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I try to limit my time on this site, but like where else can I write this stuff?
So like before, think if this like a blog post.
Today in the shower I was thinking about strip clubs because I recently went to one. And this is when it hit me that stigma around strippers is the equivalent of slut shaming for women.
I feel compelled to state that a woman took me out to a strip club to buy me a lap dance. And this is evidence that the stigma exists.
Why is this the ‘slut shaming’ equivalent for men?
The answer is simple. Unlike average women, average men cannot have sex with hit women on demand online from Tinder or other sites/apps.
Slut shaming originates from jealousy and acknowledgement of the ridiculous easiness of a woman doing something like that. Because it is so easy, people become offended because they are essentially taking advantage of privilege in some form for self-gain, hence slut shaming.
Why aren’t men slut shamed?
The answer is that the cause if slut shaming does not apply to average men. They cannot easily make a online profile and hookup to their heart’s content with little to no effort with hot women, therefore they are not slut shamed — regardless if they score or not, because if how difficult it is, they get high fives instead.
The analogy is like an Olympic athlete who dopes. They are only praised for winning evens if they do not take banned supplements, because banned supplements eliminate the integrity of the event by reducing the difficulty level.
Thus, if women want equal slut shaming for men, they need to be easy and then men could also be slut shammed.
But where can an average man go to see, touch, taste, flirt with and grind on hot women very easily with almost no effort? You know, strip clubs. And a voila.
This is why strip club shamming is the same as slut shaming for men.
A working man could easily walk in multiple times per month and touch and taste all different kinds of boobs, buts and bodies from a wide variety of hot women varying in age, race and height. Both real and fake boobs, different kinds of nipples, real and fake buts, shaven or unshaven etc.
And so, shaming does infact exist for men who take full advantage of these opportunities. Guys who get lap dances from all the hot girls in the club, or perhaps a few different local clubs, is seen negatively with stigma even though he would have absolutely no problem doing so just because he wants to easily, and with little or no effort at all, touch and taste a bunch of different hot girls.
Sound familiar?
That’s exactly the same mindset of women who use Tinder for hookups regularly.
So yeah, that’s why strip club shaming is the male equivalent of slut shaming. 🤟🏼
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