Why I think selection of votes is not a requirement and how this traps you into a box

[Jjpayne]

I recently posted a reply on this question

Do you find Ariana Grande sexually attractive? & Do you think she has the body of a 12 year old?

So there were a number of options

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm not attracted to her.

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen, but I'm still not attracted to her.

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm not attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen.

This is the answer I was looking for "Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her."

Where is the reply

"I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her."

I think it is only natural for a grown man to be attracted to Ariana and that she resembles a 14 year old girl what's not fair to assume that could only mean you are attracted to 14 year old girls.

I was sleeply when I choose this and I knew if I did not select an option I would be called out for not doing it. But why do we need to put ourselves in a box if we don't want to. I am sorry but I will no longer be selecting options polls because of this incident

[D_Bone_Steak]

Boxing people in or categorizing people are collectivist mindsets. Individualists make it complicated for them, because it breaks the formulaic absolutes.

Ariana is hot, if she was 7 she still is, it's just not legal now. That wouldn't mean I'd be attracted to a 7 looking 7 year old though. They get stuck on the age and what it may look like through their own interpretation of the look. Basically since they classified her looks as that of something illegal, you must like what's the usual as illegal... which simply is a great way to get classified as something you're totally not.

Like this sudden rash of questions on this site that seems to be trying to tie attraction to petite/smaller tits/younger looking women into being a pedo. Even noticing where all these questions are coming from, and I think you might too if you frequent here.

"She" seems awfully interested in this line of questions at the moment. Just saying... lolz

[MysteriousDarkness]

Some thinks if you love
Small tits you love 12-15 year olds
A petite body you love 12-15 year olds
A shaved/waxed pussy you love a 12-15 year old
That like saying if you love a woman who dyed her hsir silver/gray you love 60-70 year olds.
It is so ridiculous the way some people think.

[ChgzDaniel]

I'll be the bad guy and stand up for you saying you're attracted to girls 14 and younger. Some girls are attractive at a young age and they dress very sexually... whether or not that was their intention. It's not like you want to date one or do anything with them, you can't help how your body reacts after seeing certain things. Everybody gets thoughts that are evil and they don't want to think, it's part of the human condition. Some girls need to be taught not to dress like a prostitute, I'm 25 and I've never dressed in crop tops, mini skirts, hot pants, seethrough leggings with nothing on underneath. To make things worse, a lot of these girls are sexually aware so you know that they know what they are doing. I just don't think they are wise enough to know better.

[DorkVader]

Most grown men can tell the difference between a 14 year old child and a petite adult woman, regardless of how they dress or act. The ones who can't, don't want to.

[kim45456]

It is again womans fault? Your clothes dont say a shit about you. Just because some teenagers wear revealing clothes, does not mean they are mentally adults. Most of them are inspired by celebrities. By your logic 13-14 years old can marry if they have sex.

[BabyBirdy]

This logic is absurd. That’s like saying that if you notice that a toddler is pretty or a dog or a family member that you’re sexually attracted to it. Noticing beauty is not the same as wanting to fuck something

[BabyBirdy]

@DorkVader lmao, exactly. Everyone else can tell... but they can’t? That’s a lie. Hahahaa. Everyone else in the room can tell. I’ve never once seen a kid, and said or thought “sexy”. Ew

[CarpetDenim]

There’s no rule saying you have to copy and paste the poll option you selected into your opinion, or that you have to select a poll option at all if you feel your answer isn’t accurately represented in any the options. You got hate for that comment because you copy and pasted a poll option stating that you ARE attracted to girls 14 and younger, and nothing in the rest of your opinion refuted that or drew any attention to the fact that your actual answer (which you also never stated) wasn’t an option in the poll.

[Jjpayne]

Where I'm frustrated is whenever I don't pick a poll option I'm called out to pick one. I'm just not going to pick one just because people tell me I need to anymore

[Moonchild714]

A lot of times I don't select Poll Options in my Comments I'll state why. Sometimes I just go right to comments and forget to select... Rarely have I been asked did you vote though. Oid MyTake @Jjpayne

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If I make a poll, I'd hope people vote for the selections I've offered. The poll results matter to me. Sometimes, even more than the voter's opinion. However, I will still welcome an opinion left behind especially if the poll options don't match the voter's sentiments.

[SydneySentinel]

I had trouble with this vote too because of the wording. It was a bit confusing!! I'm sorry this happened to you.

[DorkVader]

I think she looks like a petite woman. Saying that a man attracted to petite body types are pedophiles is just wrong, as these women can't do anything about their body type. They haven't done anything wrong, and are as deserving of love and sexual desire as anyone. I didn't respond to that question because I thought it was in poor taste comparing a petite woman to a child and I feel adult males are able to tell the difference.

[Dargil]

I just add one that is how I want to answer.

