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The Hard Truth About Penis Size (non LARP version)

Ladies and gentlemen,

This myTake is written to clarify some half truths about Penis size in a recent myTake with a similar title which seems to be written by someone who is clearly role playing a 19 year old nubile teen redpill dispenser. During my time here I noticed that this site seems to be a playground for LARPers.

LARPer definition for the senior citizens of GAG
LARPer definition for the senior citizens of GAG

As a young female, I can tell you we don't keep track of the percentage of times we orgasmed to 10% accuracy (80% vs 90% 😂 wtf) and cross check these percentages against dick sizes measured to within 1 inch accuracy 😂. We don't type like 50 year olds, we don't use car analogies which are only popular among old divorcees. A fun fact about LARPers, their sexual experience usually sounds like it's straight out of erotic fiction.

A short paragraph from a typical LARPing session
A short paragraph from a typical LARPing session

The original myTake about this topic reads like the opinions and delusions of an old (currently single) woman (or man or something else, not sure how old but definitely much older than 19) who probably last had sex before the internet existed. All these factors mean their opinion has zero relevance in the current dating pool. So, for those who are interested, here is the consensus among my friends (early - mid 20s females, some of whom frequent night clubs and practice safe casual sex with multiple partners):

1. Many women can take big dicks when they are sufficiently aroused

Yes. But each person's limit is different. There are girls who truly just can't take a full 8" dick even when fully aroused by prince charming. Giving birth shows that it is possible to push a baby through the vagina, ONCE, and it is one of the most painful experiences there is. People who believe giving birth is a proof that all vaginas can take large objects during sex please spend a few moments to think about how many times the baby goes in and out of the vagina, and how many times the dick goes in and out of the vagina, for a normal woman.

My experience: Anything over about 6″ will touch the back of my vagina. More than that and the guy will be pushing my cervix up and back, which doesn't feel that great, I have had bigger penis’s than 7″ and the guy simply can't get it all inside without hurting me (yes I was aroused and wet). Vaginas do stretch but mostly sideways. They will start to get ‘deeper’ with regular intercourse (which leads to the second point below) but it would be a slow process and I would feel uncomfortable until i started to get used to it.

Random stuff I found from Google also supports my experience.
Random stuff I found from Google also supports my experience.

2. The more big dicks a girl has taken, the harder it is for her to achieve orgasm by penetrative sex

The vagina is a muscle, it changes with progressive overload "training":

- How deep the vagina can stretch when aroused will depend on the size of the dicks it frequently takes. Girls who take big dicks regularly can stretch deeper *note that this says nothing about the looseness*. Girls who don't, can't stretch as deep, and they don't feel pleasure when they are not used to it. Of course I don't take into account the few women who actually enjoy pain.

- When the g spot is used to being hit by a certain amount of pressure frequently to reach orgasm, this threshold will only go up.

Both of these factors make it harder for someone who is used to taking big dicks to orgasm by penetrative sex (of course there are other ways to arrive at this condition too, like age, or childbirths). Which leads to the 3rd point.

3. So does bigger dick lead to higher chance of orgasms?

Yes if you have taken a lot of them before and your orgasm threshold requires dicks above certain size to reach quickly. Tolerance to excitation can be raised this way. More big dicks = higher tolerance to orgasm - this is the hard truth about dick size :)

For women who don't have sex frequently with big dicks aka Most Women, there is no strong correlation between quality of sex and dick size as long as the size is not too small, (size matters to this extent). There are other important factors like psychology and emotions.

If you're not used to bigger dicks and are now encountering one, don't expect porn level orgasm like written in the original myTake, you will be disappointed, there's a high chance the sex will just be uncomfortable, slow and awkward (even with enough arousal). Try to play with your clit while he's inside you, porn actresses do this to get off, I assure it's not because the dicks they were taking are small.

Don't forget about the clit
Don't forget about the clit

4. Are bigger dicks better for everyone?

Tale as old as time
Tale as old as time

No, it depends on each person's physique and what kind of physical stress their vagina is used to.

There will always be guys and girls who need big dicks in their life for psychological reasons. But physically, bigger is not always better. Each individual has a range they are used to, and staying within this range is optimal for them. There is a way to push this range higher, see point 2 and 3 above.

About pushing the range higher, most women who don't do porn typically only start playing with big toys when they are older, (since the elasticity of their vagina is affected by age and childbirths), like post menopause (which is the age group I believe the original myTake writer is in).

Thanks for reading!

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  • cavmanier

    "As a young female, I can tell you we don't keep track of the percentage of times we orgasmed to 10% accuracy (80% vs 90% wtf) and cross check these percentages against dick sizes measured to within 1 inch accuracy"

    Very good point. I'm pretty sure the "girl" that wrote the other penis article is really a 14 year old teenage boy. He's one of the most consistent trolls on here. If he says something, the opposite is true.

