Guys, STOP being scared of "looking gay"

I've had a few conversations on here with some guys who seem pretty scared about looking gay over something ridiculous and it gets really old. Almost like they're afraid to even look a man in the eyes, like geez chill the fuck out. I love dominant straight men, but that doesn't mean you're not a "manly man" or straight if you show even an ounce of affection towards someone of the same gender. Showing your sensitive side is just as important as showing your "tough" side.

Guys, STOP being scared of looking gay
Oh wow! The picture above shows two men (Piers and Simon) hugging, WITH CHEEKS TOUCHING!!!! Omigodddd so crazy right??? What comes next, anal sex!?? No, no it's not crazy. Smfh
<3 Yes, that is Piers Morgan hugging Simon Cowell <3
<3 Yes, that is Piers Morgan hugging Simon Cowell <3
Girls do it all the time, and I know it is different to you guys, but I'm not saying you have to go to the extreme and give each other pedicures and do each others hair ( even I would be a little weirded out) but hugging, putting and arm around a friend, *laying your head on their shoulder*, and things along those lines, DON'T LOOK GAY. Okay?

You know, you seem 10x more gay and afraid to say it when you act so "freaked out" when something affectionate happens towards men rather than just shrugging it of and being cool about it. Did you know that? Like the dad in "American Beauty". He HATED gays, and turns out, he tries to kiss Kevin Spacey in the end because turns out, he was gay! But Kevin wasn't so he shot Kevin to keep him from spilling the beans. Not saying you'd go to that extreme lmao, but still.

Guys, STOP being scared of looking gay

My point is clear, just chill out.

Guys, STOP being scared of looking gay
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No woman wants to date you if other people think you look gay. Its not up to guys, but up to women to care too much about how other people see a given guy.

    • Dude, even flamboyantly gay men get mistaken as straight on occasion. Lots of women have crushes on gay men. Seeming gay isn't a problem for dating.

  • Let me just say I’m straight but I’d give a bro or another man a hug any day. I’d say stupid hey shit that seems weird I couldn’t care less.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't know who you're hanging out with, but most guys I know (or guys comfortable in their sexuality) don't give this much thought at all.

  • Eww Pierce Morgan

    • PIERS WITH AN S, and why eww?

    • I don't like him, he's annoying, plus he's not attractive.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Should see the boys lockeroom at school. The gayist, yet straightest things happen there. Lmao

  • Reading this is a bit too gay for me, sorry.

  • Amen to that!

  • I’m fine with it.

  • This post is a little gay. I'm outta here

    • Lmao

  • I'm not afraid of it