Why isn't there Straight Pride month?

It’s that time of the year again; rainbow-covered items have begun popping up around town, be they banners on street-posts or items in stores that have a rainbow-themed pattern with ‘PRIDE’ plastered somewhere on it. It feels like it’s been an annual thing for some years now, or as far as I can recall since I went to that giant ‘pride parade’ downtown what might’ve been a good ten years ago by now.

Also the time when I often hear fellow workmates or friends scoff at the idea of it being ‘gay pride’ month. Turning down my suggestions that we dip downtown and check out the parade because, ‘why is there no straight pride parade?’ Or if they’re typically a good bit older, saying they’re not interested in checking out ‘gay propaganda’.

Now, I never really bothered to look into the answers to why there is so much media about LGBTQ+ pride. How come we never read or hear about the same things having gone on in our parents or grandparents time, save for Woodstock? I mean, there’s typically a catalyst of some sort for every movement that really kicks it into motion so colour me surprised when I read up on the history behind gay pride month.

Why isnt there Straight Pride month?

Gay Americans living in the 1950s and 1960s faced an anti-gay legal system. Homosexual groups in the U.S. at that time sought to show that gay people could be assimilated into society, favouring non-confrontational education for homosexuals and heterosexuals alike.

There were very few establishments who welcomed gay people. The ones that did were usually bars, namely The Stonewall Inn. The Stonewall Inn was run by the Mafia, and was known to be popular among the poorest and most marginalized people in the gay community: butch lesbians, effeminate young men, drag queens, male prostitutes, and transgender people.. In the fall of 1959, the New York police force began closing down the city's gay bars, which had numbered almost two dozen in Manhattan at the beginning of the year.

The election of John Lindsay as mayor in 1965 signaled a major shift in NYC politics, and a new attitude toward sexual behaviors began changing the social atmosphere of New York.

On April 21, 1966, it was declared that it was illegal for homosexuals to congregate and be served alcoholic beverages in bars.

An example of when these laws had been upheld is when Gloria's, a bar that had been closed for such violations, fought the case in court and lost. Prior to this change in the law, the business of running a gay/lesbian bar would often involve paying bribes to the police and Mafia.

Regardless, most gay bars were quickly closed and new ones lasted only a short time. Despite police raids on gay bars being almost routine throughout the 1960s, officers quickly lost control of the situation at the Stonewall Inn on June 28, 1969.

Why isnt there Straight Pride month?

And so it began…

In the early hours of the morning, five uniformed police officers joined forces with four undercover police, who were already stationed inside the bar.

Because the patrol wagons responsible for transporting the arrested patrons and the alcohol from the bar took longer than expected, the raid did not go as planned. This little bit of extra time was all that was needed for a crowd of released patrons and by-standers to grow outside of the Inn. The crowd swelled as the night went on. So much so that the police officers eventually became so afraid of the crowd that they refused to leave the bar for up to 45 minutes!

The straw that broke the camel’s back in what had been building up for years was when a woman in handcuffs was escorted from the door of the bar to the waiting police wagon several times. She managed to get out of the wagon and proceeded to repeatedly fight with four of the police, swearing and shouting. Bystanders recalled that the woman sparked the crowd to fight when she looked at bystanders and shouted,

"Why don't you guys do something?!"

Why isnt there Straight Pride month?

After an officer picked her up and heaved her into the back of the wagon, the crowd became explosively violent.

As riots typically go, the more the police force tried to restrain some of the crowd, knowing a few people down, the more riled up bystanders became. The riots would go on to escalate to the point where the Tactical Police Force (TPF) of the New York City Police Department were called in to help free the police officers trapped inside the Stonewall.

Tensions between New York City police and gay residents of Greenwich Village erupted into more protests the next evening, and again several nights later. Within weeks, Village residents quickly organized into activist groups to concentrate efforts on establishing places for gay men and lesbians to be open about their sexual orientation without fear of being arrested.

After the Stonewall riots had quieted down, gay men and lesbians in New York City faced gender, race, class, and generational obstacles to finally being able to become a more cohesive community. Within six months, two gay activist organizations were formed in New York. A year after the uprising, to mark the anniversary on June 28, 1970, the first gay pride marches took place in New York, Los Angeles, and San Francisco. The anniversary of the riots was also commemorated in Chicago and similar marches were organized in other cities. Within a few years, gay rights organizations were founded across the U.S. and the world.

Google maps now provides a real-time tracker of gay-pride parades on a global level
Google maps now provides a real-time tracker of gay-pride parades on a global level

CUE LGBT PRIDE MONTH BEING CELEBRATED ON A GLOBAL LEVEL

LGBT Pride Month occurs in the United States to commemorate the Stonewall riots, which occurred at the end of June 1969. As a result, many pride events are held during this month to recognize the impact LGBT people have had in the world. Beginning in 2012, Google even displayed some LGBT-related search results with different rainbow-colored patterns each year during June. In 2017, Google also included rainbow coloured streets on Google Maps to display Gay Pride marches occurring across the world.

