How I Discovered Mental Orgasms

Yes, you read it right. An orgasm without physically being touched. No hands. No partners. Just the brain.

How I Discovered Mental Orgasms

A few years back, I went without orgasming. No sex. No masturbation. Naturally, my body went crazy the first week. By week three my libido was overflowing and my mind was cluttered with all sorts of sexual thoughts. Most women turned my head. Women I wouldn’t normally noticed even for my attention.


During my 30 day drought I discovered something about my body. When I lied in bed and shut my eyes, I would let my dirty thoughts play. And of course I would get aroused. But it got to the point where I could feel myself coming close to climaxing. It shocked me at first. But it intrigued me. Could I get off just be thinking?

How I Discovered Mental Orgasms

That week I spent my nights letting my sexual energy go as wild as it could. No touching myself or rubbing against the bed. As the thoughts played, I focused on being completely relaxed, not trying to fight my urges but also not trying to force them.


Then. It happened. In the midst of my lustful thoughts I felt my lower region swell as almost all of my muscles contracted. It felt as if I came. The feeling of ecstasy flushed all over my body. But unlike the typical orgasm, it didn’t stop after the first hit.

How I Discovered Mental Orgasms

As I tried to catch my breath I felt myself swell up again and as soon as my muscles contracted another orgasm hit. Then another. It got to the point where my legs started shaking and I could stop myself from kicking. Not only was I getting off with sheer brain power, I was making myself have multiple orgasms.


Once I was too tired to think I lied in bed breathless. Exhausted with a slight headache. It was like I had just come from the gym. Everything was so silent, my mind calm and the wind of a fan hitting my body. My mind and body were in this harmonically relaxed state. It was like I had made some big discovery. I had unlocked one of my body’s secrets.

How I Discovered Mental Orgasms

The mental single and multi-orgasm. After I discovered it, doing it again was easy. I would be in class wondering if I could do it right there. I’d put my hand over my eyes and look at my text book as if studying. Then I shut my eyes and focused. Sure enough I was able to bring myself to the point of climaxing. Of course I didn’t let the dam break. Once I start having multiple orgasms, stopping is hard and it would be very hard to not show.


So I stuck to doing it in the comfort of my own home. As far as I can tell there are no drawbacks besides short headaches. I can somewhat control the multiple orgasms. I can keep them going for as long as I want pretty much. If I do it too long I’ll start to get headaches. I try not to let it get to that point because I’m not sure what causes the headaches. They only last 5-10 minutes. My guess is exhaustion but I don’t want to overdo it and give myself brain damage or something.


What’s a discovery you’ve made about your body that most may not be able to do? Can you get yourself off by thinking it? Share your stories!


Thanks for reading ✌️

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Most Helpful Girls

  • That's a good discovery. I totally believe it's possible. What do you think is the particular advantage? So that you can cum in public or very quietly, or are they better because they're multiple or quite a different feeling altogether? It sounds very tantric. Advanced yogis make incredible lovers because of their breathing and control. They say this because of "having mastered the art of lovemaking over millennia." To be able to control when and how you cum, no matter what your age, is a great skill to have.

    • I’m 26 😂. But I think the greatest advantage is having complete self control. It’s like my mind and body are completely synced. My sex drive has always been pretty high even for a guy. I think finding out about this was inevitable for me. Another benefit I guess would be maintaining my high libido without losing my ability to focus on anything else. I have control over how horny I’ll get out during my day and can use the energy for other things like lifting waits or bettering my mood. I should do a Mytake on the benifits for this. There’s a lot.

  • I can relate to that in more ways that I could ever describe! It's an amazing experience which can happen to both men and women. Girls are usually more familiar with this because they tend to explore their bodies more ~ the same way you ended up doing.

    @Dongtai
    May I ask what made you decide to stop masturbating for a month?