    Giving birth has little to do with the size of penis a girl can take. There’s a whole long biological process of hours of dilation occurring which is partly what is compared to penis width, but having a baby has zero to do with the length a girl can take. The baby comes out of the uterus of course and at no point is the baby fully inside the vagina. The baby comes out in segments so the head and neck may be in the vagina while it’s shoulders up to it’s tailbone are in the uterus. Once the head and neck are out, the shoulders and chest might be in the vagina while it’s stomach down to it’s tailbone are still in the uterus. The baby is not similar to a long dildo lol. That comparison is just bad and 100% unrelated to the length a girl can take.

    “My experience: Anything over about 6″ will touch the back of my vagina. More than that and the guy will be pushing my cervix up and back”

    This is what I’ve found. Some girls can take 7 and a rare one can take 8. That seems crazy to say because of the way girls talk about their experiences but it’s what I’ve seen. It does make sense if you look at penis statistics. Why would girls be able to take a penis ~3 inches longer than the average guy? Some can of course but they have the longer end of vaginas for females. Also, I’m 100% talking about thin girls here. Being overweight is not natural in the sense that it’s common in nature so the evolution of sex did not occur with girls bodies that didn’t exist (big girls). I say this because overweight women and men develop a fat radius around their groin area that makes the effective penis (outside the body) shorter and adds a layer of fat barrier around a woman’s opening so statistically big girls need a much longer penis to hit the same areas of their vagina. I’m not sure if you’ve noticed that big girls tend to be size queens, and that is why lol. Because girls usually gain weight with age, they will often prefer larger penises as well. Another little fact is that penis size studies pretty much occur with young people which have been disproportionately thin and doesn’t reflect older, overweight men. Another fact is they almost always measure by pressing a ruler into a mans fat pad above his penis so the statistical average of 5.3 inches is not actually the penis size outside of the body, but the length from the guys bone. Outside penis length is probably more like 5 to 4.5… I always refer to penis size by it’s outside body length but that isn’t reflected in statistics so it skews the reality in society.

    “They will start to get ‘deeper’ with regular intercourse”

    I’ve heard many many people say this but I’m pretty sure it isn’t true. I might be wrong but I think vagina length is finite and that their length is the same, like how a male's length is only so big no matter what. What might be happening is a girl may not be 100% turned on with a guy the first few times which changes after awhile, but I seriously even doubt that. I’m just thinking of possibilities. I could be wrong but I can’t get past idea of vaginas being able to get longer over time. It would be like saying your arm can get longer if you reach for something hard enough. That same logic is actually what Charles Darwin improved his idea of evolution upon over a guy named Lamark
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    I don’t believe it. Have you experienced being able to take significantly bigger guys over time? Remember that depending on the point a girl is on her cycle affects the cervix length as well.

    • cavmanier

      I don’t think sex with a big guy affects if she can orgasm better. She might decide she has a big dick preference and may feel dissatisfied with out it. What’s more likely is a girl wanting a normal size one due to pain. I’m talking about if the guy is huge (like +8). I’ve consistently easily been able to make exes orgasm with two fingers within a couple minutes as well. I can target exactly where to touch them that way though lol so it’s not the exact same thing, but it still shows size isn’t everything. From what I understand, the only thing that can desentize a girl is a vibrator on the clit. It’s possible that you might be right after a huge guy affecting a girl, but I haven’t seen any proof of it. I bet you may have some insight on this by having a vagina though lol.

      You’re trying to explain confusing topics, and at least you weren’t purposefully deceiving like the last person. Your take is much better than the last "girl."

    • I always say that is isn't size that matters but what you can do with it. Of course a woman can be aroused and can climax with other ways too. So if a guy lacks an inch or two he can always make up for it with foreplay and provide a much better orgasm.

    • cavmanier

      @BlackRoseFairy That's true that a guy can please a girl with foreplay. A lot of girls really really like being penetrated though and I believe most that do like penetration have a size range that's most enjoyable for them. It's the same with us guys. Certain size vaginas as just not as good. I'm just being 100% real here without pollyanna.

      I know some girls don't even like penetration much I just have not personally come across a partner like that. Size isn't everything though. The best sex I had I'd say was not the tightest girl so it's not necessarily all about that for us either.

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  • Anonymous

    Nice take. Thanks for posting it!

    It's rare to see a woman acknowledge the fact that the vaginas of women who take larger penises / dildos do adjust and end up requiring larger penises / dildos to feel the same pleasure.

    The flip side of that coin, of course, is that those vaginas feel looser to men, too.

    Do women prefer larger penises? The ones with larger vaginas do. That's the bottom line.

    • Badballie

      lol this is a serious issue, it starts when you start noticing the size of penises in the changeroom. Penis envy is a fact, there are thousands of companies offering to increase the length of your penis

    • Anonymous

      @Badballie Sounds like you are very well educated in all of that. Lots of experience with it, I take it? LOL

      Good luck with that bro.