Why isnt there Straight Pride month?

So, back to the question- why is there no month or festivities celebrating being straight?

Because Congress has yet to pass a law requiring people to hide the fact they are straight. The streets are not filled with children who have been kicked out of their homes for being straight. It’s not the norm to see stories in the news in which someone has been beaten, tied to a fence and left to die or shot in the face at point blank range because they were straight.

Gay pride month may seem like a band-aid solution to raising more awareness for the LGBTQ+ community to many, but remember; it was the norm to be arrested for nothing more than belonging to such communities less than a century ago!

As a result, it seems pretty fitting that every liberty be celebrated.

Why isnt there Straight Pride month?

EDIT- the title was intended to be nothing more than click-bait. I was aware that there's no need to raise awareness for an orientation/gender-identity that is held by the majority. However, my curiosity definitely got the best of me when I heard many peers/coworkers asking the question in all seriousness. Hence, I took it upon myself to look into the history behind 'gay pride month' and learn more about what actual events were involved in how it came to be.

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  • Men who have sex with other men, whether they are gay or bisexual, are at a greater risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Nearly half of all new cases of HIV, for instance, are in gay and bisexual men. African American men carry the greatest burden. HIV is not the only risk and these men are also at risk for HPV, the human papilloma virus, which can cause cancer, and hepatitis. Syphilis, another sexually transmitted infection has also been on the rise in recent years, especially in large cities.

    • Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) have been rising among gay and bisexual men, with increases in syphilis being seen across the country. In 2014, gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men accounted for 83% of primary and secondary syphilis cases where sex of sex partner was known in the United States. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men often get other STDs, including chlamydia and gonorrhea infections. HPV (Human papillomavirus), the most common STD in the United States, is also a concern for gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men. Some types of HPV can cause genital and anal warts and some can lead to the development of anal and oral cancers. Gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men are 17 times more likely to get anal cancer than heterosexual men. Men who are HIV-positive are even more likely than those who do not have HIV to get anal cancer.

    • your reply isn't a response to the question itself

    • You're correct and a recent experienced highlighted how big the concern is. I went for a check-up at the end of last year, to check for any sexually transmitted diseases. What I found interesting was how many times the doctor wanted to confirm if I had sex with a man before the tests, he sought confirmation four different times. This is a medically trained expert, one of his main concerns was if I had been in a homosexual relationship. We encourage such behaviour that has serve health problems going forward.

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  • Let me ask you something. When were straight people denied marriage rights, the right to adopt children, harassed because they were straight, and denied many basic human rights. Pride month celebrates equality of gay people. Straight people were never oppressed, therefore you don't need a month.

    • Define mental illness. Also what makes you qualified to call someone mentally ill. Is it mental illness because this goes against your narrative? Because I've done both MRI/MRS of both straight and gay people and there are no structural differences beyond individual, differences. Furthermore scientific research, clinicians and nurse disagree with you. So I ask you again, beyond your own prejudice, what makes you an expert in mental health.

    • Also you made a mistake, I'm not gay, I'm à straight person of color. But being a person of color, I understand people denying you basic rights simply because of who you are.

    • .. I see the obvious sarcasm in the title went right over your head as you answered the question by copy-pasting the key points I made in the take.

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  • Because we don't need to go around screaming at people to feel good about ourselves. We're straight. That's the way we are and we don't have to brag about it. Gay pride marches are like vegans going around telling everyone that they're vegan. They can keep it to themselves.

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  • Every month is straight pride month...

    • Really? Never heard of straight pride month before...

    • My point obviously being that every month celebrates heterosexuality.

    • Every other month does not celebrate heterosexuality. Thats absolute nonsense. I've seen more heterosexuals celebrate gay pride than "Straight Pride"

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  • You answered your own Q, the point of the pride is to bring awareness for the people who sometimes are mistreated for who they are. Straight people rarely do as it is the norm in our society.

    • it was a rhetorical 'question'. Thanks for answering it again

  • All the other months are straight pride month.
    Not until straight people become the persecuted minority.



    We don't have wealthy ceo day as well, do we?

  • God created us man and woman, that’s the way it is. So we don’t have to be yelling people around the world: hey look at me I’m just as it was meant to be. And those people ask us to be tolerant about their believing and they’re the firsts to criticize us straight or catholic people. Things should equal as for them as for us. All tolerant and respectful of each other.

