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What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

1. The majority of men prefer bigger ones.

Sure, there are some men who prefer smaller ones, but they are in the minority and the chances that I would find such a man and then like him back are very low. "But hey, just because they prefer other type of breasts than yours doesn't mean it's a dealbreaker". Well, yeah, but it still feels awful to know that they don't like the most sensitive part of me and are paying less attention to it than they would if they were different.

2. Consolations told to women with small breasts aren't consolations at all.

"You can make up for them with a pretty face/ nice butt, etc." - so my boobs are something that needs to be maked up for? Thanks, I feel better already.

"If he will love you, he will accept every part of you" - how nobly of him. Let's get one thing straight - women want men to find their boobs attractive, and to caress them because he wants to do it. Not "accept" them like some burden and caress them because he thinks you want it.

3. I get very envy of women with bigger, perky breasts.

Jealousy is something that eats you from the inside and leaves you bitter. It's never a positive feeling and I would rather to never feel it, but that's the thing about jealousy - you can't help it.

4. Surgery is not worth it.

Even if I ever had the money to afford breasts augmentation - there is no point. Surgery wouldn't make them closer to each other and I would lose the sensivity. So even if men would pay attention to them after the surgery - I wouldn't feel much anyway.

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  • "The proportion of men who like small breasts is a lot higher than what you seem to imply. It's a minority, but it's a BIG minority. So the odds of finding such a man, especially given such men are MORE likely to approach you is actually fairly good."

    This right here. Read this a second time, and then a third.

    I've known girls with big (and very nicely shaped) boobs that have complained that guys ignore them in bed, which I used to not believe until I'd heard it often enough. The fact is that a lot of guys like something else: asses, legs, feet, armpits (!), or whatever, and they don't give much attention to girls' boobs no matter what they look like. Yes, that sounds crazy to me too, but it's true.

    So don't just automatically think that guys are ignoring your boobs because of their size - some just ignore boobs period.

    Then there are guys like me who love boobs - big, medium, or small - and are happy to give them attention. If that's important to you, then that needs to go on your list of "must-haves."

    Oh, and thank you for not getting implants. My biggest deal-breaker is fake boobs.

    • I've noticed that men who prefer smaller breasts are usually older, 35/40+ while I'm interested in guys 19-30

    • While younger guys (high school, mostly) tend to want bigger boobs (to an immature mind, more/bigger/faster/louder is always better), that starts to fade once you hit college age, so if you're dating guys in their mid-20s or later, it really shouldn't be an issue. Sure, some will still want big boobs, but most don't really care one way or the other, as long as they like you as a person.

    • @Inneedofusername If you're basing your conclusions on this website, that's because from the polls I've seen, the men on this website generally skew older in general (whereas the women on this site are usually in their teens or twenties). When I was in high school, I overheard some guys talk about how they prefer smaller tits. One said that it was because big tits remind him of his mom.

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  • You can help jealousy, love.
    You are in control of EVERYTHING you feel emotionally including but not limited to the way you see yourself.

    Confidence doesn't come from the way other people see you..
    And honestly I'd probably have to write an entire mytake myself to explain this as thoroughly as I'd like.

    But it doesn't matter, you'll know what I mean soon enough.
    You've probably already stopped reading and rolled your eyes just like I would have 3 years ago lol.

    But there's truth in these words..
    I'm telling you.
    Your breasts are BEAUTIFUL!
    I actually prefer them small myself.
    Do you know how much of a pain in the ass big tits are?
    Coming from someone whose experienced both,
    The grass is greener in team A cup 😅

    Itchy. Painful. Sweaty. Are those nipples or pepporonis wtf?
    You get the point.

  • Well in my experience teen boys prefer normal size or bigger boobs. Very small or flat boobs (like mine) probably appeal to a very small percentage of teen boys. But that's okay, I am not envious of those who are bigger. I know one day I will find a guy who likes my small ones.

  • I majorly agree with number 4. Believe me when I say many men don't care about the size of the breasts and plenty say that more than a handful is just a waste. I also feel that many small breasts are more beautiful than bigger ones. To me, they look nicer on various types of women.

    I'm not going to give you a bunch of excuses but I will tell you that many men love small breasts and if one of them doesn't, he can take a hike.

  • Bigger breasts are nothing to be envious of. They are perky for only so long and then gravity takes over and they look like they could play shuffle board with them when they reach 50. There are fit issues for clothing and you may have frequent back aches or straps digging into your shoulders. Smaller breasts stay up for so much longer and as they say, any more than a mouthful is wasted. But you wouldn't know til your boobs were in another girl's bra, kind of like til you walked in someone else's shoes.

  • Natural is always, always, always better than unnatural. I won't say you're not allowed to have augmentation if you really want it, but I will say please don't do it.

