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Men love women while women love that which surrounds the man

Men just look at this photo. Those piercing green eyes, her soft full red lips, that silky straight healthy ginger hair, her smooth skin and the cute freckles. Within seconds many men viewing this picture love her very existence. She is her skin, lips, hair, eyes and overall body. She is NOT her car, money, height, social status or job.

Men love women while women love that which surrounds the man

Depending on a woman fertility cycle and her status (If poor or wealthy) it can determine her choice in mates. For example most females like tall, musclebound guys with thug personalities and bling if they are from the ghetto. Keep in mind women like the FEELING they get from the guys muscles and height. THEY don't truly care about it like how we men truly love boobs and ass.

Men love women while women love that which surrounds the man

Highter status wealthy women that are in heat or have a higher sex drive also go for the alpha male primal badboy. Keep in mind women like the FEELING they get from the guys muscles and height. THEY don't truly care about it like how we men truly love boobs and ass.

Men love women while women love that which surrounds the man

Women that aren't in heat but are well off go for high ranking beta males that emotionally turn them on. This male needs materials such as money, a car and a nice job along with social status in order to attract the female.

Men love women while women love that which surrounds the man

Even every Gag guy on this site got their girlfriends by being a solid beta male provider or a rare alpha male. The omega males (scrawny short guys with no friends or social status on this site have no girlfriend) So what is the take away? Women as you can see literally only like the feeling they get from a guys muscles and height. The love his social status, wealth, car, house, social status and actions.

We males can NOT be loved simply for exist like women. Women just have to exist and BOOM a few guys love them. Now women will try to debate this by saying they love a man's personality. WEll guess what ladies? I'm not my personality or social status. I am my blood and flesh and you ladies don't love my blood and flesh. You love that which surrounds me.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • You look at women as if they’re another species dude. My sister doesn’t think like this, nor does my mom or anyone else in my family. They’re mexican and believe in commitment and sticking by your mans side no matter what. My ex loved me when I was absolutely broke and wanted to marry me then. Wanted to marry me when I was dying of cancer and couldn’t do anything. Wanted to marry me when I had it all and came up on money. Shit made no difference. I broke up with her for other reasons. You sound like you don’t have any quality women in your life. Third-wave feminism might hve brainwashed a lot of modern women, but not all.

  • Dude--seriously. . . stop bitching. Would you REALLY be happy if you existed and BOOM--a few girls loved you? REALLY? What if they were ugly 300lbs warpigs? Would you still be happy? No? Well, that's the situation for plenty of girls who have a few guys who love them. They aren't exactly thrilled because those dudes are complete zeros. And if you were being honest you'd acknowledge that you're not interested in "some" girl being in to you. You want a hot girl.

    • Well said

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    • Thanks for mh.

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  • Lol, it's basically saying "It's so deep and wonderful of men to "love" women for nice face and tits (but if you weren't born pretty then fuck you), but women are so shallow and awful to "love" men for what they possess"

    Not that I agree all women look only for money and all men only for appearance, of course not. But in this situation, are men so much better than women? If you want to look at this that way, you have more control over your social and money status than a woman has over the appeal of her face and the shape and size of those tits that you love so much (only hot ones obviously)

    • Men don't really give a shit about a woman's face. Women usually care more about the face. And you have a lot more control over your appearance than a man has over his social and financial status.

    • @DWD94 Women don't have any control over their body shape. If you are doomed to be square, you will never be hourglass. And obviously, ugly face features are also unchangeable

    • They have control over their weight. Men aren't as picky as many womens magazines say we are. We have preferences but we are willing to settle.

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  • "Now women will try to debate this by saying they love a man's personality. WEll guess what ladies? I'm not my personality" the only person that would say this, is someone who doesn't want to deal with the fact that they have a bad personality

    • Or someone who doesn't have a personality at all

    • I am pretty sure we 'are' our personalities, or at least it is an important part of what makes us who we are. So I tend to agree with you.

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  • There really are some salty little boys on this site who think they are god's gift to women and don't understand why they are the only ones who see it so they put down women. I'm so sick of this "nice guy" bullshit, you aren't owed a woman, earn one... but I digress
    You don't even see you're defining men as vapid and women as being gold diggers.
    Someone's ugly, is someone's beautiful and each person has their own priorities when it comes to things they look for in a partner. Looks are a huge part of that for every person, you have to be sexually attracted, its not going to work if you aren't. but it's really rude to assume men only care about looks, I don't know a single man who would marry a women just for looks. Sure they might date someone who they have no common interested, goals, morals, work ethic, family wants, etc but they are cute but it won't last.
    A man could have ton of money and success and his relationships won't last until he gets with someone who finds him attractive. A man needs to be more than just successful if he wants to keep a woman interested same as a woman needs to be more than just a pretty face and nice body.

    • He must be dumb enough in first place to keep woman interested cuz almost every successful man fuck gold bitches and then dumb her next day. The gild diggers assume "guy don't know why he is getting attention" but darling We all know the perks that comes with success and Pussy is one of them. before you attack ohhhh you may not be good enough for anybody THINK AGAIN darling "MONEY, LOOKS and some knowledge about manipulation" You can have fresh pussy every weekend !