  • They should stand in line. They have not been discriminated against any more than the Jews have been. They really jewed that guy, or like with the Gypsies, being gypped. Indians too were discriminated against for a long time and still are in places. In fact so were Italians (wops, dagos), Chinese ( chinks or baby munchers ), we know what the Blacks went through. Mexicans (spics) , Russians (commies or cossaks) , Japanese ( Nips, Japs, Cheese Nip) - you get the picture. So why do gays think they deserve this entitlement over any other race, gender, or sexual preference that has been discriminated against? Do you see Japanese marching down the street with the rising sun flag? Or Russians with the hammer an sickle flag? So please, exactly why do they get all these rights straights and races get?

    Why isn't there Straight Pride month?
  • This was very well written. Thank you.

    And in the most recent Pride month, when everything was shut down. Did you notice that the LAGBTQ+ community came to the support of the BLM movement very rapidly?

    Because the timing so perfectly matched the struggles of late last century. The anniversary of Stonewall was coming up and LGBTQ+ groups on social media were broadcasting reminders of our struggles in the past and how people of color, having their own similar issues at the time, were quick to support the community in its rally against an oppressive authority.

    And the name Marsha P. Johnson was once again put on people's tongues. She was a self proclaimed drag queen, today she would probably use the term trans woman. And she was black.

  • Didn’t you know? Every month is straight pride month. The lgbt just sort of horn in on one of them.

    • the title was a click-bait. Though plenty of my friends asked me that in all seriousness so it actually spurred me to look into the history behind the whole LGBTQ+ movement

  • I'm never going to accept faggots and I'm always going to vehemently oppose the homosexual/transsexual movements.

    Homosexuality is a form of insanity, and it should be treated that way.

    It's like two lesbians eating one another's ass. Only an INSANE person would do that.

    • First, insanity is doing a repeating an action but expecting a, different result. Another definition of insanity includes the inability to conduct oneself due to psychosis or subject to uncontrollable impuslive behavior. How does attraction to the same sex differ from attraction to the opposite that aligns with the definition I presented. At best you could pseudo argue that it's not natural. I used pseudo argue because there are several cases of homosexuality in nature.

  • male and female created he ( God ) him ! male and female created he ( God ) them ! God destroyed Sodom and Ghmorah for their giving up the natural use of the women and the man ! when to of the same sex get come together sexually they will get sexually transmitted disease ! for God gave man a penis and a woman a vagina so that they could come together for a baby ! homos and lesbians can not have a baby and they know it ! thanks

  • I feel that ‘Pride’ is something you have that you’ve been discriminated against for having.
    Since straight people have NEVER been discriminated against for being straight, having a Straight Pride event is useless. If anything it’s proving how fragile your feelings are for not feeling included... which is exactly what the LGBTQ+ has been fighting for since their beginning; to feel included.

    If there ever is a Straight Pride anything, they deserve to be laughed at, they deserve to feel like shit when they do, because only then they’ll have an IDEA of what it’s like to live in the shoes of an LGBTQ+ 🏳️‍🌈 member.

  • Straight people have holidays already originally dedicated to them. Its the traditional way of life so why take pride in that? LGBT+ have fought for awareness and haven't stopped until laws were changed in favor of it. Thats what taking pride in is about, knowing you will be discriminated against but know you wouldn't want it any other way, because thats who you are. Same thing with black and minority pride. Its not the norm and hasn't been, thats why we fight.

  • Because parades are for people who feel they need to make a statement or we should. It makes them feel good... ok. Amazing how many there are... nature doesn't make sense sometimes.

  • You know June the month where you're supposed to be proud of how gay you are? Well, to be honest I don't have much to be proud about. For me they oughtta just call it shame month.

  • Being heterosexual was never a crime. Never a death sentence by hanging.
    Not even a public lynching offense has been recorded. I'm also going to guess more gay people will know the straight flag then straight people.

    So if the majority of strait people don't even recognize a symbolic flag pattern will they even participate in a day let alone a mouth? That's the whole point of making a day or a mouth of something, is participation.

  • Because we are all sitting around wondering "if everyone is supposed to be equal, why do all these groups need a parade to separate themselves from everyone else?"

  • Why would their be a straight pride month, straight people weren’t tortured and killed and mass murdered for wanting to love who they want. Pride month is about bringing awareness.

  • Actually i think there was one.. i can't remember though.

  • Love this post ❤️ I think it’s good to spread information that we were not taught in school normally because many people do not understand the struggle gay people went through to feel accepted. Being educated about these matters makes people more compassionate

  • None of those types of months/holidays should exist. Celebrate a handful of people who made major impacts on the evolution of a nation, period.

    Nobody is special solely for existing.

  • Because straight people have never had to fight for their right to get married.

    • Hmmm you can fight for something that doesn’t allow you to reproduce

    • They do it all the time when they trying to attract someone they love

    • But has it ever been illegal? Have straight people been persecuted on the streets for it?

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