WOMAN DON'T CARE ABOUT PENIS SIZE!
Total bullshit. No woman has ever walked into a sex shop and said "please show me your extra small vibrators". When was the last time you heard girls on a hen night/bachelorette party complain the strippers were too well hung and demand to see less endowed men? Given a choice between 2 identical men, one big one small, who do you think we're going to choose?
The truth is we know you can't change your size. Just as we'd rather date a man with a jag than a fiat 500 we try to make the best of what we have in front of us. In short we're trying to spare your feelings.
SO WHAT IS BIG OR SMALL?
Under 4 inch. Sorry guys but from our point of view it just won't satisfy us. We'll still have sex with you but it's more for your pleasure than ours.
4-5 disappointing but it'll do. If it's a one nightstand don't expect a return visit. If your our boyfriend then rest assured we're not with you only for the sex. The sex can be ok but it's usually forgettable.
5-6 pretty average, When you go to pull it out this is what we expect to see. The sex will generally be good.
6-7 big but not massive. Trust me we're very pleased when we see this size. There is definitely a psychological boost from seeing on in this range. You'll feel well filled and the sex rarely disappoints.
7-8 definitely a eye opener. We know we're going to be well and truly fucked. Some women can be a little apprehensive when faced with this size. Extra time to get out juices flowing or/and a little lube is much appreciated.
Over 8. OMG. Yes we are impressed, congratulations on being so blessed by mother nature. Yes we can take it once we're sufficiently aroused just make sure the performance matches the expectation. Oh and you may need to reign it in a bit with the hard thrusting.
THE PHYSIOLOGICAL IMPACT
Imagine your partner came home and said they've bought you a new car for your birthday. You rush outside to be confronted with a smart car. Your heart sinks, why couldn't it been a sports car, a 4X4 even a family car. Yes it will get you about but inside your gutted. Well it's the same with penises. We look at some and think "ugh I suppose it'll do" and others and think "wow I need that".
This is important as a woman's ability to orgasm is highly dependent on our state of mind. Yes a small guy can make us cum but when we see a big guy he's already got a head start. Rightly or wrongly we just expect to orgasm when a big penis is produced. In fact if we don't we'll be more disappointed than if we didn't with an average guy.
CAN WE TAKE IT, YES WE CAN
Whenever a guy pulls a big one out 9/10 he'll ask if we think we can take it. Now given we can squeeze a baby out there so its a no brainer we can handle your cock. Plus just take a look at the size of sextoys we use.
Now just like penises vaginas grow when aroused. Unaroused we're about 4 inches deep but once turned on we at least double in size and ready for action. Sex pain ( dyspareunia, bet your going to drop that word in a conversation today) is usually caused by ramming it up before we're ready. Even a little one will hurt if we're not turned on.
BLOWJOBS, BANQUETS AND SNACKS
OK let's be clear about one thing, blowjobs are fun. No we don't have a g-spot in our throats but we still get a big kick out of doing them.
Big ones are definitely better to suck:
1 again, it's the psychological impact
2 small ones are awkward to such. Having your nose consistently bang against him as his penis barely passes your teeth isn't much fun.
3 you can get a better mouth seal around a large one
4 it's easier to incorporate a little hand action with bigger guys
5 if he's unshaved your nose won't be buried in a mass of pubes.
6 having a man cum at back of mouth is highly arousing, getting sticky teeth is not.
DOES A BIG PENIS GUARANTEE AN ORGASM?
In my personal experience anything over 7 inches will almost always deliver an orgasm. The time to achieve it will also be much shorter. With an average guy of 5-6inches I will climax about 60% of the time if he lasts 15 minutes. Over 6 inches I'll usually orgasm 80% of time. With men over 7 inches I'll orgasm 90% of time often in under ten minutes, five is not uncommon. Once again much of this is due to the psychological impact and the expectation of having a orgasm. But a large one puts more pressure on your g-spot regardless of sex position. One that rattles around like the last hotdog in the tin doesn't make you feel like your getting fucked, its more like being awkwardly fingered. It is debatable whether orgasms are more powerful with larger men but I would say yes they are, a lot more.
ISN'T IT ABOUT HOW YOU USE IT?
Big penises are not as common as the internet will have you believe, many girls will sadly never chance upon one. My first encounter with a well hung guy wasn't until I was 17 despite being sexually active for quite a while(yes its legal here).
It was a typical girls night out, have a drink, a laugh and flirt with guys. Like many occasions sexual tensions build until you find yourself being led away somewhere private while your mates guard your drink and handbag. He wasn't particularly attractive but there was chemistry between us and I was highly aroused, probably because a couple of my mates had just been done by other guys. In a toilet cubicle, pressed against a wall I first felt the familiar fingering up my skirt as he snogged me followed by fumbling as he pulled it out and took aim. The second he entered I realised he was way bigger than anything I'd had before. It didn't hurt but it didn't glide up as readily as others and I felt filled like never before stretching me to my limits. To cut it short he ploughed me pretty dam hard, it wasn't comfortable, but I orgasmed harder and quicker than ever before. He left me trembling, standing in a puddle and barely able to walk.
The point is yes average size is ok and nothing to be ashamed of but we all want something extra and will get it when we can.
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