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Why Many Women are Simply Bad at Sex

Let's start off by saying that I am sure many men are bad at sex. If you want to make that argument? Fine. Write a mytake. But the point here is that with the advancements of gender equality, what we haven't seen enough of is gender equality in the bedroom.

Simply put: there are a ton of women out there who are simply bad at sex. They just lay there!

Don't get me wrong. I love women. But I would contend that there are a lot of women who claim they want to be dominated and say they are submissive for one simply reason. They are sexually lazy.

A lot of women in society these days have sex freely available to them any time they want. Unlike men, they may feel they don't need to maximize their performance in bed due to the abundance of guys drooling over them to bed them. What is the result of this?

The result of abundance of available sex means you dont have to impress your partner. You simply can lay there on your back an open your legs and let the man to all the work.

Other times women enjoy doggystyle and so they can bend over on their stomach and once again...have the men do all the work.

Still, can women thrust? Are they good at riding a man on top and arching their back? How good is their perfomance when commanding the ship?

Who knows? Maybe I am wrong. Maybe there are a lot of women riding on top and have their game on lock. Only the fellas out there would know if most of their women are typically not doing much other than letting the guy do everything.

And ladies? If you are an equal partner in bedroom dynamics? God Bless you!

P.S. I have written articles assisting men who are horrible in bed.

Why Many Women are Simply Bad at Sex
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  • Mmm to be honest I get that. I really wish I could do more in bed... I suppose I find it more difficult to be the one commanding the ship when I’m always the receiver (I am the one receiving the dick...). I enjoy being on top but I am also self conscious because I feel if I really let myself go I can hurt him 😅. As for foreplay and such sure that’s fine, I can do that easy! What would you suggest doing? How would you want a woman to participate in sex? Curious to learn your opinion.

    • I think woman are often insecure about showing how beautiful they are because of their looks. Always remember that confidence is sexy. Women find it sexy and guys find it sexy. I think women are comfortable with foreplay but are terrified and have no idea what they are doing when in a dominant position. So they just lay there and have the guy do all the work. But dont worry. people like me are here to answer any questions you have.

    • Hmm... How's your head game?

    • You always can do what your heart desires as well as your loins. You can receive the fick but he can receive the pussy too. What you do is you gradually test the waters by going a little more each time until you feel you reach the point where ever is fine. Your stimulation does not only turn you on but him as well. The woman can feel free to express herself in any manner feel good love good orgasm great. Give and take love the whole body enjoy each others moves positions techniques and openness. Enjoy the sounds the movement the overall satisfaction. Love it to the max. .

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  • I guess it's the way society has programmed women that so many women are submissive in bed. I mean, men are programmed to dominate in any activity and so women are used to letting men do as they please.

    • Couldn't put it better

    • Pretty much, yes I don't understand why men complain all the time about this yet they always date the sub/passive ones... 😅

    • Exactly!

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  • I agree with you that men are typically quite a bit more involved and active in the bedroom (especially during actual intercourse) than women. I think it's important to remember that the reason why this is as such is hardly simple enough so that a few decades of progress in 'gender equality' can change things significantly.

    Millennia of evolution have made it so that men can thrust more 'effectively' (or with as much energy) than women, seeing as how the onus was almost solely on men to seek out a mate to spread their seed back in the hunter-gatherer days. I'm sure even your guys' muscles/joints in the lower region are primed for thrusting, whereas a woman's body is primed for maximizing functionality and health throughout pregnancy.

    I try to be an equal partner in the bedroom but that usually leaves me with my hip joints feeling sore, in addition to pain in my lower back. I definitely try to compensate for that by 'taking the reigns' when it comes to foreplay. ;)

    • That's good, but have a look at my comment further up? Basically pompoir and kabazza can do wonders in bed (but be careful with kabazza while you still want to have kids)

    • @Losalt yup, fair enough in how the position and who does the most obvious 'work' is just a part of good sex. For example, even in missionary, a position where women don't have to do much at all, they can up the ante and wrap their arms/legs around the guy to up the ante, use their legs to pull him in deeper, dig their nails into his back as things get hotter, or even thrust back to match his rythm. 👌

    • True, but I still think that the most important part is what you girls do with your inner muscles, how you squeeze us etc.

