First, obviously consent is required.
You guys are newly dating and you have just kissed for the first time during the date. What will set you apart from being the "cute" guy that she just kissed to being the guy she wants on top of her?
I have found that one thing that arouses a woman is to squeeze a her butt during the first goodbye after a makeout session. Doing this is HUGE. It will definitely set you apart and she will view you with intense sexuality moving forward.
A lot of guys will have that first makeout session and only kiss her goodbye at her car or apartment. A lady making out with you is not always a sign that she wants to bang you. It could be a sign that she likes you romantically and has a lot of trust with you. You have established yourself as a high value nice guy. But does she want to jump your bones?
So when you make out with her as you say goodbye, take your hand from her waist to both butt cheeks and squeeze slightly and bring her body close to your pelvis. This will surprise her because it is a clear intentional sign that you want to be inside her.
Remember, women are just as horny as you are. They are not innocent virginal flowers. They are independent and strong sexual beings as well.
If she is making out with you and you squeeze her butt, just do it ONCE and then go back to being romantic and running a finger across her hair or kissing her forehead. Give her a little taste of your desire while still being classy.
The seriousness of sexual energy will escalate when she sees you next. You are now out of the friendzone. You are no longer that one guy that she made out with while drunk. You have established yourself as a legitimate contending sexual partner.
One side note. I usually do this once and then in the next date act sweet and dont touch her butt at all. She will be expecting that but when you dont do it a second time she will just long for that and miss it. Switch it up and show you react to the moment rather than just that you are some creepy groper grabbing her butt every time.
Where to do it? Dont do it in full public view at a bar. or restaurant. Do it at her car, outside walking, in a home.
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