Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Most people think of men who are in a female led relationship or are obidient to their wife/GF as weak. Which is because female led relationships are very falsely portrayed by the midea.

What is a female led relationship?

People often mix them with femdom which are two different things. Femdom is a sexual fetish that involves a woman dominating a man or enslaving him and this is only a sexual thing. Female led relationships are not slavery. Both partners respect each other and love each other. A female led relationship is a relationship where the man admits that women are better leaders and he lets her have the last word in their decisions. She simply decides what they will do and he takes her permission before doing something.

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it isn't a sign of weakness for a man to submit to a woman

Back in ancient times a mighty strong knight killed dozens of soldiers on the battlefiled and when he goes back to his kingdom he kneels infornt of his queen and submits to her. It doesn't make him weak he simply knows when to be strong and when to kneel

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it's in fact a sign of strength?

Because naturally society gives men more privileges and what I mean by privellages is a man is expected to lead his wife and be the dominant one. When you give away your own privellages and accept to give it to the woman it's a sign of true love and strength.

It's a sign of strength when you aren't afraid of what others would think of you,you only care about what she thinks which is a sign of true love

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why be in a female led relationship in the first place?

Because I beleive women are smarter and better at leading,I feel more comfortable when a woman is in charge of something whether it is at school or in politics or in a workplace. I love the feeling of obeying women and pleasing them. Being a good Guy in a group of men who mostly hate women is a good feeling!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The idea of being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness. I work on a building site, most guys will do what their wife wants no matter how big n strong they are.

    That's not what people see as weakness.

    It's when a guy gets pushed around by his family, people at work/school etc etc etc... and he decides that he needs a girl to control his life because he is unable to take care of himself and stand up for what he believes in.

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  • Excellent myTake, I completely agree, only a strong and intelligent man knows that a dominant woman is an ideal partner, and not a sign of weakness.

    • Thanks for the MHO

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  • Sometimes women are just naturally more dominant than their male partners. I’ve seen many female led relationships work pretty well.

    • Anyone who lets anyone else dominate them in a relationship is weak. Every male-led relationship i've seen has a woman with no spine and who cowers to a man so she will be taken care off. Every female-led relationship I've seen has pathetic shell of a man who's letting himself be controlled in exchange for pussy.

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  • I like this hehe. Dont worry ill still let him be the boss in the bedroom

    • Well actually I'm more submissive in the bedroom but that's another story 😬

    • you're only 14. But yea i dont like submissive in the bedroom men. Unless im choking him while riding

    • Well that's fine

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  • I feel like this is overgeneralized. Why can't we just stop drawing borders and lines of "men/women are better leaders/ this/ that/ etc."

    Sometimes the female in the couple is the better leader. Sometimes the male is. It would be wise to put the best people on the job in the right positions.

    Why not take it one day at a time and not have to have an existential crisis every time something flies in the face of societal norms?

  • Personally I don't want anyone to be "in charge" and don't know why that would be a good thing.

  • A leader is nothing if he/she is alone. Each one relies on the other.

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  • I feel like I always have to take the lead, not because I want to, but because men don’t do it, like with my ex boyfriend I was the one to take a step further, and I was the one who kissed him first and everything , when we make plans, I always have to find a place or something because if I don’t do it he won’t.
    And I actually don’t like it, but what can I do? I don’t like doing the same things over and over everyday

    • Well, it's better than when you're being led. Beleive me

  • What is this 'submission' thing? I think we are equals, and sexually, we take turns, maybe with how we love, and maybe we play her fantasy thing, but nobody really 'leads' being equals.

  • K... uh, not necessarily disagreeing, but I don't think being a follower in any relationship, regardless of sex, is a sign of strength. Usually, it means you're passive and don't like to make decisions.

    That's all well and good but it's kind of necessary for both people in a relationship to be capable of leading. If one person predominantly makes the decisions, that puts the other partner in an inferior, almost childlike position.

    • If I'm being frank, it kind of seems like you're trying to justify your personal preference to be passive in a relationship by making it out to be something it isn't. You're not "strong" by mindlessly letting someone make your decisions for you and refusing to argue.

    • No I never said no arguing. I said just letting the other SOMETIMES decide

    • "A female led relationship is a relationship where the man admits that women are better leaders and he lets her have the last word in their decisions." Actually, no you didn't.

