Penis Size and Sex Positions

This guide is based on my own experience. I've kept it simple breaking it down into the basic positions. I know there's umpteen variants of rear entry but in reality the differences aren't that great. Neither am I a fan of over imaginative positions, sex should be enjoyable not a yoga workout. The minute a guy tells me his favourite position is the flying wheelbarrow or the dancing duck I conclude he's a virgin who's spent too much time googling positions.

SMALL GUY

You need to choose positions that allow deep penetration and/or allow him to use the full range of motion.

REAR ENTRY

Penis Size and Sex Positions

All rear entry positions are a good choice for smaller guys. Not only do they allow him to bury it deep they give him a lot of flexibility for thrusting speed and angle variation. Because rear is puts him more in control there's less problem with slipping out.

COWGIRL

Often thought of as a big guy position bur Reverse cowgirl variants are ideal for small men. She can stimulate her own clitoris easily and direct you on to her g spot. Best of all she can't blame your technique. To make it better put a pillow under the guys bottom.

FRONT ENTRY

The best for the little ones
The best for the little ones

Standard missionary is a poor choice for smaller guys. It doesn't allow deep penetration and slipping out is common. Standard missionary makes him feel smaller than he actually is. This can be corrected by slipping a pillow under the hips to tilt her slightly backwards and pushing her legs back. Better do this with her lying on a table with you standing, this combines the benefits of both rear and front positions.

STANDING UP
A terrible choice for little guys, avoid at all costs.

BIG GUYS

A big guy doesn't need to use his full length, the main emphasis should be on control rather than penetration depth or avoiding slip outs.

REAR ENTRY
Although rear entry positions allow for deep penetration their main advantage for big guys is they put him firmly in control. Yes he could try and crack your cervix but experience would have taught him most girls don't want that. Instead it's an opportunity for him to show his skill with his penis using a a fuller range motion than small guys. The first few strokes should be investigative to determine her depth. Girls worried he might get too rough should consider spooning positions.

COWGIRL

Penis Size and Sex Positions


Any of the woman on top variants are a good choice when he's well hung. Seated versions are particularly good. The benefit of these positions is they allow the girl more control over depth and speed. The observant guy will learn from how she works his penis how in turn she likes to be fucked.

FRONT ENTRY
Penetration depth isn't as great with front entry if her legs are kept low but there is the huge draw back of her not having much control. Whereas in cowgirl she can control depth and in rear entry easily escape if he thrusts too hard she is trapped in most front entry positions. Front entry is an excellent choice if he's experienced and skilled but should be avoided when he's inexperienced and over enthusiastic.

STANDING UP

Penis Size and Sex Positions


These positions are really where a big penis comes into its own. Face to face or from behind you can't go wrong. Penetration depth is easy to control either by his conscious effort or by her tilting her body. Whereas slipping out is the main problem with smaller guys in standing positions this isn't the case with big guys. From a personal perspective standing positions are the ones most likely to lead to orgasm in the shortest time for me. Many people discard standing as difficult if the height difference between partners is great but with a bit common sense that's easy to overcome.

WHAT ABOUT MR AVERAGE

Penis Size and Sex Positions

Nature is a clever thing, it likes to keep everything well balanced and in just the right proportion. We don't have 10ft long necks or 8inch noses, everything is at the optimum size. It's no coincidence that most men are roughly the same size. Woman often claim size doesn't matter but that is illogical. If size did not matter we would see a far greater spread of sizes and equal numbers of men in each size group. But we don't, 80% of men are pretty close to average.

The big advantage of being average is guys don't have to think too hard about what positions to choose and as we know thinking isn't most guys strong point. One position where mr average excels over both little and large men is in the classic missionary position, which perhaps explains it's popularity.

BUT WHAT ABOUT GIRTH?

If he's thick open your legs, if he's thin squeeze them. It's that simple. Just as penetration depth can be adjusted by raising or straightening legs the girl has a lot of control. That said having legs open is far more comfortable and feels more natural.

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  • Good MyTake, purplepoppy.
    I'm forever grateful for being "average". I would not want to be XL because I love burying myself balls deep. I used to flick one particular girlfriend's cervix with my tip. It made her wild. Actually, it was usually she who controlled that (in various positions) and would repeat it until her orgasm became too intense. But, at the same time, I've always loved being able to pound against a woman's body without worrying about hurting her. And it's nice when a woman can grind her clit enthusiastically against me and stir my full cock inside her without reservation.

