Ladies and gentlemen,
This myTake is written to clarify some half truths about Penis size in a recent myTake with a similar title which seems to be written by someone who is clearly role playing a 19 year old nubile teen redpill dispenser. During my time here I noticed that this site seems to be a playground for LARPers.
As a young female, I can tell you we don't keep track of the percentage of times we orgasmed to 10% accuracy (80% vs 90% 😂 wtf) and cross check these percentages against dick sizes measured to within 1 inch accuracy 😂. We don't type like 50 year olds, we don't use car analogies which are only popular among old divorcees. A fun fact about LARPers, their sexual experience usually sounds like it's straight out of erotic fiction.
The original myTake about this topic reads like the opinions and delusions of an old (currently single) woman (or man or something else, not sure how old but definitely much older than 19) who probably last had sex before the internet existed. All these factors mean their opinion has zero relevance in the current dating pool. So, for those who are interested, here is the consensus among my friends (early - mid 20s females, some of whom frequent night clubs and practice safe casual sex with multiple partners):
1. Many women can take big dicks when they are sufficiently aroused
Yes. But each person's limit is different. There are girls who truly just can't take a full 8" dick even when fully aroused by prince charming. Giving birth shows that it is possible to push a baby through the vagina, ONCE, and it is one of the most painful experiences there is. People who believe giving birth is a proof that all vaginas can take large objects during sex please spend a few moments to think about how many times the baby goes in and out of the vagina, and how many times the dick goes in and out of the vagina, for a normal woman.
My experience: Anything over about 6″ will touch the back of my vagina. More than that and the guy will be pushing my cervix up and back, which doesn't feel that great, I have had bigger penis’s than 7″ and the guy simply can't get it all inside without hurting me (yes I was aroused and wet). Vaginas do stretch but mostly sideways. They will start to get ‘deeper’ with regular intercourse (which leads to the second point below) but it would be a slow process and I would feel uncomfortable until i started to get used to it.
2. The more big dicks a girl has taken, the harder it is for her to achieve orgasm by penetrative sex
The vagina is a muscle, it changes with progressive overload "training":
- How deep the vagina can stretch when aroused will depend on the size of the dicks it frequently takes. Girls who take big dicks regularly can stretch deeper *note that this says nothing about the looseness*. Girls who don't, can't stretch as deep, and they don't feel pleasure when they are not used to it. Of course I don't take into account the few women who actually enjoy pain.
- When the g spot is used to being hit by a certain amount of pressure frequently to reach orgasm, this threshold will only go up.
Both of these factors make it harder for someone who is used to taking big dicks to orgasm by penetrative sex (of course there are other ways to arrive at this condition too, like age, or childbirths). Which leads to the 3rd point.
3. So does bigger dick lead to higher chance of orgasms?
Yes if you have taken a lot of them before and your orgasm threshold requires dicks above certain size to reach quickly. Tolerance to excitation can be raised this way. More big dicks = higher tolerance to orgasm - this is the hard truth about dick size :)
For women who don't have sex frequently with big dicks aka Most Women, there is no strong correlation between quality of sex and dick size as long as the size is not too small, (size matters to this extent). There are other important factors like psychology and emotions.
If you're not used to bigger dicks and are now encountering one, don't expect porn level orgasm like written in the original myTake, you will be disappointed, there's a high chance the sex will just be uncomfortable, slow and awkward (even with enough arousal). Try to play with your clit while he's inside you, porn actresses do this to get off, I assure it's not because the dicks they were taking are small.
4. Are bigger dicks better for everyone?
No, it depends on each person's physique and what kind of physical stress their vagina is used to.
There will always be guys and girls who need big dicks in their life for psychological reasons. But physically, bigger is not always better. Each individual has a range they are used to, and staying within this range is optimal for them. There is a way to push this range higher, see point 2 and 3 above.
About pushing the range higher, most women who don't do porn typically only start playing with big toys when they are older, (since the elasticity of their vagina is affected by age and childbirths), like post menopause (which is the age group I believe the original myTake writer is in).
Thanks for reading!
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