[ShadowofRegret]

That is why I usually include an "other" option in my polls, for situations like these.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think she looks like a young adult

[Jamie05rhs]

I saw what they wrote about you, man, and it was fucked up. Don't listen to the haters, JJ. We know you're not a pedophile.

[DanOh2018]

Yeah, it was a very "when did you stop beating your wife" kind of question.

[SecretGardenBlood65]

Good take.

[bulletbob555]

Well it sounds like the asker was biased. In statistics when conducting a poll you can get whatever outcome you want by how you ask the question

[Plitty-Tank]

That is true. It should be an option.

[Anonymous]

Most people aren’t attracted to children. That’s the reality.

[Opinion Owner]

So if you’re attracted to preteens bodies then you’re attracted to children and most people aren’t attracted to that. You know that too. You wouldn’t go around in public and say that because most people won’t agree with you. A healthy adult is innately not attracted to children. We are programmed naturally to want to protect children, not be sexually attracted to them.

[Moonchild714]

She doesn't look lime a child she looks like a young adult. Also many men do find Teenage Girls Sexually Attractive doesn't mean they act on it but they do find them Attractive. There is a Reason Sex Acts against Minors is Age Based Different Sex Offender Level based on Age of Victim.

[Opinion Owner]

Girl, no. You can know that even a 6 year old is pretty or ugly, that doesn’t mean you want to have sex with it. You know if your Mom or Dad is pretty or ugly, that doesn’t mean you have sex with it. Most people do not feel attraction to that age group because we are naturally programmed to protect children and pubescent teens. We are naturally attracted to fully developed adults that are healthy and ready to conceive. That’s the reality Pedophiles, incest, and rapists all try to normalize their unnatural urges. It has been studied and proven that it is not normal and a small percentage in the population. And by the way, it’s NOT ONLY MEN that do these things. Wake up.

[Opinion Owner]

Sounds like you’re in the same category. Women and men that are attracted to children are the minority, not the majority. It’s in our nature to protect, not harm, children

[Opinion Owner]

by the way, he is SPECIFICALLY talking about how the body looks. Not face and not her age.

[Moonchild714]

You're the only mentioning young children... Trying to hide your Desires. You better watch you say I'm a SURVIVOR & I put these Asswipes away everyday, and guess what just like you adamantly vocalize against Pedophila. Us Cops when we hear people so adamamt as you we start taking hard look at those people their the ones with the Skeletons!!! 14 year olds in case are child bearing age... 14 is no longer Pubescent...

[kim45456]

A 9 years old also can have period and can give birth.

[Moonchild714]

@kim45456, chances a 9 year old would survive Pregnancy and Birth are slim, their bodies are not done growing Ribs would bust into their Heart and Lungs not to mention all the other organs that would get damaged...

[Opinion Owner]

@Moonchild714 Thank you! Just because you have started the transition into womanhood doesn’t mean that you’re fully a woman yet and has been PROVEN that doesn’t happen until 20 years of age. Puberty like life happens in stages, not in a night, not in a day, not in a month, week or one year 🤦🏼‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

@kim45456 There’s no point in reasoning with this woman. That’s why teenage pregnancy is high risk with more miscarriages, still births, type 2 diabetes, and high blood pressure. Why? Because the body is STILL developing but people who want to justify being attracted to pubescent teens will argue with HARD SCIENCE. 🙄. You can’t reason with someone that looks at the evidence and data and dismisses it. You’re not even most fertile until around 22-23 years old but they will keep arguing in spite of all the doctors with hard facts saying otherwise. The delusion is real

[Moonchild714]

I never said it's ok to be with a Minor. I'm a Cop in the Special Crimes Unit that means ALL Crimes Against Children up to the Age of 18, Sex Crimes, Domestic Violence, and Hate Crimes!!! What I said is it is Common for Men to find Teenage Attractive for they have Women Bodies but Adolescent Minds. Most Men Control themselves and know Not to even think about doing anything with a Teenage Girl but there are some that don't Control their Urges and I throw their Beat Down Asses in Jail and make sure everyone knows why they are there!!! So you two can keep going on thinking you're both Superior Righteous Crusaders...

[Opinion Owner]

@Moonchild714 It’s not common though on a large scale comparatively to the entire population AND you should know that it’s not just men if you actually work in that department which is why women fly under the radar for those crimes. There have been studies done many times in which the participants are given photos without providing the age and the ages that were chose by APPEARANCE alone was 23-38. So it’s not the physical preference for MOST people. There is a noticeable difference between the look a pubescent teen and a fully developed adult. It’s not just the mental state lmao. We’re innately more attracted to the MOST healthy and fertile adults which “coincidentally” is within the age range 23-40 😂. That’s an EXCUSE that perverts use and have admitted to using that lie to do what they want. Either they’re attracted to developing girls or they want to take advantage of a child or both