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The First Make Out Butt Squeeze

The First Make Out Butt Squeeze

First, obviously consent is required.

You guys are newly dating and you have just kissed for the first time during the date. What will set you apart from being the "cute" guy that she just kissed to being the guy she wants on top of her?

I have found that one thing that arouses a woman is to squeeze a her butt during the first goodbye after a makeout session. Doing this is HUGE. It will definitely set you apart and she will view you with intense sexuality moving forward.

A lot of guys will have that first makeout session and only kiss her goodbye at her car or apartment. A lady making out with you is not always a sign that she wants to bang you. It could be a sign that she likes you romantically and has a lot of trust with you. You have established yourself as a high value nice guy. But does she want to jump your bones?

So when you make out with her as you say goodbye, take your hand from her waist to both butt cheeks and squeeze slightly and bring her body close to your pelvis. This will surprise her because it is a clear intentional sign that you want to be inside her.

Remember, women are just as horny as you are. They are not innocent virginal flowers. They are independent and strong sexual beings as well.

If she is making out with you and you squeeze her butt, just do it ONCE and then go back to being romantic and running a finger across her hair or kissing her forehead. Give her a little taste of your desire while still being classy.

The seriousness of sexual energy will escalate when she sees you next. You are now out of the friendzone. You are no longer that one guy that she made out with while drunk. You have established yourself as a legitimate contending sexual partner.

One side note. I usually do this once and then in the next date act sweet and dont touch her butt at all. She will be expecting that but when you dont do it a second time she will just long for that and miss it. Switch it up and show you react to the moment rather than just that you are some creepy groper grabbing her butt every time.

Where to do it? Dont do it in full public view at a bar. or restaurant. Do it at her car, outside walking, in a home.

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  • Disagree. Make out session or not. And by make out session I’m referring to just some great kissing. I would take a double handed butt squeeze as too forward. Second or third date, more appropriate. But first unless it was leaning towards a one night stand, nope.

    • Whats in a number. Why have an arbitrary rule based on number of dates rather than the connection you have established? there's no difference between a first date or second date.

    • Who said it was a rule? And yes there’s a difference between date one and two... knowledge of someone, level of comfort, just to mention a few.

    • Thank you for answering. I am mindful that all of this is up to you and each individual person.

  • Agreed!
    That’s a very good way to make your lust-driven desires known. Acting on it just enough so that you leave the ball in her court, which often will be enough incentive for her to reciprocate.

    • Have you experienced the butt grab early on? Did it turn you on? Did it set a new tone in viewing a guy sexually?

    • yup and yup. It was super hot because not only did it lay a good foundation for the sexual side of the relationship, but the whole give/take aspect of it and him doing things like the butt grab, then waiting to see if I'd do anything back was a whole new turn on itself.

    • Thats hot. Was there ever a guy you viewed as just nerdy but surprised you by doing that and showing sexuality?

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  • normally you'd say no to being groped but if your passionately kissing someone and you want to kiss them too... it is a turn on for him to put his hands neath your skirt maybe even pull your panties down to mid-thigh and start fingering you as you kiss it's very hot and sensual... this doesn't work for a good night kiss... I mean a good make out session... after something like that you realize the next time he may need a blowjob and it makes it exciting anticipating something like that... or maybe after he fingers you... you may want to get on your knees for him then and there

    • You sound like a sexy person. haha. But yes. I dont even call the above example groping. It is part of the make out process. But I certainly wouldn't be doing this in public much or doing it as a joke. This is a sensual romantic thing rather than treating her as an object.

  • This is good

  • Not for me, all that's going to happen is Negate every Sweet Kind discussion we had throughout the date. Now all I see is a Fuckboy who couldn't. Control himself. The worse kind of Fuckboy at that starts Sweet good intentions but Reverts back to the Get Laid moves!! I would Fuck him then leave a $20.00 and tell him to go earn the rest of his income for the day... If you can't get a woman horny for you just by making out you are lacking in your Kissing Technique and get to practicing with a pillow hand whatever works...

    • Here. We. Go. Again...

    • Hahahaha

  • Loveeeeeeee this Mytake. I was getting hot just imagining what you were describing. Well done. This guy knows his stuff 💖💘

    • Thank you! Flattered!

    • What part of the description made you hot?

  • Oh my soul! Thanks Sooo much I've always wondered why guys do that. Now I know. This was really helpful

    • Its just because we are turned on.

  • I'm not on board with this... at all. This is another one of those posts that recommends intentional planting of subconscious thoughts into the other person, which seems like manipulation.
    I'm repulsed by the idea that you plan this for all of your pursuits. Let's hope your date/significant other never sees this. Not just you, I've seen it from women too. I don't want any part of it.

    • Its not planned. Just instinctive.

    • I'm kinda surprised at how many women left positive comments. Maybe some of us just come from a more repressed (less slutty) culture.

