Reason 1: Because it's forever.
Let's face it. If I down down on my husband and he enjoys it which he of course will, what you think is going to happen? He'll ask it every time we decide to have sex for rest of our life until one of us eventually dies. It's not what I and most of women want. I usually want to try things, but only foe short period of time. However, with one night stand or for short term relation, I know it's only one time thing, once we're done with each other we don't have to see each other
Reason 2 : We really want that image of our self in mind of someone we truly love.
This might not make any sense to lot of guys but we really do want to have a slutty image for a long time. I do not want my husband to see me with cum all over my face, I really don't. Specially because we are going to be together forever and he's going to be father of my kids. I don't want him to think that he's giving birth to his kids with some slut.
Reason 3: Being a wife is lot more work than being a girlfriend.
As a wife, to take care of house, job, laundry, food and all the other important things in EXHAUSTING. There's no way no can have energy for sex after taking care of everything. But as a girlfriend, we don't have to do anything. Sex is literally the only way to pass time. And eventually the boredom of vanilla sex gets you to do whatever the crazy things we watch in movie.
Reason 4: To be honest, giving away sex to hubby is not really a good strategy
I know all you guys are going to disagree with me here but trust me. We know you better than you know yourself. And I see it all the time, I seems like only way to keep Mr. Hubby down to earth is to withdraw sex for few days and that's the only way to get things done. If I'll do every crazy thing with him, he'll eventually get bored of me and I'll loose all of my non existential mystery.
Reason 5: Most of my boyfriends never took permission.
This one might sound crazy or maybe borderline rape but it's not and I'm sure every guy can relate to it. Hubby cannot force himself on me, so that's one advantage woman have, and if he does he'll be in big trouble because no wife will let it go without telling each and every relative and friend about him. And it's a good thing. In that way husband and wife respect each other's space. But when it comes to ONS or short term boyfriend, they usually don't have consequences of forcing themselves on us, in a good way of course, And I personally used to love it. One of my boyfriend literally used to wake me up sometimes by slapping his dick on my face and no matter how annoyed I was or how angry it made me, I usually used to end up going down on him in shower right after a silly fight.
But for god's sake I cannot allow my husband the same freedom. I don't think any women would be stupid enough to sign for that thing. Imagine waking up every morning and first thing you see is a dick.
Reason 6: Husband's have duty to take care of his wife and respect her, but boyfriends don't.
That's it. Husbands are suppose to take responsibility, that's the reason I chose to marry. And boyfriends on other hand, they are just practice husbands. It's just a demo of married life with extra benefits.
Reason 7: Guys who are int one night stand and short terms take care of themselves.
It's not my fault. Most of husbands are just lazy and very low on energy. I literally think that he should be lucky I'm sleeping next to him. It's just impossible to be aroused by such a man. But ONS's are different, It's actually opposite. They are so big and intimidating they it's impossible tot say NO to them. Is it even possible to to say no to them? I don't think so. And like I previously said, this kind of guys don't usually ask, they just take it. All I can do is realized net morning that I've made a mistake.
That's it. I hope everyone will understand it and learn from it. Being a wife is totally different and mostly opposite than being a girlfriend.
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