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My Life As a Purple Pill Ladies Man

My Life As a Purple Pill Ladies Man

Red Pill=Avoiding relations with women out of awareness of female nature

Purple Pill= Aware of female nature yet plan accordingly and maintain relationships

Blue Pill= Being clueless about female hypergamous and manipulative nature

It's Friday night and I am on a second date. She's 27 years old and works part time as a teaching assistant but is jobless over the summer. I am a successful man and meet her for drinks. We have a good 2 hour conversation. She had time to change into a nice blouse after protesting BLM for several hours during the day. I pay all of the tab. I oppose this but know she's not working. I have a good salary and a good job so whatever. We walk outside in the chilly wind and all of a sudden her tongue is in my mouth. We make out.

Next day I drive 2 hours north to see my female best friend from college. We've known each other 10 years. She just dumped her boyfriend after a year of him not having a job and using her. I arrive and she tells me she stopped taking birth control. We go on a walk in the woods and then have dinner together. I get a call from my Fuck Buddy. She had cut things off wanting to find her "purpose". But now she is asking me to have sex again. I tell her im busy. She comments on how girls are checking me out. Then she says, "What's the difference between this and a date? None right?" I go to her apartment and she says I can stay the night. We smoke a few hits of weed and then I am out. Sleeping. I disappointed her hormones. I do recall her tell me her vagina angles slightly right. I commented on my erection. Then I was asleep.

Its Monday, my Fuck Buddy calls me again. Offers to give me a massage. I pay for a massage and thank her. Before I walk out she says that she knows she cut things off but she wants to have sex. So i take her to my place. She says, "I know that I say no. But I really mean yes. Do you know what I mean?" I tell her I dont. Because what she is saying is idiotic.

Whatever. Authenticity is hard to find.

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  • I'm not sure i quite followed the thread of your central argument, but would agree there's value in being aware of women's nature, but not outright avoiding them or mistreating them as a result. You strike me as someone with strong opinions, which i respect, even if i don't share them all with you. My position is basically to treat well the women who ought be treated well, and to turn away the women who fail the most basic standards of "good character". I guess the hard part is knowing which of these two camps a woman is likely to fall into. A little world-weariness can ve instructive, then-- but sp restrictive if applied too cynically across the board

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  • And here I am thinking you were comparing yourself to a PPI drug Prilosec. The other purple pill.

    • It was only a reference to something that guys in the mens rights movement say. most people aren't aware of the term.

    • I was thinking that too. 😂😂

    • If not Prilosec maybe Nexium. Lol

  • And people wonder why I'm still single... reading this piece and realizing that there are men like this out there, and they are content behaving this way towards women?

    ... I think I'm good single for now. WAY less drama and nonsense.

    • The only right way to respond to this bullshit.

    • @cynicaldreamer I’ll be honest, I read the first paragraph and thought 🤨: “whaaaa? 😨 so much girls and going through all this trouble for drama?” Yeesh. Didn’t bother reading the rest and read the opinion section lol.

    • @FictionalCharacter Trust me, it only gets worse the more you read it 🤦‍♀️ I try to keep an open mind to people's opinions on here but... yeah. I have my limits, lol.

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  • You are surrounded by low quality women, your life is filled with them, everything in your life is low quality. Your mytakes are ridiculous. You yourself are a low quality person.
    You need to stop categorising women, making assumptions, pretending that they are sex addicted dolls who want other's money and that men are money making successful geniuses. This is the reality- There are men who earn very low, there are men who earn high, there are men in debt, and there are men who earn nothing at all and aren't tryting to earn, or they are but it isn't working out. There are men who have sex a lot, with many women, with one woman, who are happily in a relationship but never have sex still, and who never have sex and are miserable. You can be any of these, no one knows and no one cares. On the other hand, there are women who also earn a lo, t earn a little, earn none, have sex a lot have sex a little have no sex... Your life is filled with the ones who just have random sex apparently but that is because of you. You need to change that. And posting on GAG won't get you anywhere. Yes a few dozens of people will reply and read your act of being a successful fuck thing, but after a few seconds they will forget about you and go to their life. You need to have that too. Your life must not be posting silly women shaming mytakes on GAG dear. Good luck.

    • That mytake is the dumbest thing I’ve read lol

    • Truest response. OP is most likely a butthurt individual trying to figure shit out. Hopefully, he won't make too much of an ass of himself gaining some humility and talking about other humans like they are humans. It's not even about respect anymore.. Like.. Just have a modicum of decency. Either way, he has a long way to go.

    • @JadedJade90 We should pray for him

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  • Are you like an incel guru or something? You post this type of shit a lot, is it to encourage incels to think they should harass women and we will suddenly want to have sex with them? 😐

    • @hartleyb Nice juicy ass Hartley... did you say something?

    • @KrakenAttackin thanks for being an example for my question.. a 40 year old incel who can't even communicate with a woman without being a loser I'm sorry that is how your life has worked out :/

    • @hartleyb HAHAHA you are fucking savage sometimes!

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  • You are messed up. As long as you think this way all women will seem bad to you.

    • Amen sister

  • To be honest, this isn't written well enough for me to understand what's going on...