    • dump

    • @AlphaGhost Only if you measure success by how much sex you get... give it a few more years and you'll realize ANYONE can get sex, pretty much ANYTIME. It's nothing to brag about, people like sex. You don't need to manipulate anyone to get it either, that's a fucking disgusting outlook to have about women.

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  • Meh. Fundamentally, we all seek what we think will benefit us the most. None of us are selfless. Especially not in the realms of love. We want what we want, because that is what pleases us the most.

    I agree with what you've said. But at the same time, it could be argued that men don't really love women for women, either. It may be true that women only love men for what they can do for them. At the same time, it may also be true that men only love women for.

    Either way, it's a dogfight. Natural selection. The fittest survive, the unfit don't. That's the name of the game. None of us created that game. We can only choose to play it or not play it. Don't hate the player, hate the game, right? Although, I'm more of a mind of "Accept the game for what it is and play it as brilliantly as possible."

    Either way, the only reasonable route is acceptance. We are how we are. And you can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes. You can get what you need. As the old proverbs say. lolololol.

    • Preach!

  • Oh thank you. Thank you SO much that you a man can tell me a woman what I do and don't like. Thank God we have people like you to mansplain and tell us what we like, what would we do without you.
    You must me right though, that's why Elliot Rodger got so many girls... Oh wait... 😕 that's not right is it... Idiot.

  • "women that are in heat"

    Wow. You're literally reducing us down to being like simple wild animals that behave differently and have varying male types depending on our monthly cycle (which not all women experience).

    All of this spiel to basically say that you believe all women are gold diggers or only date thugs (basically, they won't date you so you've formulated this lame excuse to make yourself feel better and place the blame on the entire female population instead of on yourself. After all, that's the easier thing to do).
    I'm amazed.

    • To be fair, humans are basically animals.

    • @StickStickity13 We are but we don't usually describe women going through their menstrual cycle as being in heat. Just like we don't call a woman who's had a hysterectomy, 'spayed'.

  • I believe that you misunderstand your own train of thought here. I am a sociologist and look at it from the point of science.

    Science has proven, as you said, that females are more attracted to height and social status, but also to charming personalities, while men are more attracted to younger females (reproduction and beauty).
    So I would say that the feeling the average female in your description here gets when looking at a muscly man is attraction, just like you get that feeling when you look at a beautiful woman.
    I don't see the difference feeling vs. "how we men truly love it" at all, it sounds like hogwash. Women like the "pleasure on the senses" that the sight of a beautiful man gives just like men do with women.

    Additionally, just to give you a better outlook on things: In studies, it has been shown that females in socialist states have actually NOT been paying attention to social status and things of that nature, the things that attracted the different genders there have been very simple and down to earth.

    • That's good news. I should just immigrate to a socialist country. I bet I would like Columbia.

    • @Robertcw I said this more to prove a point: a lot of the times it's not something evil deeply ingrained in our biological gender, but rather an effect of the current economic system on ourselves. Also, I just want to say that personally I'm not even into guys that are as muscly as the pictures here show.

    • lol, I guess Columbia just elected a conservative leader. Didn't realize that. They seem to be moving towards capitalism.

  • are you kidding me man? men love women? really? i mean, based on your post, men only like that which surrounds women. aka: their hair colour (which we don't really have much choice over), their skin colour, eye colour (again, not our choice.) and their body? a woman's appearance is her commodity. a man (according to you) judges a woman based on how beautiful and youthful she appears. that's the male equivalence to a "gold-digger." a woman may not be as interested in looks and age as long as he is rich. but don't sit there and pretend that judging a woman on her beauty and something she has no control over (her facial features) is loving a woman, instead of loving that which surrounds the woman. and her body? really? body? right. because expecting a perfect body is certainly not the same as expecting a Porsche and a few muscles.

    • and most guys i see on a regular basis do not look like alpha males. they look average. if you want a gorgeous girl, you have to be prepared to do a little maintenance on your part. how can you expect a girl to be perfect and you can just be "flesh and blood?" lots of men have that. you have to have a little extra, whether in personality, looks, or all of the above. and some gorgeous women have average partners. it happens. i see more beautiful women with average men than the reverse, so i don't really see why you're complaining.

    • Lol. I was exactly thinking the same thing. The problem is that men these days think that everything belong to them so they get really pissed off when a woman start to have standards. They were probably spoiled too much by their mama, or they dated insecure women, who gave them everything just so they will be present with them. Most of the men who use the term gold digger, are ugly losers who expect a sexy young woman to kiss their feet and to give them a blowjob for free.

    • Miranda Kerr is a famous Victoria’s secret model who married a billionaire, and every men were claiming how she is a gold digger, and how she would never look at him if he was poor. Lol, as if he would look at her if she was ugly 🙄

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  • Dude, just stop. Only shallow and stupid guys look at a woman and love her for just her appearance, and I can say this because I've been in more than one relationship -- a relationship consists of largely conversation. So only guys who never have been in a relationship think that women have it made because men are attracted to their looks.

