FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

Let's explore what you need, desire, want and for some of us, crave ...yes, I said crave! :)

KINK DEFINITION: In human sexuality, kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" in one's sexual behavior, to contrast such behavior with "straight" or "vanilla" sexual mores and proclivities.

(NOTICE: Take the "KINK TEST" at the end of this myTake)

...but within GAG Guidelines
...but within GAG Guidelines

Do not proceed if this category of post is not for you ...you have been warned!!

FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

Here is one of my previous myTakes on...

Sexual Fetishes and Kinks

Now you will know the answer to...

You know you love these dont you?
You know you love these don't you?

You're going to just love this music video, after all ..."You're My, You're My, You're My Fetish!"...

Maybe we can whisper them into each others ear, softly :)
Maybe we can whisper them into each others ear, softly :)

(GAG Moderators ...there is no nudity or sex of any kind in any of these videos, I promise)

The Submissives Song ...why do I like this one so much? :) Click the "Watch on YouTube" link...

After all, I do live in Alabama yall :)
After all, I do live in Alabama y'all :)

Here is "THE MISTRESS" (for Lesbian Submissives) ...OMG!

(WARNING: SENSUAL EROTIC LESBIAN KINK ...enter at your own risk!)

FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

Five kink movies infinitely better than "50 Shades of Gray"...

FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

If you are new to BDSM kink, then this is the video for you! ...

We were kicked out of a Uber just for kissing ...Im not kidding! :(
We were kicked out of a Uber just for kissing ...I'm not kidding! :(

How to almost immediately recognize a Submissive ...yes, you read it right! ...are you one?

I confess, I am, but don't tell anybody :)

Another taboo kink fantasy some of us have :)
Another taboo kink fantasy some of us have :)

Here are 5 of the top 10 Kink Movies...

I love certain very naughty taboos, kinks and fetishes so much! ...OMG!
I love certain very naughty taboos, kinks and fetishes so much! ...OMG!

When did you first realize that you had a sexual kink? Listen to what others said...

...and would faint if they did :)
...and would faint if they did :)

And would any post about Fetishes and Kinks be complete without Rihanna's S&M music video? Answer ...NO CHANCE! :)

Yes! ...another southern girl ...lol
Yes! ...another southern girl ...lol

If you have kinks and fetishes, that means you're on the "BOARDERLINE" ...yes, it's true, you can no longer hide it! :) Listen...

OMG! ...you have got to be kidding me? What horse did you get this from? ...lol
OMG! ...you have got to be kidding me? What horse did you get this from? ...lol

Why do guys have this kink ...OMG! ...yes, you know who you are, and so do I, Listen ...

You know you have one, dont you?
You know you have one, don't you?

Now, take the...

KINK TEST

Don't tell anyone please but :) ...

Here's my results

FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

Now take the KINK TEST and post your result link, or results, in your comments.

FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)

How kinky are you? ...yes, I want to know! :)

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Most Helpful Guy


  • 100% Degrader
    100% Owner
    100% Brat Tamer
    100% Dominant
    100% Non-monogamist
    100% Rope Bunny
    100% Primal (Hunter)
    100% Switch
    100% Master/Mistress
    100% Pet
    94% Rigger
    92% Sadist
    90% Voyeur
    87.5% Submissive
    85% Swinger
    80% Primal (Prey)
    80% Brat
    73% Exhibitionist
    72.5% Slave
    71% Experimentalist
    70% Degradee
    70% Daddy/Mommy
    67.5% Masochist
    65% Girl/Boy
    50% Ageplayer
    28% Vanilla
    17.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean
    0% Findomme
    0% Pay Pig

    • Wow!

    • hehehe

    • Did you ever done balls busting or mix wrestling 🤼‍♀️ fantasy?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Hmmm...

    LOL!
    LOL!

