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Why I think male heterosexuality doesn't exist

Why I think male heterosexuality doesnt exist

Everybody says that it is women who have the more fluid sexuality. But if you look a bit deeper into this, you'll find out that most women are actually straight, while straight men are rarer than you think.

1. Just look at all possible lgbt forums, or even reddit. Everywhere there appears a thread where a guy complains that women are bad at blowjobs. Later, this thread gets a response from a gay guy or a bi guy, where he says that "I have blown a lot of straight guys, and all of them said that I was better than any girl they had". Also, if you look at threads where straight men share their experiences with gay sex, a lot of them will tell you that "Nobody can give a blowjob as amazing as a man" or "while having gay sex, you feel a special connection that you cannot feel even with the woman you love". But in threads where straight women share their lesbian experiences, they say things like "the oral was okay, but my boyfriend still does it better" or "it probably was hot, but still won't replace a dick". I have never seen a straight man thinking a woman could be better after having gay experiences.

So, basically, women can obviously be straight. They like men and only men. But straight men? A lot of them will never ever view blowjobs from women the same after having a gay experience.

2. Where would you think the saying "it's not gay if you say no homo" would come from if men did not secretly desire same sex contact?

3. You probably heard of the term "bromance". Today's studies have shown that men find bromances even more fulfilling than romances. While women just cannot see the world behind their loved man. There is no female version of bros before hoes, and even if there is, still not as many women use it. Men could basically live without any women at all, while women would murder themselves if no men existed.

Just stating facts. The only reason men don't admit this is social construct. But when you look at what they write anonymously, you'll be really surprised. You can say that I suffer from confirmation bias. But, well, is 20000 people really that low of a number? And besides, there are just some universal facts that nobody can deny, for example that men just give better oral than women to both genders.

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  • Your "data" is purely anecdotal, with zero even remotely scientific study, and ignoring a number of ACTUAL scientific studies.

    People on the Internet cannot be relied on for data - people often lie, exaggerate, or troll for a number of reasons, and you can't tell a troll from a non-troll. There are also people pushing their own political agendas that can't be discounted. Finally, there is the bubble effect: if you live in the Castro district in San Francisco, and you're a gay or bi man who are sucking the dicks of "straight" men, there's a pretty good chance that those "straight" men were never straight men in the first place, but are closeted gay men who specifically moved into a massively-concentrated gay district for the purpose of experimenting and perhaps to build the strength to come out. But that's hardly a reflection of the rest of the country, even if their stories are 100% true INSIDE THEIR BUBBLE.

    That would be like interviewing the owners of Manhattan skyscraper penthouse apartment owners (generally people worth in excess of $100M) about financial issues and trying to draw conclusions about the rest of the US based on their answers.

    • @MrOracle striked again. :D Male-bashing is common today.

  • You realise that wht you read on some forums doesn't represent the whole world right? Often these are niche groups of people with similar interests. And the fact that guys value male friendships over female relationships has nothing to do with being gay. It has to do with that men can understand what other men are going through where a woman never will.

    And men will be there for you when you're at your weakest whereas women will more often drop you because they're afraid they won't be protected. You can just rely on a guy friend more than you can ever rely on a woman that's just a fact. Women can be there for you as well in different ways by being understanding and listening and comforting you but there's a big difference between a friendship with a guy and a relationship with a woman.

    Making such huge claims based on some stuff you read somewhere and some words some people use is pretty illogical and unprofessional. If male heterosexuality didn't exist then the human species would not exist.

    • To repeat it here: 1% gay/lesbian in Germany against 84% / 82% for straight male/female. See #Aerzteblatt post of mine. I linked to the source there.

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  • Actually studies show that women are as likely as, if not more likely than, men to experiment with their own gender.

    And women who have sex with women orgasm almost as much as men do, and have multiple orgasms on top of that. Whereas women who have sex with men orgasm about half as much as men do.

    So women orgasm much more with women than with men. So no, men don't give better oral.

    And earlier studies have shown that women value their same-gender friendships more than their relationships.