    Standing positions can be difficult, as you said, unless she's bent over. One standing position that works is face to face, hooking my elbows behind her knees and cradling her ass, lifting her up while she holds onto my neck. That one is SOME FUN!

    I'll be honest. Another position that doesn't allow me to go very deep is the one with her lying on her stomach with her legs together and me straddling her hips/thighs. I love mashing against her pillowy ass like that, but I can't thrust very deeply.

    Anyway, I had no problem with most positions. And again, I'm really glad that I never had to refrain from sticking my entire dick inside her. It would be such a drag to have a cock and only be able to use half of it. Of course, it would be much, much worse to be too small.

  • You Ms. Poppy... are the bomb...

    I will do what the woman wants first then my position after. Generally doggy... and reverse cowgirl and cowgirl... but don't get it twisted... Shakira hips ain't the only ones that don't lie... I got some skillz... I can make it do what it do...😁

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah. Standing up only for big guys

    • I never done that I always do cowgirl or missionary

    • @jackie310 i m too usually, but sometimes before done that

    • mine is 7.5 inch and you are right

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  • I like all those positions

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  • ". . . and as we know thinking isn't most guys strong point." Perhaps that is true about the guys who you attract, but it is not true of all guys, and it is a self-limiting attitude.

  • This is pretty straight-forward.

  • I don't think size or girth matters as much as shape. I've had more issues due to the shape of my dick than the size.

  • A slightly different photo of you with irises darkened comes to mind. Not sure why this profile from you keeps showing up regardless of whichever new account it is for me to sign in from. The only real striking thing fit for me to offer as contribution here, is that ideally, the amount of experience reflected here should not really be coming from one woman, unless she had been with like six husbands serially and each had come to a soon after marriage demise. . . which seems unlikely to really be ideal in and of itself.

    With the Love which brought us all into existence and maintains the breath in each set of lungs present in us, using all things for the good of those who honor this Love, working everything together for the good of those ones; it is a comfort to realize that someone like you with the experience base at this point accumulated by you, still can benefit and be benefited by this common source of all things, LOVE, itself. Best wishes. Truly. Be well, and please trade in mercy.

  • What position or positions do you prefer

    • I like cowgirl, legs over shoulders, doggy,69

    • Overall more a fan of front entry positions

    • yes i agree. full penetration for the girl. im from London and you?

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  • Sounds about right. Its different for everyone though. Both their vagina/penis and their likes of position. There was a book in the 1970's of a in-depth study including these pictures.

  • In my unresearched, unscientific and non-rationalizing position, girth is the payload and length is the missile. So long as the missile is adequate to deliver girth where it is needed (the first 3 or 4 inches), additional length is of little value. If I could build my own primary weapon, it would be no longer than 6" (more appetizing for a BJ than longer) and 5.75" girth. Enough to get her attention but not skewer her.

  • cool my take :)

  • Nice guide. I used all positions except standing. What about guys with same size

  • I am just now finding this quite useful post. For someone who is on the small side, there is some interesting information here. My favorite position is rear entry, so I guess I don't have much to worry about.

    Though I have two questions. One is, how am I supposed to penetrate her properly from the rear, if she has a bigger butt? (I like bigger butts on women)

    Second question is, do you think cock sleeves are useful, and how many inches can it add on a man?

    • If she's got a big butt try lying her on a table with legs pushed back. Forgot dick sleeves they just reinforce insecurities

    • Thanks, that sounds like a good solution. As for dick sleeves, I want to be able to make the experience as enjoyable for her as possible. I do not have insecurities anymore, I am content with my small size.

  • as a small guy rear entry is too difficult to reach. orat least experiences with thicker women. missionary is only option for me for deep penetration as it is a loss of length between the ass cheeks? or am i missing something?

  • Well, this are my measures (BPEL):
    Length: 19 cm/7.5 inches
    Girth: 13 cm/5.1 inches

    • Answering the question, doggystyle, cowgirl, reverse and missionary are the basics for me

  • But wait weren't you the same person a long time ago said that guys with little dicks can't satisfy a woman? Now I am confused lol.

  • Awesome post, thank you.

  • I love just having a nice rhythm and enjoying the thrusting.

  • Love your information so informative :)

  • I would love to try standing sex, unfortunately I need a girl who is shorter than me.

  • 😎😎😎😎
    I am a fat 6 inches

  • Your killing the little guys poppy. They just don't realize it.

  • The ideal penis size is the exact difference in your height assuming the male is taller. That way when he is fully inserted you are at eye level. VERY SEXY

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