Everybody says that it is women who have the more fluid sexuality. But if you look a bit deeper into this, you'll find out that most women are actually straight, while straight men are rarer than you think.
1. Just look at all possible lgbt forums, or even reddit. Everywhere there appears a thread where a guy complains that women are bad at blowjobs. Later, this thread gets a response from a gay guy or a bi guy, where he says that "I have blown a lot of straight guys, and all of them said that I was better than any girl they had". Also, if you look at threads where straight men share their experiences with gay sex, a lot of them will tell you that "Nobody can give a blowjob as amazing as a man" or "while having gay sex, you feel a special connection that you cannot feel even with the woman you love". But in threads where straight women share their lesbian experiences, they say things like "the oral was okay, but my boyfriend still does it better" or "it probably was hot, but still won't replace a dick". I have never seen a straight man thinking a woman could be better after having gay experiences.
So, basically, women can obviously be straight. They like men and only men. But straight men? A lot of them will never ever view blowjobs from women the same after having a gay experience.
2. Where would you think the saying "it's not gay if you say no homo" would come from if men did not secretly desire same sex contact?
3. You probably heard of the term "bromance". Today's studies have shown that men find bromances even more fulfilling than romances. While women just cannot see the world behind their loved man. There is no female version of bros before hoes, and even if there is, still not as many women use it. Men could basically live without any women at all, while women would murder themselves if no men existed.
Just stating facts. The only reason men don't admit this is social construct. But when you look at what they write anonymously, you'll be really surprised. You can say that I suffer from confirmation bias. But, well, is 20000 people really that low of a number? And besides, there are just some universal facts that nobody can deny, for example that men just give better oral than women to both genders.
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