    And yes there's a female equivalent to "bros before hoes" - "chicks before dicks, ovaries before brovaries", etc.

    You're definitely a man using a fake pink account to try to prove that men are sexually superior.

    • @Manilla Actually I can prove it. Here are 2 studies proving that women orgasm much more often with women than with men:

      www.researchgate.net/.../313835591_Differences_in_Orgasm_Frequency_Among_Gay_Lesbian_Bisexual_and_Heterosexual_Men_and_Women_in_a_US_National_Sample

      www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6035747/

      See Chart 3. Compared to people (both men and women) receiving oral from men, women experiencing more pleasure receiving oral from women.
      And women who have sex with women are equally as likely as men to orgasm, AND they're much more likely to experience multiple orgasms.
      static1.squarespace.com/.../...ersus+Mixed+Sex.pdf

      Here's a study in which men who have sex with men have less orgasms & sexual satisfaction than men who have sex with women, whereas women who have sex with women have more orgasms & sexual satisfaction than women who have sex with men.
      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/28403193

    • @Manilla and the OP can prove what he said about men being better at oral?

    • @Manilla and how about you prove that 40% of men would have gay sex if it wasn't stigmatized?

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  • Lmao what if everyone is really gay and its just the out people who gave in and admitted it. 90% of people just lie and say they're straight. I read a thread on reddit about it therefore its gotta be true. Everyone in the thread told me that "studies show" they're right.

    • Then show me a woman who actually said she preferred sex with a woman over her boyfriend

    • You're looking at her.

    • You're 18

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  • Hahahahaha... omg... you gotta send me some of what you were smoking or drinking when you wrote this... i need it to bring out a few of my own Takes...
    you are going to take our sexuality away from us because we are trying to keep our distance from you women?
    All you women do is cause problems... and we dont want it anymore... so that means our sexuality is shaky? Im pretty sure it Should get shaky after approaching a number of girls you actually like just to be walked over for the guy that Already has a bunch of women. Im glad that never happened in my case... i used women's favorite tool... i lied. and they loved (and still Love) it till today.

    • Instant up-vote for being interested in her stuff writing this complete BS.

  • Dude.

    No.
    Let straight men be straight men.

    Fuck, man, you're making us look bad.

    • I am a girl myself. And I just know that a woman can absolutely be straight and have no desire to be with women. While after hearing stories from men it is easy to assume that there is no such thing as a heterosexual man who has no desire to be with men

    • There definitely are. Your mode of thinking is dangerous. Consider the rights and feelings of others. Sincerely, an actual bisexual woman who plays with gender expression.

  • Chalk it up to social acceptance. I'm a straight Male. I hate they idea of gay sex or even being romantically involved with a man. But that's my thought process I think, "even though I've never been with a guy" girls are really good with sex and oral sex. I think that it is better that way for me because I can't be like that with a guy. It grosses me out. It depends again on mindset.

  • "Just stating facts"

    Ummm... no? Repeating a bunch of BS troll-bait opinions does not magically turn them into facts, sorry.

    As a straight male, this MyTake actually pisses me off. There are gay guys, bi guys, straight guys, and asexual guys all over the world. Just because you seem to get off on the idea that all men are gay, doesn't make it so.

    Please stop repeating this nonsensical garbage. It was annoying before, but now it's just aggravating.

    • But straight men admit themselves that they prefer a man to give them oral

    • Then they aren't straight. They are bi, or bi-curious. They're just homophobic, so they don't want to admit it. Actual straight guys would never want to get a blowjob from another guy. Period. And yes, there are tons of us that are straight, and would never even consider the thought.

  • its not rare its just given more attention than is needed they are more pronounced by the news because gay men are mentally disabled with there one way thinking of women are no good. i think there are way more straight men than gays unless you live in California which think they are the center of the world..

    there trends dont effect me in anyway and never will.

  • I can't tell whether you're a woman trolling the guys who say that all women are bisexual, or a really stupid gay guy.

    • Neither. I am a woman who exposed all straight men and doesn't believe their lies about preferring sex with women anymore.

