Why I think selection of votes is not a requirement and how this traps you into a box

Jjpayne

I recently posted a reply on this question

Do you find Ariana Grande sexually attractive? & Do you think she has the body of a 12 year old?

Why I think selection of votes is not a requirement and how this traps you into a box

So there were a number of options

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm not attracted to her.

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen, but I'm still not attracted to her.

I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm not attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her.

I experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body does NOT resemble that of a child or young teen.

This is the answer I was looking for "Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her."

Where is the reply

"I don't experience sexual attraction to girls 14 and younger. Ariana's body resembles that of a child or young teen. I'm attracted to her."

I think it is only natural for a grown man to be attracted to Ariana and that she resembles a 14 year old girl what's not fair to assume that could only mean you are attracted to 14 year old girls.

I was sleeply when I choose this and I knew if I did not select an option I would be called out for not doing it. But why do we need to put ourselves in a box if we don't want to. I am sorry but I will no longer be selecting options polls because of this incident

Why I think selection of votes is not a requirement and how this traps you into a box
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  • D_Bone_Steak
    Boxing people in or categorizing people are collectivist mindsets. Individualists make it complicated for them, because it breaks the formulaic absolutes.

    Ariana is hot, if she was 7 she still is, it's just not legal now. That wouldn't mean I'd be attracted to a 7 looking 7 year old though. They get stuck on the age and what it may look like through their own interpretation of the look. Basically since they classified her looks as that of something illegal, you must like what's the usual as illegal... which simply is a great way to get classified as something you're totally not.

    Like this sudden rash of questions on this site that seems to be trying to tie attraction to petite/smaller tits/younger looking women into being a pedo. Even noticing where all these questions are coming from, and I think you might too if you frequent here.

    "She" seems awfully interested in this line of questions at the moment. Just saying... lolz
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  • MysteriousDarkness
    Some thinks if you love
    Small tits you love 12-15 year olds
    A petite body you love 12-15 year olds
    A shaved/waxed pussy you love a 12-15 year old
    That like saying if you love a woman who dyed her hsir silver/gray you love 60-70 year olds.
    It is so ridiculous the way some people think.
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  • ChgzDaniel
    I'll be the bad guy and stand up for you saying you're attracted to girls 14 and younger. Some girls are attractive at a young age and they dress very sexually... whether or not that was their intention. It's not like you want to date one or do anything with them, you can't help how your body reacts after seeing certain things. Everybody gets thoughts that are evil and they don't want to think, it's part of the human condition. Some girls need to be taught not to dress like a prostitute, I'm 25 and I've never dressed in crop tops, mini skirts, hot pants, seethrough leggings with nothing on underneath. To make things worse, a lot of these girls are sexually aware so you know that they know what they are doing. I just don't think they are wise enough to know better.
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    • DorkVader

      Most grown men can tell the difference between a 14 year old child and a petite adult woman, regardless of how they dress or act. The ones who can't, don't want to.

    • kim45456

      It is again womans fault? Your clothes dont say a shit about you. Just because some teenagers wear revealing clothes, does not mean they are mentally adults. Most of them are inspired by celebrities. By your logic 13-14 years old can marry if they have sex.

    • BabyBirdy

      This logic is absurd. That’s like saying that if you notice that a toddler is pretty or a dog or a family member that you’re sexually attracted to it. Noticing beauty is not the same as wanting to fuck something

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  • CarpetDenim
    There’s no rule saying you have to copy and paste the poll option you selected into your opinion, or that you have to select a poll option at all if you feel your answer isn’t accurately represented in any the options. You got hate for that comment because you copy and pasted a poll option stating that you ARE attracted to girls 14 and younger, and nothing in the rest of your opinion refuted that or drew any attention to the fact that your actual answer (which you also never stated) wasn’t an option in the poll.
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    • Jjpayne

      Where I'm frustrated is whenever I don't pick a poll option I'm called out to pick one. I'm just not going to pick one just because people tell me I need to anymore

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • DeeDeeDeVour
    If I make a poll, I'd hope people vote for the selections I've offered. The poll results matter to me. Sometimes, even more than the voter's opinion. However, I will still welcome an opinion left behind especially if the poll options don't match the voter's sentiments.
  • Moonchild714
    A lot of times I don't select Poll Options in my Comments I'll state why. Sometimes I just go right to comments and forget to select... Rarely have I been asked did you vote though. Oid MyTake @Jjpayne
  • DorkVader
    I think she looks like a petite woman. Saying that a man attracted to petite body types are pedophiles is just wrong, as these women can't do anything about their body type. They haven't done anything wrong, and are as deserving of love and sexual desire as anyone. I didn't respond to that question because I thought it was in poor taste comparing a petite woman to a child and I feel adult males are able to tell the difference.
  • Jamie05rhs
    I saw what they wrote about you, man, and it was fucked up. Don't listen to the haters, JJ. We know you're not a pedophile.
  • SydneySentinel
    I had trouble with this vote too because of the wording. It was a bit confusing!! I'm sorry this happened to you.
  • ShadowofRegret
    That is why I usually include an "other" option in my polls, for situations like these.
  • bulletbob555
    Well it sounds like the asker was biased. In statistics when conducting a poll you can get whatever outcome you want by how you ask the question
  • DanOh2018
    Yeah, it was a very "when did you stop beating your wife" kind of question.
  • GoodGuyBreakingBad
    I think she looks like a young adult
  • Dargil
    I just add one that is how I want to answer.
  • SecretGardenBlood65
    Good take.
  • Plitty-Tank
    That is true. It should be an option.
  • Anonymous
    Most people aren’t attracted to children. That’s the reality.
    • Anonymous

      So if you’re attracted to preteens bodies then you’re attracted to children and most people aren’t attracted to that. You know that too. You wouldn’t go around in public and say that because most people won’t agree with you.
      A healthy adult is innately not attracted to children. We are programmed naturally to want to protect children, not be sexually attracted to them.

    • Moonchild714

      She doesn't look lime a child she looks like a young adult. Also many men do find Teenage Girls Sexually Attractive doesn't mean they act on it but they do find them Attractive. There is a Reason Sex Acts against Minors is Age Based Different Sex Offender Level based on Age of Victim.

    • Anonymous

      Girl, no. You can know that even a 6 year old is pretty or ugly, that doesn’t mean you want to have sex with it. You know if your Mom or Dad is pretty or ugly, that doesn’t mean you have sex with it.

      Most people do not feel attraction to that age group because we are naturally programmed to protect children and pubescent teens. We are naturally attracted to fully developed adults that are healthy and ready to conceive. That’s the reality

      Pedophiles, incest, and rapists all try to normalize their unnatural urges. It has been studied and proven that it is not normal and a small percentage in the population. And by the way, it’s NOT ONLY MEN that do these things. Wake up.

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