    :)

    • WOW, Ms DD... you are a naughty one... OMG!! ... I love it! :)

    • Where is this test

    • @likelyOK Click on the link at the end of my post above that says "KINK TEST"

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  • My results:

    87% Daddy/Mommy

    86% Non-monogamist

    82% Rigger

    65.5% Master/Mistress

    61.5% Brat Tamer

    55% Dominant

    51% Ageplayer

    50% Vanilla

    50% Experimentalist

    44% Degrader

    44% Owner

    43% Primal (Hunter)

    30% Findomme

    22% Sadist

    13% Switch

    12% Pay Pig

    8% Rope Bunny

    7% Degradee

    7% Masochist

    7% Brat

    6% Exhibitionist

    5.5% Slave

    5% Girl/Boy

    4% Primal (Prey)

    3% Submissive

    3% Swinger

    2% Cuckold / Cuckqean

    2% Voyeur

    1% Pet.

    https://www.kinktest.org/result/5fbf800b41e22b63bd9767d0

    • Nice, thank you for sharing :)

    • Thanks for an interesting post. I like your kink, DM me :)

  • I already had 3 of the 5 "better alternatives to 50 Shades" movies in my collection. LOL.

    Is it bad that I also know where most of the clips from the Jerk It Out video came from?

    • No, that's good! :)

    • Top not Take as always, Laurie. And lots of good songs too. Something tells me that you're on some kind of a list or thread where people post hot-chick music videos. And since I'm not... thanks for sharing!

    • I am so happy that you like and it suits your fancy Mr O, thank you!

  • this is my test results

    100% Exhibitionist

    100% Rigger

    100% Voyeur

    100% Non-monogamist

    95% Switch

    94% Swinger

    93% Rope Bunny

    90% Dominant

    90% Experimentalist

    89% Cuckold / Cuckqean

    88% Brat Tamer

    87% Master/Mistress

    86% Slave

    85% Degrader

    82% Submissive

    81% Masochist

    81% Brat

    80% Primal (Hunter)

    75% Primal (Prey)

    75% Findomme

    74% Owner

    73% Degradee

    72.5% Sadist

    61% Vanilla

    55% Girl/Boy

    34% Daddy/Mommy

    32% Pet

    30% Pay Pig

    27% Ageplayer

    • WOW!! :)

    • 96% Non-monogamist 94% Swinger 84% Submissive 82% Voyeur 79% Experimentalist 76% Degradee 70.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean 69% Exhibitionist 69% Slave 47% Rope Bunny 43% Girl/Boy 35.5% Masochist 32% Brat 31% Degrader 25% Ageplayer 23% Daddy/Mommy 21.5% Pet 18% Primal (Prey) 18% Switch 16.5% Sadist 12% Vanilla 10% Owner 5% Dominant 3% Rigger 2.5% Brat Tamer 1% Primal (Hunter) 0% Findomme 0% Pay Pig 0% Master/Mistress

    • WOW!

  • Majority of those questions were weird. I only enjoyed the public sex questions

    FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)
    • Im actually only dominant during foreplay

    • Nice! Thank you for sharing your results with us Ms DD! :)

  • 80% Voyeur

    74% Swinger

    72% Non-monogamist

    64% Brat

    62% Experimentalist

    56% Exhibitionist

    56% Switch

    49% Vanilla

    43.5% Rope Bunny

    43% Primal (Prey)

    40.5% Slave

    38% Submissive

    36% Daddy/Mommy

    35% Ageplayer

    29% Rigger

    28% Girl/Boy

    28% Primal (Hunter)

    22% Degrader

    22% Dominant

    20% Owner

    19% Brat Tamer

    18.5% Masochist

    17% Degradee

    14% Pet

    12% Sadist

    10% Pay Pig

    6.5% Master/Mistress

    5.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean

    0% Findomme

    • Oh Wow! ... I should have known! You are such a Kinky One! ... lol

  • I found this test confusing honestly but here's what I got:
    77% Girl/Boy
    72% Experimentialist
    51% Ageplayer
    50.5% Slave
    49% Rope Bunny
    49% Submissive
    46% Switch
    35% Brat
    29% Mommy/Daddy
    23% Degradee
    22% Vanilla
    20% non-monogamist
    19% Primal (prey)
    15.5% Pet
    11.5% Masochist
    10% Owner
    7.5% Dominant
    6% Exhibitionist
    2.5% cuckold/cuckquean
    2% Primal (hunter)
    I personally think it's much easier to explain myself than a test asking me in the long run. If some were asked differently some percentages might be higher possibly. Other reasons would me being unsure about something, therefore a lower percent or half.