    • I was doing it a lot. I felt that I was weakening my natural urge to go out and meet women by satisfying myself sexually. When I stopped, those urges came back and I was dating girls within a month. Girls who I were normally too nervous to approach I ended up dating because my urges were stronger than my fear of rejection. I personally feel that my sex drive plays a big role in my success with women. So I needed to figure out how to tame it. If I’m too horny, I can’t think straight. But if I’m not horny enough I don’t have the confidence/motivation I need to meet women. During that 30 day period I discovered mental orgasms. It tamed my urges but didn’t take away my motivation to meet girls. It basically keeps me balanced.

    • It's impressive how you are aware of your body. Thanks for answering! 🙂

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wait is this actually a thing? I could go months and months on end (actually I have before) without experiencing anything even somewhat close to this.

    How this works even blows my mind, I don't get it or understand how it would even happen.

  • Its called tantric sex and mental orgasm is a funny way of saying mind fucked.

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  • Wow… not exactly the standard way NoFap is done, but (if such a report is true), you've just made a ground-breaking discovery.

  • Not everyone can have a purely mental orgasm and it's much more common in women, but it's not that uncommon actually.

    I can't do it, but good for you man.

  • Yes. Wet dreams are basically orgasms generated in the rem-sleep brain. YouTube has self-hypnosis directed at achieving similar orgasms. The focused awake brain can likewise achieve orgasm.

  • It look like something so out of mind! Never though this could happen to anyone! Having sex must be awsome! Haha

  • bruh this is definitely a thing i’ve experienced.

    also can happen when i’m reading a book and something sexual takes place

  • These “mental orgasms” are part of my spiritual practice of Tantra magic.
    Of course that probably sounds silly and dumb to most but it works like a charm.

    • There’s nothing silly/dumb about spirituality and don’t ever let anyone convince you otherwise. I’m spiritual as well and I do think that’s how I was able to discover this.

    • Thanks ☺️ at first I was embarrassed because of all the varying opinions but now I don’t give a fuck. However, I’m aware that many people think I’m crazy or demonic.

    • As long as you’re not out here trying to hex people I say you’re cool alright. Thanks for the follow

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  • Interesting, but lacking the feel of truth. Tell me, did you ejaculate at all? Was your cumm splattered anywhere? Isn’t that one of the things that occurs during the more “traditional” orgasm?

    • You should checkout part two on my page for an in depth answer. The term they use to describe this is dry ejaculation. But I release a lot precum when I have multiple orgasms.

  • You said it all ! 🤯 Lol

  • Sure mate. This all isn't utter BS.

    • Oh I get it now. You're the vegan guy from earlier.

    • Dude you’re 15. Go play outside. Study for your spelling test. Why are you commenting on a post about orgasms?

    • Maybe because it sounds bloody ridiculous.

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  • I usually experience this. vivid images flashing, a couple of moans but climaxing... no I'd not go that far. That point is unreachable on mental level.

  • I've known for some time that women have "better" orgasms than men since their whole body is effected. I've always been able to get hard without any physical contact so I decided to try to spread the "buzzing" from groinland to other body parts. Success! Shoulders and arms came first. Persistence enabled me to feel intensity from my fingers to my knees. The change is wild so I've stopped there.
    What you're doing is similar since it's all mental with you and 50% with me.

    How I Discovered Mental Orgasms
  • I would speculate you hypnotsized yourself

  • It never happened to me sadly.
    But to be honest... No orgasms for more than 3 days is just too difficult. I stop thinking, no focus to work..

  • Huh. I have read about this, but you are the first guy I have heard about that could do it. Usually its only women. Did you not ejaculate during those times?

  • I have no words but... WOW!!!😲

  • I dont think I have... Lucky to climax ever...

  • The biggest part is mental and majority of people doesn't realize that.

    Also noticed that many female's tends to be the one's that doesn't do what's necessary to make the mental part happen for their male partner. expecting he shall get it by default because she has the gotten triggered.

  • I want to learn it!

  • wow. I liked this

  • I've experienced similar with vibrators and doing nothing but wait there or by trying to stop an orgasm if successful it works. What you basically experienced is a females version of an orgasm but much more intense.

    • @MilanaSesy OMG no go away you smell!

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