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  • If I ever find myself in a relationship with a dominant woman:
    - She can boss everyone else EXCEPT ME
    - She can have a better job than me
    - She can give me advice and I'll definitely take it
    - She can talk shit FOR me (because I'M gonna back the shit talk up)
    - She can drive my car (only when I'm in it)
    - She can pay (even though I can afford it)
    - She can talk shit to me but she WILL pay for it (later in bed)
    - She can TRY to embarrass me in public but I don't play fair
    - She can NOT speak for me on decisions
    - She can NOT make me give up my friends

    • Mmmmm you sure im your type lol? I only agree with avout 50% of this 😄

    • Lol what is there not to agree with I allowed the best parts but I'm still gonna be my own person @dizzydesii

    • you're right ig. I gotta tone down on the controlling haha

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  • How about men and women both bring different strengths to the table?

  • The point of a relationship is to be true equals. For example, I suck at math and finances but am extremely good at thinking quickly on my feet and finding crafty ways out of a sticky situation. A man and woman each brings strengths and weaknesses to a relationship. I say whoever is stronger in a certain category should lead it. For example, I personally would feel more comfortable with her taking care of finances and budgeting and me just agreeing if it seems sensible while I am the one who makes major decisions in categories she is weak in. However, even in those examples we come to an agreement, not one telling the other what will happen. Also, in the sense of teaching kids who to respect, it is dangerous to elevate one parent above the other in a marriage. If my wife and I have a disagreement on how to handle something with the kids or whether or not to allow them to do something, we would tell them they have to wait for us both to agree on a decision.

  • Ohhh no. Deluded thinking right there. I was almost in one of those "Female Led" relationships... luckily I retrieved my balls from the handbag before it was too late.

    Both people should be equal in a relationship. Both take turns at leading and making new direction. Permission? really? You aren't a child and you aren't her posession for fucks sake.

    You compromise and work together as a team. Marriage is voluntary enslavement if you do that shit. Best to take turns and work as a team.

  • Lol someone's unbearably single.

  • Looks at OP’s age... 14.

    Checks out.

  • Agree with what you said 100%!! I am very grateful and proud that my marriage is a female led relationship. My first marriage was not female led and it ended in divorce. So I'm proud to be led by my wife in my current marriage.

    • That's amazing!

    • She is amazing! And a great leader and I am glad and happy to follow her as she leads our marriage.

    • That's really great! Wished more men were like you

  • A good wife is not the Don. She is Consiglieri. She provides advice that he will almost always follow if he has picked her well. And she is able to enforce her views through the power of her husband.
    Look at family situation comedies from the 50's. Ward and June Cleaver. Jim and Margaret Anderson. The men are wise but not autocratic. The women are respectful but firm. June and Margaret made themselves heard and their advice was heeded and most often adopted.

  • Wow, this is different. I'm kind of controlling by nature and have my moments but I still prefer my vato to be in charge overall.

  • The normalization of this will be the end of a strong society.

    Weak men will create hard times.

    • The weak men are the triggered boys who are afraid of dominant women

    • @NorthwestRider Men are supposed to be the leaders of human society. Not to say that women can't be leaders as well, but men falling back into submissive roles in droves is going to be catastrophic.

    • It's going to be beneficial for all of society. We've been into this "strong society" lead by men. And it resulted in war and chaos. Now it's time for girls to take the throne. Whether by blood or by peace they will take the throne

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  • Sounds like your setting yourself up to be a cuckold, that's what happens to men who can be easily dominated by women. Women see submissive men as unattractive I'm afraid.
    Back in ancient times when a knight was victorious on the battlefield he raped the local woman folk and went on a drink fueled killing spree. He kneeled before his king (99% of monarchs in history were male) and went home to his pregnant wife choosing to lay with a servant girl that night instead.

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    • You're a heathen. And no offense but also an ignorant idiot. You know that dominant women exist right? Ones who love dominating men and love having an obidient husband, and feminists who hate dominant men also exist

    • Of course women love to dominate because it gives them the opportunity to screw other guys.

    • No it's not, some girls (that I personally know) beleive that dominant men destroyed the world and women need to start ruling, and some others have stuff like a femdom fetish

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