My sister recently had a baby with a gang banger. Why have a baby with a druggie? She said that she didn't really need a father to be around. She just wanted a "Latino" baby. Knowing from the get go that her druggie hookup Dad would never be in the picture, she chose to have the baby anyway.
About 99.% of my friends are women. My best friend is a girl and we were talking about sex. She tells me, "You I am 31 years old now. I feel like if I was having fun with a boyfriend and my birth control didn't work..I would have the baby anyway. I can take care of myself. When will I have a kid or get married?"
I was recently dating a single mom. She tells me, "I never really thought I wanted to have kids. But when I got pregnant I went along with it. The father didn't want it. But I went along with it because I wasn't sure if I'd get the chance." Later it was revealed that the father was just a hookup and had started dating a different girl. This was the loop in draw.
We live in a society that marginalizes the role of fatherhood. We have women that are intentionally having broken families.
There are women who have every access to adoption or abortion and other means of not having a child. But they are choosing to deny a child the right to exist in the world without a father.
Fatherhood matters. Fathers are crucial in a child's life. Yet, the idea of fatherhood has become a form of blackmail in relationship disputes. It has been relegated to the role of sperm donor.
It seems that women are choosing to have babies selfishly without even considering the consequences and impact that no child will have on a father.
Not having a father scars a child for the rest of their life and slows their development compared to secure families.
The responsible thing is to have an abortion. Wait until marriage to have a child. And give your child the blessing of a planned pregnancy where both parents are fully invested and in the picture.
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