"Questions" The Questions Not To Ask If You Don't Want Or Can't Handle The Truth.

Brainsbeforebeauty
Dont ask if you dont want the truth
Don't ask if you don't want the truth

Does it not irk you a little when people ask questions that 1-they really know the answer to-they just want you to tell them what they want to hear and not the truth.

Dumb question=sarcastic answer
Dumb question=sarcastic answer

And 2- if you do tell them the truth, they get mad. I'm not telling you something your mirror already didn't ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

You want my opinion or a lie?
You want my opinion or a lie?

So, here's some of the questions just don't ask unless you can take honest answers:

This has to be the first one ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Hell yeah you do ๐Ÿ™„
Hell yeah you do ๐Ÿ™„

Do I look fat in these jeans?

Come on really?? If you have to ask, it's cuz you saw it in the mirror. Mirrors don't lie. They're the truth people try to avoid by asking someone else. But don't ask me, because I'm not going to lie.

No camel toe aint sexy
No camel toe ain't sexy

Do these pants give me camel toe?

yes

Is camel toe sexy? No

Again, look in the mirror when you dress, because this is something you shouldn't "have" to ask and something you should "never" show.

Wearing pants that show the whole outline of your vajayjay is not sexy and in my opinion is not appropriate. Either wear those pants with a long enough shirt to cover it or wear different pants in public, please!

Youre not curvy, you fat ๐Ÿค”
You're not curvy, you fat ๐Ÿค”

Do you think I'm fat?

Do "you" think you're fat? If you are asking someone this, obviously you have an issue with what you weigh.

That isn't something you should ask someone because you might put some in an uncomfortable situation.

Don't ask, then get mad if they answer honestly, cuz again if you have to ask that, you already know the answer

And it should be if "you" like the weight you are anyway, not what "someone" else says. Either be comfortable in your own skin or do something about it. Just stop asking.

So okay, might get hate for this one, but telling it like it is as I see it. You have a right to your opinion as do I.

Questions The Questions Not To Ask If You Dont Want Or Cant Handle The Truth.

"Any" how do I look questions on GaG.( For many reasons.)

First, why would you put so much importance in what others think of you instead of what "you" think of yourself??

Second, I feel it's just a play for attention seekers or people who need to show off their bodies for attention.

Do you see this??
Do you see this??

Lastly, you ask and then get pissed when people give you an honest opinion . How can you get mad, if you set yourself up for it. Because you don't really want the truth. You fishing for compliments. I not only don't ask those questions, I don't answer, yet I've had people "invite" me to their how do I look questions. Please don't, because I don't give false compliments, and "egos" aren't the thing I like to stroke. ๐Ÿ˜‰

And lastly, for now, sorry guys but:

Questions The Questions Not To Ask If You Dont Want Or Cant Handle The Truth.

Yes it matters

Does size matter?

I think people already know the real answer to this, but ask because they want justification or a no answer. And some women say, no it doesn't matter.

But for every woman I've ever personally spoke to, without men to hear the answer, they always say size does matter. Yes, there's women that love the man enough to work with what he's got, but if you really want the true answer..... It's "yes".

Thanks for reading ๐Ÿ˜˜

"brainsbeforebeauty"

"Questions" The Questions Not To Ask If You Don't Want Or Can't Handle The Truth.
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  • Lliam
    This was funny. So true.

    "Do you think I'm pretty?" I don't even know you. Why does my personal opinion matter? Are you looking for a critique or validation or do you want to know if I'd like to see your big eyes gazing up at me while you suck my knob?

    "Do these jeans make my ass look fat?" I'd say "Hell yeah, baby!" with a lascivious look of appreciation on my face.
    What I find unfortunate is lack of a better word than fat to describe the full, roundness of a woman's ass. The word "fat" sounds like an insult to most women. But women's hips and asses are literally full of fat. Fat is what gives women their shape. It's what makes a woman's ass round and firm and bouncy.
    But the common definition of fat implies obesity. I wish there was another word to describe normal, healthy, lush, shapely, feminine fat.
    Is this still revelant?
    • Omg you made me laugh ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      And there is there's fat or phat๐Ÿ˜‚

    • Lliam

      I saw a movie in which a guy was invited to a lavish party at a rich guy's house. The homeowner warned his friend not to stare at his wife or imply anything about her shape because the wife was very sensitive about her weight.
      When the guy was introduced to the man's wife, his jaw dropped and he said, "Damn! You are phat!" meaning sexy. The husband was horrified and woman was immediately taken aback until the term phat was explained to her. Then she felt beautiful.
      It was a funny movie. I don't remember the name.

      The problem is, fat and phat sound the same. We need a word that doesn't have to be clarified.

    • Baby got back ๐Ÿ˜

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  • ThatGuy133
    Lol so true. Don't ask a question and get butthurt when you don't like the answer.

