in their apartment? And having sex.

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  • Anonymous

    you are just a slut and all women need to be fucked... apart from some exceptions

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    • I believe all women have a biological need to be f'ed once in a while. That doesn't mean they're all sluts, though.

    • @zippididooda at what age do you think that biological need kicks in?

    • Anonymous

      @Just_a_human 14

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  • Anonymous

    I think because all guys want sex, women often make the mistake of assuming that it's ALL he wants. While this is true with some guys, there are lots of guys that would like and are open to more. Yes we want sex, absolutely, but we'd be open to more also. But sometimes if she doesn't ask, he may or may not tell you that. Like you, he also might assume that's all YOU want.

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  • Anonymous

    There are two issues here. First, you're blaming men for the fact that your wants and priorities are different than theirs. Men and women are different. Neither is wrong, just different. That is as much your fault as it is theirs.

    Second, women have reset the expectations about sex. There are many, many women these days who are looking for casual sex, and guys have come to expect it. It didn't used to be that way. Who is to blame for that?

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  • Anonymous

    Ask them for money

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  • Anonymous

    Because you have nothing to offer except sex

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