    • The reason why women left positive comments is because the mytake is spot on for a lot of women. Thats why it is good advice. Women love it. You can't put all women in a box. Not everyone is the same. Any mytake about relationship is not a reference 100% to every woman on the planet. To make an argument against a mytake by suggesting that not all women are like that is... kind of dumb. LIke duh... obviously it doesn't apply to all women. The point is whether the mytake will help you with the majority of women. SydneySentinel, I feel I need to respond directly to you because I think you are being too harsh. This is not making an game plan on how to grab a woman's butt. This is to give advice for men in certain situations to help them facilitate the process of romance. Women are SICK AND TIRED OF MEN WHO HAVE NO PLAN. They are tired of men who dont know what they are doing and are hesitant. They are tired of men who lack confidence. Tell me... what the difference between a mytake of saying "if the moment is right grab her butt" and a mytake that says "if the moment is right kiss her"? There is no difference. You are just getting weird out by the image of a butt being grabbed. Because if it was a mytake about giving guys encouragement to go for the kiss it wouldn't be any big deal.

  • So true. My boyfriend and I kissed for the first time like normal, we were jus hanging out at my place. But when he left he made out with me and started grabbing me and then he left and I was basically his at that moment lol 😂

    • What about that moment really triggered an attachment to him? Was it the grabbing posessiveness that pretty much said "I want you"

    • Yeah, that’s probably it. Tbh I don’t have much relationship experience so I never had someone grab me like that before and it just triggered a lot of feelings if you catch my drift lmao. It did feel very possessive in a good way and like he really wanted me right then even if he didn’t make a move

  • 😂😂😂 I like what you wrote because it is perfect for a dialogue or commentary in a romcom. However in reality, that is just generalising and putting girls in one box. There are a variety of girls with different preferences and a variety of desires, likes and dislikes. Remember, one man's meat is another man's poison.

    Then again we all have types. So perhaps it is working for you because your type seems to have that reaction in common. Just don't go telling all guys that they have to be like you because another guy's type may not like being squeezed on the butt right away in fact that could be a turn off.

    Realise that there are differences among people in this world and accept it.

    You truly made me laugh. Nice one.😂😂😂

  • Do you really believe this?

    The seriousness of sexual energy will escalate when she sees you next. You are now out of the friendzone. You are no longer that one guy that she made out with while drunk. You have established yourself as a legitimate contending sexual partner.

    • Yes I do. She will for sure remember you. A butt grab is a clear indication of wanting to fuck. Its is romantic. But certainly grabbing both cheeks and as I say pressing the girl against your pelvis while kissing is a prelude of closeness oriented to sex. The nature of the relationship in that moment has gone from just a makeout session with "cute guy" to "pre sex/foreplay". A lady from that point on views you differently.

  • You fool😂😂girls too can read this... don't tell everybody about our top secret ninja techniques 🤫🤭😂

    • Hahs. Nice...

    • Yea... be careful next time... you can send me a dm😂😂

    • If you have a lady situation and need advice just DM and I can give you my advice to be a master in your situation.

  • Nice tip thanks, though I know I won't get the opportunities like this here but maybe if luck strikes why not

  • I'm not going to risk her saying I sexually harassed her. If she wants that, she needs to tell me. In fact, she needs to initiate everything. That way I can be 100% sure that I'm only doing everything that she wants me to do.
    Welcome to the current year.

    • The first sentence is consent required. Inthink its cool for you to be safe. But this is for if you are already making out with her. Not just a peck or a smooch. But making out. In the moment gently grab both cheeks and pull her in closer. But you have to have established that you are a nice classy guy during the date. This will surprise her. But when she goes home she wilk get turned on reflecting on it.

    • Ah, that makes much more sense. So this should only be done whenever you know you've both got some sexual tension between each other. I understand now, thanks

    • Actually, I would take it a step further. This should only be done during an intimate makeout session. Not just random on the fly

  • Gotta love that phrasing "You have established yourself as a legitimate contending sexual partner."

    Competing with whom, exactly? Is she a ho? :D If she's into you, she'll make it clear one way or another.

    • Uhm. Having multiple prospects or dating multple people doesn't make a woman or a man a hoe. A woman has many different guys asking them for sex or relationships at any given moment in their life in a world of 300 likes per dating app. YOu need to stand out and demonstrate that you aren't a chicken and that you are a man who is comfortable about physical intimacy. If you dont establish that right away. You will be in the friends.

    • Perhaps, it's a false supposition that you aren't a "contender" by default.

  • Perfect 👍😊

  • I like this 😎

  • I've never been called out for giving a little squeeze without asking mainly cuz their tongue was in my mouth.

  • Nice mytake

  • Yeah, it's a great way to show interest in wanting more of a sexual nature

    • @butterflytiger_1982 whats the best way to grab a girls butt lol? like how do they like it?

    • Depends on the moment you do it.

    • @butterflytiger_1982 what u mean?

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  • My first make out was when I was sleeping over with a girl cousin. I was in the 6th grade, so I guess I was 12. She was 3 years older and very pretty. We were about to go to sleep in her bed and she asked if she could kiss me. I said yes, and she gave me a quick kiss on my lips. I was thinking it was gonna be a goodnight kiss. I really liked it and smiled and kinda laughed. Then she gave me a deep, long kiss. I learned to kiss her back the same way. We made out a long time. She crawled on top of me and kissed me. She asked if I knew what French kissing was. No. So she showed me. I had sensations I’d never had before. She was on top of me making out and grinding onto my public bone. Since this post is just about making out, I’ll leave the rest to your imagination. 💋

  • Dumb post

    • That fine. You can think that. Thanks for the comment.

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