    Also, how many girls make bad decisions about men? Lots. Why do they do it? Some of it lies in the fact that the keep picking the sexy/cute/attractive guy who has zero character. Who cares if it's because his muscles make them feel wanted? It's the same thing as the woman being chased because she's attractive, and any differences in this are meaningless.

    Yeah, men and women are different.

    Yeah, personality counts for a lot. You're driving women away with yours. Yay?

    Take to heart what I'm saying and stop fighting against fundamental female nature. Stop hating all women because you've run into a few sucky ones. Learn to be a man, identify what you individually like, go for that and don't settle for anything else.

  • Loving someone and being sexually attracted to them are two very different things. You can’t love someone only for the way they look.

    • Sure. But the point was that the difference lies in that men aren't judging on the basis of status, wealth, capability, etc, while women do -- and this creates an effect that's being described as women caring about the things that surround the man; things that are external to his being, compared to guy's experience of a girl wherein he almost exclusively cares about things that are internal/essential to her being.

  • Jesus christ wtf did I just read

    • y'all are in heat, like wild does lol. His terminology for women, and choice of words was goofy and strange,

    • @brennanhuff right? The whole thing makes me want to barf

    • Guys are lost. Women aren't making any effort to communicate with men. That's the issue with our society today. Too many guys are left to speculate about the way women are.

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  • Last time I checked.. I “loved” a really short skinny guy who most girls said had a big nose and wasn’t the best looking... I like him because he’s smart, committed, funny, and caring to the people that matter to him.

    Sorry for whatever happened to you... remember females are human too... we all can call each other things... like “oh u only like her for her body” or “oh u only like him for his money”... there’s a girl out there blaming men right now for how they think too...

  • Well.. From what I know, male's main goal is to procreate, to find someone to carry on their generation, so of course you'd be more attracted to physical attributes. And females are more about stability etc so of course females would be more attracted to the aspect of being well cared/provided for. It's actually deeper than that or goes something like that but this is what I remember.

  • Alright I know for a fact this shit not real because I'm the main money maker and the looker in my relationship when it comes to societal views.

    But that's my mf man, the love of my life. And I love him for him. Not because he has a bunch of shit. Fuck all that, I can get it myself. I love him for who he is. He's the smartest most beautiful man I know. He has a loving heart and an amazing smile. He makes me feel home every day. He treats me like a goddamn goddess and I show him I'm grateful every chance I get.

    So this take is some ass hair blended with crackhead juice. Swallow that shit yourself. Cause it ain't it. 🙄

    • You sound like the worst lol

  • Ok so what if you are offered everything you framed off, nice tits nice ass smart to someone who would never ever dreamed to have that and still it’s not enough. People see others in their eyes differently. Depends where you are in hour life. A woman will want something different in 20, 30, 40 ams so on. Why some men are so insecure and can’t see themselves the way we see them regardless status and money and all that BS. There is more to life and more to a men such as creativity, determination the commitment to a new word not. I don’t care how mascular aloha rich guy you are is you can’t keep your word and make a difference in someone’s life it’s a huge turn off for me. And now you tell me that a woman goes only for the

  • Are you seriously claiming that height and muscles wouldn't be a part of a person's appearance? And that your personality isn't what actually makes you who you are? XD like what the hell dude.

  • Spoken by someone who's personality couldn't even get a Wet Mop!!! I Love How Losers Blame Us Women for their Lack if Self!!! Get a personality suitable for a Drain Board then let's have a serious convo...

    • To be fair a lot of girls don't have any personality either, but they still except their guy to be charismatic and 'make them laugh' despite having the personality of a brick wall. A lot of women are losers.

    • @mateynine Some of them just do all sorts of wrong with capital letters to boot.

  • Okey
    Number 1. You're not a female and have no idea what we find attractive in men.
    Number 2. Shut the fuck up 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • You dont think we can tell what women find attractive? And dont you know instinctively, what men find appealing? When you check yourself in the mirror that final time before going out, who's eyes are you viewing you through? This is such a dumb debate to be having when even though there has been TONS of data, most of which was provided directly by women in various polls and studies and STILL some cunts will argue it's not so lol

  • Women are loved for their beauty. same as men are. Yes personality plays a big part too but you act like it´s all men care about. you could´ve poster a picture od amy shumer instead and tell us how women are just loved for being women. but you kow thats bullshit. and why is a six pac not equivalent to the nice body of a women? that´s pretty hypocritical of you. if a women likes a fit body she doesn´t really like the person but it´s fine for the guy to be into her body?

    • This is so true. The best possible surprise is when you talk to a very pretty girl and exoect her to be a horrible person because of her looks, super bitchy etc, annnd then she completely blows you away because she isn't at all and she's amazing and awesome to talk to.

  • Sort of. But men fall in live with the idea of a woman. Women can’t really live up to the ideal. But it’s true that guys require way less from women then they want from a guy (in serious relationships)

  • Thug ghetto guys women like? wtf you talking about? I've never heard of that? Only ratchet women like those guys. Women in heat? I didn't know this was the discovery channel...

  • I've seen some guys including my husband and every time I look at them my heart skips a beat *-* they look lovely

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