So I’ve noticed while spending time at a beach that people are just way too innocent.
As people know I frequent nude beaches. I dude it because I like swimming nude. However, I find that occasionally they’re so populated by people who appear uncomfortable with nudity that sometimes it isn’t worth it to strip nude. Just to save drama and not offend people.
When this happens I sit and observe the beach. What I hear people talking about, and see them doing, makes them all seem sheltered and sexually repressed. I’m not even sure what to make of it. That’s when it hit me. Maybe the majority of the population is like this. At least in the United States.
People are just uncomfortable with nudity. Uncomfortable with sexuality. Get weirded out easily and don’t like being checked out or approached only for hookups, even on Tinder of all places.
It seems the only place this isn’t offensive is at bars. But then the scale tips way over and the guys are all on steroids and it’s hyper sexualized in unnatural ways. Why is there no middle ground where people are just completely cool with sex whenever with almost whoever? Why are people averse to that? What makes them so repressed?
I don’t know.
But what I do know is I consider these people ‘too nice.’ Regardless of how physically attractive they might be, they’re just too innocent. Even if they have always dated and are sexually active, they’re still too sheltered. Too uncomfortable with their natural bodies. I can’t comprehend it. I feel like Europe is much more sexually liberated as a culture compared to the United States.
Of course, my theory is that Christianity is to blame. But more broadly, puritanical beliefs that determine the culture in the United States to this day.
Ultimately, I feel out of place here. Neither hyper sexualized or ritualistic nor overly modest. I wonder what I am doing here in the US and if I would be better served by moving to Europe. Or possibly Hawaii. To be honest, I don’t really understand it. I’m not sure if that’s just how people naturally are, or if they are trying to conform to social norms. Either way, it’s possible to be too nice. Or maybe the better term is ‘too American.’
That’s all.
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