    I especially despise the obvious ones where the answer is in the statement before the question. They couldn't find their ass with both hands in their back pockets. If I'm feeling frisky I'll poke the hornets nest but otherwise I laugh and move on

    Love the MyTake 👏
    Is this still revelant?
    • Thanks and butt hurt? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ Might hurt less with little lube ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜‚

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  • Some women I have been with would disagree with size matters because there ain't no way that SIZE is going anywhere near her Va Jay Jay. I was lucky! HA
  • opnbuk59
    Yeah women who ask the how do I look question are doing so out of not being feeling confident about themselves not beIN admitted enough by their hubby and it's usually a sign she's wanting attention from whoever notices her why else would she be concerned about how she looks if she wasn't that is her warning shot that she needs attention and hubby didn't pick up on it, and guys having rounder butts i wouldn't notice as I only look at females respectfully, but, no pun intended, most guys are opting for plastic surgery in that area of their bodies and are not stopping there chest arms legs they share the same implants you women do in your breast expansion, yup silicone a lot of guys are forgoing the sweat hours years of working out in gym and heading to the local body sculpting gym, and having their physique altered chiseled with silicone looks good until it's time to carry you over the threshold where suddenly hugs back just gave out he will be fine once you are across on your own, so all that buffed is not muscle sometimes I feel like I'm living in a movie people are fake just an illusion nothing is as it seems nothing nor anyone!
    • Yeah fake is "F'd" up. And women been doing it for years. Fake hair, fake boobs, fake eyelashes, fake nails. And then say looking for real relationship. Why not be real yourself. I ain't all that but damn least it's real ๐Ÿ˜ and I'd rather have an imperfect man then a fake one.

  • ecfresh
    I agree, and what you are uncovering at the source of these questions is insecurity. A person with good self esteem wouldnโ€™t ask these questions. So anytime they are being asked all it really means is the person is projecting their insecurity onto someone else.
    • Exactly.. own your shit.. I ain't all that.. But I don't ask any of that cuz I'm comfortable with who/what I am and who don't like it can nicely go"F" themselves ๐Ÿ˜Š lol

    • ecfresh

      ^This. Women who see this post, thatโ€™s a sexy and confident personality. @Brainsbeforebeauty is an adult, take notes!

    • Aww thanks lol more like"old" adult. But hey, wrinkles are really "battle"scars 😊

  • Dargil
    And many questions place a land mine in front of the listener because you ostensibly have only two choices. Tell the truth, cause hurt and get flamed for it. Or lie, cause hurt and get flamed for it. So you try to come up with weasel words, AKA "lawyering".
    Do I look fat in this dress? You look fine.
    or
    What do you think of these piercings? I don't know how to answer that.
  • laurieluvsit
    Over-The-Top Great again as always!

    Are you a college professor? ... I'm not kidding! ... lol"Questions" The Questions Not To Ask If You Don't Want Or Can't Handle The Truth.
    • ๐Ÿค” can blondes teach anything? ๐Ÿ˜…
      Seriously tho, thanks ๐Ÿ˜˜

  • loveslongnails
    Hmmm... I've heard that size doesn't matter, it's the LACK of size that matters. LOL
    But that pertains to penises.

    When it comes to breasts, size matters to me, but only if there's TOO MUCH of it !!

    What's going on here?
    • Don't play dumb or "blonde" that's my play lol you know the size I was referring to lol ๐Ÿ˜Š

    • You mean like... " hey, I'm only 2.5 inches, but some girls like it that thick"? That kind of size?

    • ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ yeah, yeah that's what I meant ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜‚

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  • COMMODOREII
    I like this. 😗 im one to always tell the truth even if they don't want to hear it. I like freely giving the truth. 😛 i figured the last one was true because of the reactions i got from all of my lovers and my friends. 😂
  • TCredo
    Another outstanding My Take Toots! Love the pictures and thoughts - made me laugh, head nod and say "you got it Toots" as I was reading lol :)
    • Thanks lol but now you talking to yourself? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ˜‚

    • TCredo

      Me to me: "Why is she pointing this out?"
      Me to me: "I don't know - doesn't everyone do this?"
      Me to me: "Well maybe that is why people were looking at us funny at the store earlier"
      Me to me: "I thought it was because you left the barn door open..."
      Me to me: "Well I zipped up as soon as you told me to"
      Me to me: "Yeah... so I don't know... people are crazy I guess"
      Me to me: "You got that right. Let's get something to eat"

    • ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ you batshit crazy ๐Ÿคช that's what I love tho โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • BillieJean1070
    How many people have you slept with is definitely off the table.
  • MannySimms
    Well done. I love it when someone asks and then declares you to be an idiot. Folks looking for justification make me sick."Questions" The Questions Not To Ask If You Don't Want Or Can't Handle The Truth.
  • winterfox10
    I don't know why people ask so many size questions. It's just annoying now...
  • JackSmy
    Totally with you on just about everything, but sometimes, what I think is nice, soft, sensual curves, she calls 'fat' based on social pressures and ads! Sometimes, a little accidental camel toe, when you don't realize can be a really nice prelude into foreplay and a fabulous evening together! Not like showing it off, but with yoga pants, and some leggings, and something, or nothing under, and it happens, and when unexpected, not intentional, smiling, just because!
    Size thing, so many ask this, ad nauseum!! Even if he isn't exactly what you want, maybe he knows some special things that make size just not matter?
  • peachyknees
    Quality's quantity matters :))
  • Jamie05rhs
    Your honesty is refreshing. Much respect.
  • Gedaria
    I like it, but it is true...
  • SecretGardenBlood65
    Nice take
  • itsallaroundtheworld
    Yes SIZE MATTERS ! 🍆
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