First, I am not slut shaming. As long as you are safe I see nothing wrong with having fun. I do however, think that men are objectified by women in their younger years. I do think that we as men are used sexually and it isn't even talked about in society. The sexual objectification of men doesn't even reach a national conversation. It isn't just women being left confused and lonely after sex...there is an untold story of men who's feeling are hurt because they really liked the girl.
A woman on dating apps between the ages of 18 to 25 is not looking for her next husband.
She is looking for her next boyfriend. A woman by nature is just a sexually polygamous as men are. We are created to be fruitful and multiply. To have sex and mate with as many people as possible for fertility.
A woman in her 20s is in her wild years of sex where she cycles through a number of boyfriends and gets to experience a variety of dick.
By the time she reaches 28 or 30 years old a woman likely has been plowed and rammed through by dozens of partners.
Then when she is finally seriously dating and is dating for marriage she will say, "I've only had 3 relationships. They were long term."
But if she is 32 years old and she has one relationship that was 1 year, and another that was 4 years, and another that was 2 years...that means she has had sex with 3 people over the span of 7 years...but wait..she is 32 years old.
Say she lost her virginity at the average age of 15. So there are an extra TEN YEARS of potential sex partners for her that are not accounted for. Either she was celibate or she had sex with a couple different guys per year. a couple times 10 is 20 guys. Maybe she had a break up and had a crazy week of three different guys. thats 23. You see what has happened to men now days?
We as men are just a cog in a while. Just another bedpost mechanic a few nights per month tickling her fancy because she is bored or lonely.
Me? I am not bitter. I am dating. I love women. But I feel I need to speak up on behalf of the guys who are too afraid to stick their phallus's out and start this discussion.
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