  • I guess I"m not very kinky according to the kink test.
    I'll bind a woman's arms/wrists if she want to be taken hard.
    I'll play a rapist if she want.
    It's fun when a woman dresses up in role play costumes and acts like an innocent girl.
    I like to spank a woman's bare ass with my hand and make her wriggle/struggle from the sting. I like to see her butt cheeks turn red.
    I like to stick a vibrating dildo up her ass while I fuck her from behind.
    I like giving and receiving extended foreplay from head to toe.
    I like giving and receiving oral.
    Mainly, I like to fuck the snot out of a women. Take control and use her pussy hard in every conceivable position. I like to make her orgasm until she bucks, writhes and quivers and her insides tremble.

    But I'm not into pis, shit or BDSM.

    • Yes! :)

    • LOL.

  • I can definitely say I don't 100% know the meanings of all the phrases though I can take a good guess

    FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)FETISH vs KINK - you know who you are... and so do I :)
    • Brat I'm guessing is how much you misbehave, no idea what rigger, degredee (unless that's the opposite of degrading) is though and pay pig is how much you enjoy taking care of someone's finances

  • 82% Rigger
    67% Experimentalist
    54% Primal (Hunter)
    52% Sadist
    50.5% Brat Tamer
    50.5% Rope Bunny
    47% Degrader
    41.5% Dominant
    36.5% Non-monogamist
    36% Masochist
    35% Switch
    34% Degradee
    34% Daddy/Mommy
    29% Vanilla
    21% Owner
    21% Submissive
    20% Primal (Prey)
    20% Brat
    20% Master/Mistress
    16% Ageplayer
    14% Exhibitionist
    14% Cuckold / Cuckqean
    11% Girl/Boy
    10.5% Pet
    8% Slave
    5% Findomme
    4% Pay Pig
    3% Swinger
    2% Voyeur

    Sounds about right, I love sexual games and bondage, but mainly I have a latex fetish

    • Nice, thank you for sharing! :)

  • This this is cool and I don't care who you are if your honest you have kinks and maybe Fetishes I have both I love exploring both and wish i could fi d someone to explore them with because they are hot beautiful and sexy lol

  • I'm a switch and a freak for sure.

    100% Rigger
    100% Owner
    100% Primal (Prey)
    100% Dominant
    100% Rope Bunny
    100% Slave
    100% Submissive
    100% Switch
    100% Brat
    100% Master/Mistress
    95% Cuckold / Cuckqean
    95% Non-monogamist
    95% Primal (Hunter)
    93% Pet
    90% Degrader
    87.5% Brat Tamer
    85% Masochist
    85% Sadist
    80% Degradee
    70% Girl/Boy
    70% Daddy/Mommy
    68% Experimentalist
    59% Swinger
    52% Voyeur
    39% Vanilla
    20% Ageplayer
    19% Exhibitionist
    0% Findomme
    0% Pay Pig

    • OMG!!

    • Is it that bad? I was hard AF the whole time taking the quiz. It was fun lol.

    • No, it's not bad. I think you must be a very intense and focused sex partner and ultra kinky :)

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  • This is my most recent one.
    This is my most recent one.

  • 100% Non-monogamist 100% Findomme 100% Brat 98% Rope Bunny 94% Primal (Hunter) 92% Rigger 92% Experimentalist 88% Girl/Boy 88% Submissive 85% Masochist 85% Sadist 84% Exhibitionist 82.5% Pet 80% Primal (Prey) 78% Degradee 77% Degrader 73% Brat Tamer 65.5% Slave 64% Ageplayer 56% Voyeur 53% Cuckold / Cuckqean 50% Pay Pig 48.5% Dominant 39% Vanilla 36% Master/Mistress 35% Switch 30% Swinger 18% Owner 17% Daddy/Mommy

    • Wow, you are kinkier than I would have imagined... :)