    • Ah, so you're a femcel.

    • Straight men admit themselves that the best they received was from a man. It is objective that men give better oral to both genders

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  • Very convincing MyTake. When I saw the title, I expected to disagree. But after reading it, I can understand why you would say that.

    • Is that #irony?

  • Yes, 20000 is a low amount of people, we live on a planet with over 7 billion people, assuming half of those are men we have iver 3.5 billion men. I don't know who the fuck you talk to, but I've never met straight guys who talk about men sucking their dick.

    • Because they won't admit irl

    • What evidence do you have that all men are secretly gay? Cause if you don't have good evidence that all men are gay then I can use this argument to say that women value money above all else because I've met a couple gold diggers and all other women just don't want to admit that they are gold diggers.

    • 20000 is less than 1/175,000th of the entire male population.

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  • Very silly. Conclusions with limit Ed evidence

  • I actually feel offended by this thread

  • This makes even less sense than Gerulf Rieger's so-called "study" claiming that no woman is 100% straight.

    • LMAO. You’re full of it.

    • The only fact for certain is that anyone who believes that is extremely gullible.

  • I think you're mistaking the term bromance for something else. Isn't that basically the male version of BFFs? So how is that gay? Personally I don't have many male friends, and I have no desire for oral sex in general much less from a man, but besides that the LGBT in general are less than 5% of everybody right?

    And everyone likes to overly-sexualize things lately. There doesn't have to be anything romantic about two guys who are close any more than about two kid friends, but everybody likes to make everything about sex now so nobody can talk to anybody anymore without their sexuality being called into question it seems. I actually know 2 couples of guys who are best friends and have been basically forever, and they I believe both live together as well, but they're not gay. For one both pairs-- well except one of the 4 individuals-- are strongly religious Christians and do not support the LGBT stuff. For another two of them are brothers and that's just gross, and the other two one's got medical experience one's in a wheelchair sort of? and the niece lives with them like a nurse almost, so it's more of a help situation there.

    But basically, if people would start expanding the friend zone again and stop hyping up any and all sorts of sex and sexualized things and making everything about that instead of a balanced circle of relationships.. then I think there would be a lot less arguments over this sort of stuff, maybe even a lot less hate since it's not such a big deal. Or maybe I'm a rambling idiot and I should go to bed. I'm not sure.

  • This is a pretty decent troll, I almost fell for it

  • At this moment in history the concept of being gay is being oversold on all fronts to the public. Even tobacco companies didn’t have this strong of a marketing campaign... After such an exaggerated push numbers are maxing out at like 4.5% of the population. Being gay is anomalous. It always has been and always will be. Life likes to persist at all costs.

  • You are just wrong.

    I bet you are a gay guy.

  • Imagine believing that some trolls on Reddit represents the entire male demographic.

  • This has been total nonsense. You can't really believe that.

    • Thank you! :-) Tonight, I get myself a dick for sucking! Er, hold up! Quit joking and cut out the crap. I'm straight and I love #licking #pussy to much.

  • Most research disproves your premise. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/health-science/women-bisexual-divorce/amp/

    • This is confirmed bs

    • Nobody has actually debunked it. Tabloids don’t count. You however failed to provided credible evidence to support your absurd claims of all men being secretly gay.

    • I can for sure debunk that straight women don't exist. I am a woman myself, most women open up in front of women more than men, and most of them tell that they would never do anything sexual with a woman. Even if they did something sexual with a girl, they still prefer guys for sex. While a lot of straight guys who received blowjobs from a man once could never look at blowjobs from women the same. Even they say that woman blowjobs can never compare to man blowjobs

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  • This is hilarious. I get endless guys telling me I'm bi and must prefer women and that if I think I'm straight I'm in denial. But the suggestion of the same for guys and it's just loads of angry denials

    • People have a reason to think bi women are straight in denial just like they have a reason to think bi men are gay in denial for the reasons stated in the My Take

  • Just came here to express what drivel this is.

    • It's old.

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