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Women Hate These Sex Mistakes Guys Make

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Sex Complaints Women Have About Guys
Sex Complaints Women Have About Guys

Okay, maybe hate isn't the right word but it got you reading this. Women definitely complain about these mistakes because almost every guy out there makes them. The ones who don't make them can seem to be sex gods.

Why does it seem that all guys make the same mistakes? Because they generally get their information from the same sources. Yes, porn is in that lineup, but that's a whole different topic. (yes, I cover mistakes learned from porn later on as it's that big.)

Before we dive into this Ashley and I did a complete 40-minute show on this. We are able to get a lot more information into the show than we can in this post. So, if you want all the information we have you can listen by clicking this device enabled link - https://link.chtbl.com/q0ZqIgf9 or visiting https://www.girlsaskguysshow.com/the-show

Here we go.

Top Complaint by Women
Top Complaint by Women

The top complaint by women about men in the boom boom area is that men go straight for the target areas.
Guys, it's not target acquired and we have a firing solution, ready to fire. That's not going to do it. You need to include the whole body.

The next thing is performance anxiety. Sometimes this is a medical thing, and for that, you need to get some medical help. Most of the time it's just you inside your head. A few anxiety routines found on the interweb can help in this area. Just don't get her all worked up and then call it off because you are caught up inside your head wondering if you going to be any good.

Number three is doing something for absolutely no reason whatsoever. This normally comes from watching tips and tricks. We all want to get better. But, knockin' boots or "doin' the nasty" has a natural flow to it. Tips and tricks mess with the natural flow. Going from what would be natural step 3 to step 18 just doesn't work. It can halt the entire experience in its tracks leaving her to wonder what you are trying to do. If you want tips and tricks, ask her what she likes.

That brings me to number four. Talk to the person about the horizontal mambo before you actually do it. Seriously, if you can't talk about it with the person, should they be the person you're doing it with? The more in-depth you can talk to the person about what they like and don't like, and want to try the better you will be with that person.

Try Talking. It can work miracles. I wonder why?
Try Talking. It can work miracles. I wonder why?

Building on that last point is point five. Ask for feedback. Whoa, here's a concept. Find out what really works and what was uncomfortable or weird. A lot of women are willing to tell you everything you need to know if you give them an opportunity. If not they are just going to figure "this is going to bad, but it's better than nothing at the moment." And, you don't get a repeat performance. The more information you have the closer to 'sex god' you are going to be.

Here's a big one - being the know it all. Guys, you don't know it all so stop thinking "I haven't had any complaints in that department." Well, not everyone fills out the suggestion cards at every restaurant either. If you were that good you would have written a sold-out bestseller, have an internationally syndicated show, sold-out speaking engagements in the largest venues, and sex with you would be by appointment only. I don't know everything, but I bet you can't tell me how many erogenous zones there are on a female body and be able to name them all. No, it's not seven.

Next is taking a break. Going at her like a jack-hammer isn't going to do it for her. There is a little bit of heaven for her in just remaining still. A little sexual psychology shows that the highest peak you reached in your previous session will be higher when you start the next one after a break. There is no rule that says that you have finish immediately once you start. Breaks are allowed.

Its Okay To Take A Break. Allow The Moment To Build.
It's Okay To Take A Break. Allow The Moment To Build.

This leads to the next complaint. Being overly focused on yourself. This kind of gets mixed with that first complaint but it has its own category. This happens when a guy kind of pays attention to her, then it switches to all about him. Stop it. It leaves her asking "Okay, um, what about me? I was almost there." This is not a competition guys. There is no podium being set up at the end of the bed to get a gold medal.

The second part of that one is being overly focused on her. This just causes her anxiety to go up preventing her from enjoying herself. Consistently checking in to see how she is doing makes the whole thing seem like she is being analyzed by some doctor. Stop it. A Center Midfield doesn't ask a Center Striker how they are feeling before passing the ball, and then ask if they are sure. They just pass and let the striker take it from there to the goal.

The Medical Truth Behind willys Size.
The Medical Truth Behind "willy's" Size.

Here's a bonus for all you guys out there. Stop being overly focused on your wee little willy. A lot of you believe that being gifted like an elephant is a good thing. Truth is only a very small portion of the female population enjoys extremely large sizes. Most find it intimidating and painful when a guy is consistently pounding away at her cervix. A bruised cervix is not the mark of a good time. Medical facts point out that the overwhelming majority of a woman's pleasure nerve endings are contained in the first two inches of the "nether regions". So, if you got two-and-half-inches you can get the job done. And if you're just the standard average size guy you have nothing to really worry about.

Guys, here's the point to all of this. You have more than one "tool" to work with. Talk to your partner and find out what they like, listen and pay attention. If you want our full take on me and Ashley going back and forth on this listen to our episode where she gives some interesting insights from the female perspective. If you are interested you can find the "Girls Ask Guys Show" on all major podcast platforms, including Alexa and Google Home. Just ask for the name.

As a note, we are not endorsed by or affiliated with the Girls Ask Guys dot com site and there is no compensation either way. The show is just our way of contributing to this community by answering questions and giving our opinions in a longer form than we can do through text short form format.

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  • nukankuru
    Propper preparation prevents piss poor performance. In other words men dont seem to be able to pay attention or ask questions about what a wonderful technique for them to apply such as simply lightly running the tips of your fingers all over her body slowly watch and listen you can see where she likes your touch remember the area once you have performed this long enough you should be able to identify at least several places in which you can add to her erotica by asking and talking openly with your sexual partners can only be beneficial for both of you there are many areas of a woman they can feel pleasurable experience learn where they are men cause I'm telling you your missing out on a lot of potential pleasure it's not hard to ask a woman where she likes to be touched or ask her to masturbate in front of you and have mutual masturbation it's amazing how much you can get off on just that alone at the same time you have just learned how she wants to be touched down there. Not hard fellas lift ya game I say
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  • Aiko_E_Lara
    Oh there is a rule now? Specially for guys? How about if she don't like it then she must be doing it wrong. Have you ever thought about that? Also it's not like society invented sex but it has been there with our instincts before civilization so yes this has nothing to do with porn. That's just how we do it.
  • AmyBelle
    This is by far the dumbest fucking thing I've ever read on GAG. LOL
    Good luck with your Tard Cast.
    • TomPallos

      LMAO
      No, it's true! Most girls like dicks that are 2.5 inches long! Every guy knows this. No girl wants an elephant dick!

    • AmyBelle

      @TomPallos
      It's like reading, "Dummies for Dummies." LOL

    • Kamalio

      Once you get to guru status or above, you mind turns to shit and your crap get promoted to the top of the lame heap. LOL

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  • taksuga
    I normally hate these kinds of takes, but this one is spot on!
  • brennanhuff
    I always assumed performance anxiety was about how good you will be. I don't know if it's that. I had performance anxiety before and it had nothing to do with that. I ironically was confident that I could read her body and signs or she will communicate so I will be good. The anxiety actually came from the dry spell and wanting sex so bad and something about fucking condoms. I got myself conditioned to needing physical stimulation so one she stopped stimulating and taking time away from my dick, it would start to get slightly soft so like get soft while putting the condom on, but if I put my dick right in would've been fine. But I don't take that chance with sex for many reasons. So then that gets in your head the next time that messes with your confidence and could continue the cycle.
  • TheAteam1978
    That's good in theory but try that approach with a dripping wet horny latina who has her ass up in the air before you even knew she wanted to fuck. It's very simple, know ur audience
  • noonereal03
    Seriously? We need. Rule book by a fussy women?
  • bulletbob555
    Thanks for sharing.
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