    • yuh 😉

  • 73% Vanilla

    60% Pay Pig

    36% Rope Bunny

    35% Exhibitionist

    35% Daddy/Mommy

    32% Voyeur

    31% Slave

    27.5% Submissive

    23% Ageplayer

    23% Girl/Boy

    19% Owner

    19% Experimentalist

    18% Degradee

    17.5% Dominant

    15% Primal (Prey)

    13% Switch

    13% Brat

    12.5% Masochist

    12% Degrader

    12% Rigger

    11% Primal (Hunter)

    8.5% Brat Tamer

    7.5% Sadist

    6% Pet

    4.5% Master/Mistress

    3.5% Cuckold / Cuckqean

    0% Non-monogamist

    0% Findomme

    0% Swinger
    so I’m vanilla

  • Where's the kink for money, cigars and snow?
    I can't find it.

  • Interesting... So there is a difference 🤔 I've heard both and I guess I just thought they were both the same 🤷

    • Yes, one is a must have to preform and the other is just a strong like or desire :)

  • I know my kinks rank pretty low, if they rank at all. But if you want to kick off my base, primal, subliminal excitement... you can't go wrong with:

    1. Lingerie. Relax, im just starting. Haha! Silk stockings, pantyhose, heels, corsets.

    2. Age play. Reserved to older women, younger men. I spent my 20s and early 30s trying to dive as deep as i could in the Mrs. Robinson pool.

    3. Race play. But reserved only to white man, black woman situations. Dont ask me why, or what the difference is.

    If we all sat around trying to explain why we like what we like, nobody would ever fuck.

    A lot of this stuff is pretty tame and/or mainstream. But i couldnt care less. As with most things pertaining to sexuality, it is what it is.

    • Good answer :)

    • Thank you, sweetheart

  • I gotta try all of those with my partner when we have our own place right now we are living with his parents, sister and her husband sooo I can't really go all out with my boyfriend. Which is a shame because I want to show him just how kinky I can get :P

    • 100% Rigger 100% Primal (Prey) 100% Pay Pig 100% Rope Bunny 100% Switch 100% Brat 95% Brat Tamer 95% Dominant 90% Submissive 80% Voyeur 80% Experimentalist 70% Girl/Boy 70% Daddy/Mommy 65% Masochist 65% Slave 65% Master/Mistress 65% Pet 60% Degrader 60% Owner 60% Primal (Hunter) 50% Degradee 40% Ageplayer 30% Exhibitionist 28% Vanilla 20% Non-monogamist 15% Cuckold / Cuckqean 15% Sadist 0% Findomme 0% Swinger

    • Does this mean that I have a problem 🤔

    • OMG! ... are you serious with those scores? I have never seen such a thing! One guy had 100% on one of them and I thought that was over the top! ... OMG!! ... no wonder you are anxious to get him alone... I hope he survives! ... lol

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  • I don't do anonymous; I have one that's been building in my mind that I've never shared with anyone. Would have to be the right gal & clean. I'd love to get a foxtail & put it in her ass & work her like she's never been worked before :) I wouldn't enjoy it unless she was really into it. The types I usually date would look at me like I was crazy if I suggested it :p I'd love to experiment fucking the shit out of her while trying to stimulate that G-spot with the foxtail plug. Perhaps I'm a bit deviant but I have my dark side like everyone else :)

  • I like the video of Jessi Malay Fetish so much That I I just order the CD
    Plus my crossdressing is a kink and not a fetish. I was wrong all these years

    • Nice! ... we all learn something new every day :)

    • Well I now had the time to take the test. Here are my results 86% Switch 77% Primal (Prey) 72% Rope Bunny 66% Swinger 64% Experimentalist 62.5% Non-monogamist 59.5% Submissive 56% Brat 45.5% Dominant 45.5% Slave 44% Masochist 42% Rigger 40% Degradee 35% Master/Mistress 33.5% Sadist 33% Primal (Hunter) 32% Brat Tamer 32% Pay Pig 32% Girl/Boy 27% Vanilla 23% Owner 23% Pet 21% Degrader 19% Cuckold / Cuckqean 19% Daddy/Mommy 13% Exhibitionist 6% Ageplayer 5% Findomme 0% Voyeur

    • Nice! ... thank you for participating in my survey :)

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