    I respect your opinion, as long as you are still treating women with respect.

  • Yikes. None of this good. None of it.

    • You really need to meet new women who aren’t so down to fuck. And you need to act with a little bit of sexual integrity. That is why you’re in this mess.

  • That's not what the Purple Pill means. The Purple Pill means that you continue to make excuses, and become willfully ignorant of a particular woman's manipulative nature.

    Believing you can still win in the end through sheer wit and determination is the White Pill.

    Determining that you'll always have a contingency, so that there's no way she can hurt you without hurting herself worse, being aware this can happen, and being too in love with life to care, and laughing at her attempts to hurt you if they come, is the Honk Pill.

    The Red Pill, is being suspicious of a woman being manipulative. Noticing things don't add up.

    Despairing that all women are this way, and that you're hopeless, and MGTOW, etc... that's the Black Pill.

    Believing that somehow, in some way, all modern women are like this, and it's somehow tied to how Orange Man Bad, so protest and riot... that's Tide Pods.

    This goes for politics too. In summary:

    Blue Pill = Clueless, in denial. NPC.
    Red Pill = Highly suspicious. Things don't add up, and you can see clearly that they don't.
    Purple = Total cuck.
    Black Pill = "It's hopeless. The world may as well burn to nothing. I'm gonna be more emo than the Emo Rangers!"
    White Pill = "I CAN FIX IT!"
    Honk Pill = "It's the end of the world as we know it; but I feel fine..."
    Tide Pods = "It's Trump's fault somehow! I just know it is! Reeeeee!!!"

  • You have the definitions a little confused there. The pills are really used as a term for understanding inter-sexual dynamics, and have nothing to do with the way you decide to use it. A guy might be red-pilled and go MGTOW, or sleep around, use it to make better decisions in who he chooses to marry, or to make his relationships with women better.

    Red-pilled = fully understanding the truth, even uncomfortable truths e. g. hypergamy.

    Blue-pilled = believing in the popular myths about dating and relationships which most people, guys mainly, believe e. g. the soulmate myth.

    Purple-pilled = either somebody who doesn't fully accept the red-pill, somebody who doesn't fully understand it yet, or somebody who does understand it but decides to kind of try to mix the two.

    Men who give dating advice to women usually understand the red-pill but give purple-pilled advice for example - sugar-coating it, because that's what sells to women. Blunt truth that would be more helpful to them does not.

    I just saw this actually about a guy who used to teach PUA, and it's a perfect example. He didn't sugar-coat his advice to men like he does here, and these guys speak blunt truth:

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/FDhFTcuDZl4

    For you, I'd say you're mostly red-pilled.

    • I dont really care what pill i am. I looked into this and videos and what I found is MGTOW can't even agree on their definitions on what each color pill means. I only have 2,000 characters to write. So I am not going to waste the take on definitions you know?

    • MGTOW just use the term wrongly, as do a few others, especially when it's clear that most of th don't fully understand women. The guy who came up with these terms was Rollo Tomassi in the early days of the PUA community to better understand game. If you imagine driving a car, PUA is driving the car and redpill is understanding what's going on under the hood.

    • One reason I am not MGTOW is because everyone claims they are MGTOW but nobody who is can even agree on what it means. It is pretty ridiculous. Its a bunch of people who use the "you are really one of us" card anytime you disagree with what a guy says or if you look bad.

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  • Offers you a massage then you have to pay? am I missing something? a little bit of fiction reading right here for you.

  • Im starting to be a red pill when it comes to men.. need to transition back to purple. Hopefully one day

    • Yeah. I would say it is much easier these days for a lady though.

    • Much easier in what sense?

    • Abundance of choice v. Scarcity. High quality, good looking women are scarce. Women therefore have abundance of choice. This abundance of matches on dating apps etc. means that an overweight an average looking girl can get a date with a guy who is several notches above her on the attractive scale.

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  • So which one of these women has your dick? Seems like you don't have it anymore!!

    • NOt sure. trying to find out.

    • @apope16 It's OK, and things are changing faster than we can adapt! Sometimes I wonder!! NO worries, mate!! Just do what seems right!!

  • Maybe you should learn to be alone for a while and get to know you. Have a relationship with you first.

  • So first of all that is not what the red pill is at all. More importantly I don't know what you were trying to prove here. I don't even see the point in the pill stuff. I feel like people who still use that kind of logic aren't really getting off their porch much. I have quite a roster of females but to me it doesn't seem like these women are that interested in you. I think like someone else said you are a medium sized fish in a small pond. You ain't in the ocean. Your a superhero for incels. The incel champion.

    • I wasn't trying to prove anything. Just reflections on my experiences with women.

    • That would make sense if you took out the pill stuff.

  • First time hearing about a purple pill

    • People who eat spicy food take purple pills😅

  • You are what you attract so congratulations love ☺️

  • 'Authenticity is hard to find.'
    duhhhhhhhh.. Perfect example is you.

  • weird, odd, interesting. weird, odd, interesting. You should start a religion out of this : )

  • https://www.youtube.com/embed/y9KFAedUR50https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ns9vqnuWRwY

  • If single, I would be somewhere between the red and the purple.

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