    • Badballie

      Thanks young man, I am just trying to help, truthfully and factually. Too many half-truths are spoken as if it is fact. Ruins lives, remember a flaccid penis does not show erection size at all. In fact, there are a lot of big flaccid penises but do not grow as large as smaller penises.

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  • EmoKate97

    Way better version. Big dicks are overrated and guys who think having a big dick equals an orgasm are lame ducks because they don't think they need to put any effort in. Its stupid.

    • So true

    • Valnac

      The guys you describe sound like assholes, not all men are assholes...

    • Its the fact its better for it to be big and not use it all then small and not enough

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  • VaIiant

    Thank God for this Take. Other Take was absolutely stupid and BS.

    Source: am a woman. Read the other BS take which was ridiculous

What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's like girls asking if boob size matters. For some it does for some it doesn't. Personally I think my peines size is normal... hoever if I find a girl with an attractive face and a good personality I wouldn't care about her boobs size. For some other guy he'd reject her for it.

  • TeacherJay

    I've found that on most women I've been with i can regularly hit the cervix with no effort. But we can tell if we do. It has a very distinct feeling. When i was younger i though i was supposed to pummel it. As i got more experienced i realized this was a mood thing... HER mood. After that im careful not to put in the last 2 or 3 inches. Guys need to be more responsible!

  • hugzy

    Big tools are an awesome fantasy that everyone have , but dealing with them in reality, is nothing like what you have imagined. also , these days you wouldn't even have to have a dick , so that both sides can have proper fun , with explosive culmination...

  • Passinggas

    No matter after all the bsht, the most voluminous is still better. How about after she has kids? I will tell you right now that women after kids absolutely need and love extra large to get that sensation "up all the way in."

    • Vaginas go back to their original shape after childbirth, if not kegel exercises are used to help

  • AnimeMan205

    I'm curious... Is it true that MOST of the sensitive organs inside the Vagina are near the surface? If so, wouldn't a SMALLER penis be beneficial (and comfortable) in some ways?

  • tenukitanuki

    Excellent hot take. Got a bit wordy and informative in the middle but I bet that was useful for these dipshit redpillers who are hypothesizing about large cocks and their effects of global life... apparently?

    I always tell em, a big dick isn't going to solve a woman's emotional problems. It doesn't make the business of relationships any simpler. Have a dick made out of heroin can bring its own complications, like not wanting to leave the house or do anything but associate with that dick and fucking it. Until that's all you are to them and you're more of an addiction than a person.

    • being brought back to this post made me think of my most favorite reference on the topic; a hateful demon of a lover whom I had romanced and sedated made a slam dunk grand slam of delivery like... "you ever have nothing to do at work and think about a good dick that you know? it's even worse if you can just go see them later because you get all crazy like a JG Wentworth commercial: IT"S MY PENIS AND I NEED IT NOW!"
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7jY_ZP6gQiQ

      yeah, fuck your joke bitch, you're never telling it again anyway. RIP that shit forever.

    • Jamie05rhs

      JG Wentworth! LMFAO!! I'm dead.

  • jss123

    In my experience women probably visually prefer a bigger penis but functionally they prefer to reach orgasm much more. As I said before what's the point of having 8 inches if you cum in 30 seconds?

  • Grobmate

    And this is why I fold the damn thing in half!! J/k

  • almondcake

    But you can't ignor the old addage " its not what you have its the way that you use it " but thats a 50 year olds typing for you.

  • TonyMetal_86

    I'm 6.2 inches and i'm very satisfied with it and my ex was crazy about it.

  • Thank you for clarifying the point I tried to make on that other take about hitting the cervix.

  • Valnac

    If a guy is so big that it hurts, try doing it doggy style, that way he doesn’t hit your cervix.

  • circumstances

    Calling out the LARPers!

  • Thanks

  • MistakeManager

    Very true

  • KristiBreaksTheRule

    interesting...😂

  • Interesting

  • Anonymous

    average penis length is 5 - 5.5" so i don't understand how women always talk about their experiences with 8" and 9" dicks. you rarely come across someone who is that well endowed so these women are either lying or the same few hung guys are going around humping all the women behind our backs

  • Anonymous

    Still doomed im too small. If i ever got a girl into bed she would leave disappointed because she wouldn't ever reach anything close to a climax. If my dick isn't enough then cya.

  • Anonymous

    what do you rate a 4.5 inches penis?

    • thats considered small. if you can get the motion w it right thogh ut good

    • Badballie

      Good enough to make babies. If your girlfriend has never experienced more, no one is going to tell.

    • Anonymous

      Well I was just curious about people's opinions, but for me I don't care I like just how it is, don't want it to be any bigger

  • Anonymous

    I'm doomed then

    • Badballie

      no you are not, it is a load of crap. Racially black guys have a bigger dick, smallest dicks are in Asian and Indian males, and they make the most babies in the world. Porn shows these massive dicks, well there are very few of those, they use drugs and all sorts of things. Just check I think they have a + - 4 inches or so.

  • Anonymous

    Nice take

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