    In #1 you say "Well, yeah, but it still feels awful to know that they don't like the most sensitive part of me" - but we DO like them!

    For what it's worth, sensitivity is soooooo much better than size, in my personal opinion. (I actually don't know if most guys would agree or disagree with that statement.)

  • I agree with you 100%... i was a small A til I got prego and have been a Huge C/Small D since I have been breastfeeding for over a year.

    My obgyn says she Thinks my boobs will stay bigger if I stop nursing, but because I have a small petite frame, she said dont be surprised if I shrink down to a B or small with stretch marks and a lot of sag...

    • I am betting we will still find you sexy. You looked great then. Looking great now but not as great (to those of us who love smaller). And will look great later, even with sag.

  • I have a similar experience. The envy-part goes up and down with time, I try my best to love my body the way it is but it still hurts when a guy I like talks about how sexy big breasts are.

    A few consolations from a fellow member of the itty bitty titty committee:
    1. They're less of a burden. We can lay comfortably in any position, we can jump without pain and we don't get boob sweat!
    2. They will probably be around the same location in a few decades. No boobs hanging on our hips later. Our breasts may be underwhelming now, at least they won't be grotesque later.
    3. We don't need support. Comfy bras, no wire, no huge price tags and no cutting shoulder straps. I wear bras against nipple visibility, but those bras are really nice and not a burden at all.
    4. I have small breasts genetically, but tiny breasts because I'm skinny and fit. I'd rather have an AA-cup than a huge collection of stomach rolls, extra chins and diabetes.

  • I’ve meant more than a few guys who prefer smaller boobs.

    It’s not all fun or great to be bigger believe me on that, it’s harder to be taken seriously, they need support or else hurt, they get in the way, clothes fit weird, and it gets annoying that they’re the first thing a lot of people notice.

  • I'm just a B cup, but Hubby tells me that mine are perfect to him. So while I think I am small, it feels just fine since the one person's opinion I care about more than mine thinks they are great.

  • 1) No they don't. One of the the most popular women on Playboyplus right now has size AA breasts. She won "Cyber Girl of the Month" several times, and almost won Cyber Girl of the Year. I swear. Anywhere from AA to C is just fine. You don't need D or DD breasts. I actually am turned off by anything bigger than CC.

    • And I forgot to add that the women who win "Cyber Girl of the Year" usually have sized B breasts, which isn't much bigger than A or AA. You may not believe this, but men actually focus more on a woman's face, eyes, and butt than her breasts most of the time.

    • C cup isn't big, it even isn't medium. I'm a C cup.
      Which of these pictures most closely resembles what you imagine when you hear the term "C-cup"? ↗
      Look at first two pictures in this question and that's close to my size

  • Our culture teaches young women that they need to have big boobs to be attractive to men, and it teaches young men that they should be attracted to big boobs. So you hear shallow guys talking to each other about, "Man, did you see that chick with the watermelons on her chest?" That is how guys get acceptance from other guys for their sexuality. Young guys don't brag about being attracted to small boobs because it's not popular and might even get them branded as a pedophile: "So, you want a girl who looks like she's 14 years old? What kind of a pervert are you?"

    When guys get older, get more confident of themselves, and have less of a need for validation, then they feel more confident in expressing an appreciation for smaller boobs. But it's still not something that gets discussed as frequently as big boobs. So listening to what you hear guys talking about will give you a misleading impression of guys' preferences for boob size.

    Read penis size surveys and if the survey asks a guy to report the size of his erect penis, the answers will be bigger than if you actually have their penises measured by someone else. There is simply a strong bias in reporting that kind of information. The same goes for breast size polls.

    I periodically post a poll asking guys on this site what their preference is for boob size. I have posted such a poll at least three times in the past 4 years and the results are rather consistent. About 25% prefer large boobs (36D or larger,) about 50% either like medium breasts (34C-36C) or have no preference, and about 25% prefer smaller boobs (34B or smaller.) And even among those surveys that do not allow anonymous reporting, the results consistent;y state that breast shape is more important than size for many guys. Large, medium, or small, most guys prefer boobs that are perky and not sagging (which tends to favor smaller breasts.)

    If you want, turn off the safe search filter and google "small boobs." You will find many porn sites - not just one or two - devoted to girls with small boobs. There obviously is a demand for they genre of porn.

    I prefer petite girls who are well proportioned, and that usually means 32A to 34B. Many younger guys share similar preferences.

    • Your point about getting branded as a pedophile is a good one. I've seen that happen. I think it's so screwed up.

      Worldwide, small breasts are normal for adult women. Nearly half of countries have an average breast size of A-cup or smaller. The vast majority of countries have an average breast size of B-cup or smaller.
      https://www.worlddata.info/average-breastsize.php

      Anyone who finds that hard to believe, probably lives in a western country, in which it is indeed common to have breasts of a D cup or above (largely due to being overweight and/or getting breast implants). But that's not the norm among the world as a whole.