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  • You talk about sexual positions as if that's all that matters. For a woman to be good in bed learn pompoir and kabazza, do kegels, pay attention to him and his body, put him and his pleasure first, communicate, be open to new ideas and trying new things, not wanting something is okay, but *never* judge him for his sexual fantasies and try at least. *some* of them.
    And yes, I guess different positions might be a idea too... Somewhere on the list... Like page six... Or seven... But seriously, anyone thinking that sex is just the act of something going in and out is missing out on the real deal... re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (0, 0, 0), justifyLeft, p

    • Excellent points!

  • GIRLS AND BOYS ARE D-I-F-F-E-R-E-N-T!

  • Don't be shy, drop the how-to manual for women (please I'm begging you, any male leave a reply of things that impress you in bed)

    • feel free to ask me anything :) followed you

    • lol same feel free to DM me I got da wisdom

    • Being woken up by oral. Unlimited access to all 3 holes. Show willing. Done x

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  • I think they’re told just being naked and having a wet opening is all they need to do. But in reality most appreciative enthusiasm, creativity, experimentation, good hip movement, clenching, foreplay isn’t just for women, if more spoke up I think they’d be better in general. The standard is too minimal

  • Uhm, there are women who like to be on top. Maybe you need to get a different partner.

  • I ride 🤠 I reverse ride 🤠🤠 I do some of the movement in doggy🐕

    • Does your affection for the partner determine how active you are in bed or is it something you normally do while having sex?

    • Just something I normally do

    • It sounds like you’re simply good at sex @smashingdoozy!

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  • I have always said that nobody is good at anything at first. For each of your lousy lays have you coached them? Listened to them and their insecurities about the act? Watched porn together and said 'That looks like fun. Want to try that?'
    And then there is the idea that sex is a two person activity where both need to be involved for it to be good. How do you know it isn't you? If sex is a dance and she keeps stepping on your feet maybe you are out of step?
    Bad sex is something for the two participants to work through together.
    Maybe she will never be a wildcat in bed.
    Maybe she is asexual and doesn't get excited for sex.
    Maybe she had a bad experience.
    Maybe you should talk with her/them.

    • Very good advice to you guys out there. I think for most guys it is not a matter of "coaching". It is a matter of wanting to please a woman who says, "I dont want to be on top. I dont like it." She says this as a preference because she is insecure but a man has no way of knowing. He just does what she asks to please her.

    • That's where we lead and give positive feedback: "You're so beautiful ","That feels so good", "That's so sexy", "I want you; you drive me wild." Ears are a powerful sex organ.

    • All good points bro. Very good.

  • Lol most men are bad at sex thats not actually true... I had good experience because I only date dominate men... anyways what you find bad another man mite find good. The way I look at it is, men should be the ones doing the fucking just look at animals, but unfortunately humans gotta be complicated and have a mixture of preferences depending on person to person. Hey if you think woman are bad at sex feel feel free to try a man they would fuck you hard😘

  • I'm always bleed the same that if you wake up and go out into the world and you meet the asshole then you just met the asshole. If you get up can go out into the world and meet the asshole everyday its because you're the asshole did you understand what I mean

  • part of why "some girls". take little or no action in the sexual encounter. is because "some girls" are more submissive then others. so they want or let the man take control most or all of the time.

    however this is not always the case or even all of why this happens.

    part of why I don't typically date fully submissive girls. sure it's nice she'll let you take charge more often. but it gets mundane rather quickly. if your do the same stuff all the time.

    • Yes. exactly my point.

  • I think you're right when you said the women prefer to be submissive because they're sexually lazy lmao true but we are just confused, we're not sure if we can do all the work right or not. That's why we let men take the ride because they know what they're doing!

  • You judge women by how many sexual partners they had, so you only date women who have had very few partners, that's your answer

  • they tend to at least try to be good when you're willing to spend money on them such as taking them out to fancy restaurant, buying them gives, etc.

  • Lol I’m a champ 🥊 🥇
    we all know this, so I know I’m not in the category this is addressing

    • I wouldn’t dispute that. Bet u r a top performer!

    • @jjj101010 woot woot triple j

    • Sure u always leave a smile on their face. Follow me back

  • Im as bad as the guy I'm with

  • Start dating older women who know what they are doing

    • There is no age limit to my take. Had sex just last night with a 32 year old woman. She was on top of me and had no clue what she was doing?

    • Maybe she was married for years

    • Would be cool if more of them wanted to date younger guys!

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  • I like to look at it, as inexperienced...

  • Not true

    • This fool is off his rocker.

  • You would think they would be better at it. Lol

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