1. Clean Your Room!!
If you can't even keep your own room, a small square space a few metres by a few metres clean & organised how are you going to organise success in your life.
2. Goals
Set goals for yourself. Start off with small goals and build them into bigger & bigger goals. Retry or change your goals of they fail or don't work out.
3. Hit it Hard
No matter what you do, hitting the gym hitting the books, hitting the club's, hitting the pussy you gotta hit it hard. If your not improving yourself, building a better lifestyle for yourself, laughing, having making a point about learning about life making a point to have a better sense of humour but you are just sitting there and not being proactive& putting in the effort then what do think is going to happen.
4. Educate yourself
I'm not just talking about school or college but learn anything that mat be useful to you in the future. Don't rely on schools or colleges to teach you what you need to know as more & more schools are becoming more like state run day care for teens & colleges more like degree mills churning out debt laden graduates who can't get a job outside minimum wage jobs in the service industry. If you do go to college be sure there is a career at the end of the rainbow. I recommend considering trades or stems.
5. Learn to Fight
One day you may have to defend yourself from assault. You might not like fighting and may not become Chuck Norris but knowing enough to fend off an attack or neutralise an attacker giving you a chance to run or put your attacker down. Street fights can be particularly brutal because when you go down attackers will keep kicking you the end result being hospitalization or death.
6. Learn to Dance
Women love to Dance. If you want to get with a woman chances are they are going to want to Dance. Women always open the gates for a man that can dance so learn to ballroom dance, to line dance, shuffle dance whatever.
6. Dress well
Learn to dress well if you want to be taken seriously by women and by employers. You should own at least one suit. If your low on funds thrift shops will generally have anything you need. Develop your own style. Dress for the job you want, dress to attract the kind of woman you want. Remember if you dress like a thug society will treat you like you like a thug just like they will if you dress like a slob or a sex predator.
7. Role models
One great thing that helped me was great success role models but what also helped was failure role models. I study failure very carefully, I want to learn from my failures. Understand that nobody is doing anything you can't do and when people offer advice or help consider it.
8. Personal Responsibility
Accept complete responsibility for yourself and your failures in life. Act like a victim in life and you will be one. Today's victim culture tells people that they can't succeed because of their sex, race, sexuality, religion or socioeconomic status. That sort of thinking is self defeating. Maybe thats true outside of the western world. If you live in the first world you are not oppressed.
9. Confidence
Self confidence is something some seem born with but it can be learned and developed with practice. Cowering away in your bedroom because you are an impotent "introvert", " incel", "MGTOW" doesn't benefit you or change anything. Women are attracted to confidence, employers are attracted to confident men and people are less likely to f*ck with you if you have an auroa of confidence. Sometimes you gotta grab life by the pussy.
10. Learn to Tear that P*ssy up
Learning to please a woman sexually is important for the up& coming gentleman as it creates a reputation for yourself with other women so read up on, it practice it, communicate with sexual partners etc. You may actually find that like me a lot promiscuous women don't know what they like sexually despite their experience because they never learned and are too backward to communicate their desires so they can be grateful for the learning experience especially if she finally gets that big O. A sexual reputation spreads with word of mouth, women are always interested in sampling what other women have or had.STDs are a serious business so glove up on any casual encounter.
11. Learn basic Life Skills
This is rather simple, basically learn to look after yourself and be self reliant. So driving, cooking, cleaning, laundry, home maintenance, car maintenance, managing money, sewing, basic first aid and so. So many today lack the most basic life skills.
12. Never Show Weakness
Human beings are not too far removed from the animal kingdom and our primate cousins, we are all just one bad day from beating our chests and throwing our shit at each other. Showing weakness in real life whether it be some punk in the street, a work colleague or a bad neighbour invites attack. Bullies don't bully the strong, muggers don't mug somebody that can handle themselves, burglars don't rob a guy with an AR15( least not successfully), wolves attack the weakest in the herd. Even the most feminist woman deep down despises a weak man.
13. Accept life isn't fair
Life is not fair, nobody is going to hand you anything just because you want it, life doesn't always work out how you hoped & shit happens stop whining about it. You might have a sports scholarship in college and set to go pro but blow out your knee well tough, thats life. You may be engaged to the most wonderful woman in the world with a bright future ahead of you both but she dies in her sleep, tough. You may watch your mother suffering as she dies a painful death from cancer, well that's too bad. The world keeps turning with or without you & doesn't stop just because your life has collapsed. Shit rains from the sky on the good & bad alike. Also just because that cute girl you like rejects you & goes off with a football player well thats no reason to shoot the school up the next day to show her how wrong she was.
14. Learn to shoot
Learning to shoot in my opinion is a necessity for every young man whether for hunting, plink shooting, serving your country or for home defence. I've had to defend my home before, I was ok but the intruders were not. Criminals don't care if you are anti gun.
15. Marry a good woman but play the field until you find her
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15. Patriotic
Serve in the military, serve your community, serve among first responders, do charity work, represent your country in sports or academics there are many ways. Support your country & believe in it, do your part as a citizen.
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