      Considering most women in most countries (outside of Western ones) have small breasts, it's clearly not pedophilic. It's absolutely normal for fully-grown, adult women to have small breasts. The extra size in big breasts is composed of fat, so breast size has nothing to do with milk production.

    • By the way, according to that study of the breasts of 340,000 women from over 100 countries, a woman with a 32A has larger breasts than the average woman in 44% of countries.
      44% of countries have an average breast volume of 235ml or below. The average 32A is 240ml in volume. (This chart is in "cubic centimeters", but "cubic centimeters" and "ml" are the same.)
      What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

      So if being attracted to 32As (small A-cups) is pedophilic, then I guess that means that men in nearly half of countries are pedophiles.

  • Me myself Im an ass man

  • I have always preferred smaller. Ever since I became interested in girls. I know you are interested in the opinions of those around your age, but just letting you know that we like them not just when older, but also when younger. So do not feel you are fighting a losing battle. You look great!

  • Well the bra size of the average pornstar is a B, smaller than average. www.yahoo.com/.../...ruth-sex-stars-122610225.html

    Besides that, the guys on here such as @MrOracle and @0112358 have made good points. (I think @OlderAndWiser made have some good insights to add, too; he's done some good polls on the topic, finding that roughly 1/3 of men prefer small breasts, 1/3 prefer big, and 1/3 have no preference, if I recall correctly.)

    But I have to add: "Surgery wouldn't make them closer to each other" What? I'm NOT saying to get surgery, but... you want your boobs to be closer to each other? The idea that women's breasts are "close to each other" is a myth created by pushup bras. Look up images of women wearing "plunging necklines", without bras, and you'll see that most women have a space between their breasts.

    • This website is the only place where I hear about men preferring small boobs 😂😂😂, and most older men on here are more desperate than the average male, despite keeping up appearance most of the time (occasionally it slips) The data for pornstars includes people who do porn for a few months, (which is a large portion of them actually) and the comparison is basically like this, you select the underweight, drug abusing women who do porn for a few months, then compare their average boob size to the boob size of the average chubby/fat/obese women from the US. It doesn't really say anything meaningful. FYI I am one of those guys who don't care much about boobs, so I can't quite remember the boobs of the last porn actress I watched but I don't think they are small, but big boobs is always a plus, just that other characteristics are more important

    • Trust me, by breasts are more far apart than average ones. I've never seen a pair that much spread apart on chest

    • @betaTester I've overheard guys talking in real life about how they like smaller boobs. I've also seen people talk about certain celebrities' "tiny titties" in a positive way.

      "most older men on here are more desperate than the average male" Yeah, I'm sure the men's desperation is the reason they're ANONYMOUSLY voting that they don't care about boob size. Meanwhile they have no problem voting that they're anti-feminist & stuff like that.

      Anyway, according to a study that examined 340,000 women from over 100 countries, nearly half of countries had an average breast size of A-cup or smaller. Almost all countries have an average breast size of B-cup or smaller. (& The average BMIs are all in the healthy range, so no it doesn't have to do with them being underweight/malnourished.)
      https://www.worlddata.info/average-breastsize.php
      The average breast size in the world is 327ml, which is slightly larger than a 34A (310ml). What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

      If small boobs were so unattractive, then they wouldn't be the norm in most countries except for western countries in which most people are overweight.

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  • Lol.. WOW is number 1 wrong. Sorry but the "majority" of men don't give a shit what size they are. And unlike when women say "size doesn't matter", for men it actually is true. Yes, there are men that want super huge mega tits. But they are very very much in the minority.

    • "super huge mega tits" 🤣🤣 LOL that reminded me of that porn add with the fucking lady with each tits weighing like 50 pounds and squashing her girlfriend XD Wtf?

  • I’m happy to have small ones too. Life feels easier xD and clothes look cuter with smaller ones to me. XD

  • I can feel you. You have written some of the exact same things I go through

  • Wanna exchange? The back pains and bad posture aren’t worth it😂 but I would have loved to have B cups fr

  • I'm sure what you have is perfect for you. Not every male like a woman with big breasts.
    Breasts don't make the woman. Be confident in who you are and be happy with what you have.
    Don't change your body for anyone ever. If they can't like/love you just as you are then them liking/loving you say after implants then they don't actually love you for you.
    If your that self conscious about your size then message me and we can talk. No alterior motive here just unrestricted conversation.

    • Have you actually read the whole mytake? I've mentioned that "if he loves you he will accept you" consolation. The truth is - you don't fuck with personality

  • I care way more about figure, face, butt, and legs. Anything more than 36c is getting to big. Most women have big breasts because they are overweight.

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