Exchanging Nudes

A lot of opinions have been posted on the sending of nude pictures of oneself. Included is a lot of shaming and forming of opinions of the morality of the person. I want to point out a few things that I think should be considered.

Exchanging Nudes

First, there are a lot of guys sending out unsolicited dick pics. That is bad and I hope common sense can agree with that. There are also some women that do that, though the guys are not complaining like the women are. But I am making the point that women also do that.

Second, the guys wanting pictures are often offensive in the way they ask, and the way they repetitively ask. And for many women, asking just once is terrible. If a guy asks his girlfriend, that is a matter between them, not a guy asking all girls. But what about guys asking on here?

Age is important!

Lots of guys are hitting up underage gals. Often it is by simply saying
"PM me" after a conversation that is obviously leading to this topic. Often the gals are considerably under age. For instance a 13 year old girl states she is sexually active and that she sends nude pictures. Suddenly several guys ranging in age from teens to 60's is requesting a private message session. The proof of what they say (and send) is hidden from the rest of us. So I don't know how to stop that. Perhaps suggestions could be considered by the admins.

But what about older?

Women enjoying looking at naked men at Naked Bike Ride
Women enjoying looking at naked men at Naked Bike Ride

For those of legal age, how serious is the problem? Many here are shaming all the men for wanting to see nude photos. Often they also shame the women for showing them. Watching the things that are shared on here, you can see guys getting chastised for asking for nudes from women who are good looking. But go back and look again. I see many women asking other women for nude photos. Often it is not an outright question, but is stated like "I would love to see your breasts/butt/whatever without clothes." Many more than I would have expected. My point here is that many women are just as forward as the men in requesting nude photos. Yet I never see them "shamed" for it.

Exchanging Nudes

And on the topic of shaming, what is so bad about it? If someone is an exhibitionist and enjoys showing their body, so what? This is not the place to either show or to get into the advertising of it. But discussing preferences and kinks are common here. If someone expresses that they are an exhibitionist, they should not be shamed for it. And if someone privately asks to see them, no one is being hurt. It is obvious from conversations on here that many people are sharing nudes, and neither those who show nor those who look are hurting anyone.

What about How Do I Look?

Many of the photos posted are to show sexual features and get judgements. To get more attention and higher marks, many women are pushing the boundaries of what is permitted. And the biggest problem is that GAG does not seem to understand its own rules. Not so long ago it seemed that genitals and female nipples and areolas were "out of bounds". So a completely nude woman shown from the back was okay. Over the years many photos of naked women with the pubic area blocked out and the nipples and areolas blocked were allowed to stay up. Recently I have noticed some of those photos being hidden. Perhaps the problem is "What are the rules?" When I look in the FAQ I do not find an exact rule for this. And what exactly is "explicit" when selecting a "crime" when reporting a post? And a completely different question - how does a picture of the bread you baked qualify as "How Do I Look?"

Stop the Shaming.

I think there would be less arguments and more peaceful conversations if people would stop the shaming. If you are asked about your thoughts on nakedness, answer politely or do not answer. if you see something that is against the rules, politely mention it or report it.

Conclusion

The parties who are exchanging nudes are enjoying sexual pleasures from doing so, but not involving others. And their methods of sexual enjoyment are far safer than hooking up with strangers. I enjoy looking at naked women. But I also know many on here who share naked photos with others, and I have never seen them. But I still respect their choice of pleasure and their right to do so.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I like naked video chat. It's more interactive and still safe as long as there is trust and respect. For me, it has been very educational and wonderful to video chat with a woman, for us to be able to see one another's body, not shame one another, ask questions about one another's body, how it functions sexually, what feels best, and to see one another cum if it gets to that point. There can be and has been a genuine appreciation and adoration for the other person and to be able to share the experience. TO keep it educational, respectful, and even a little clinical keeps it grounded and both people mature enough about it to not shame one another but rather to relax and just enjoy a session and learn about the body of the opposite together in a constructive and safe manner.

    Also, I 100% agree about the underage stuff. People need to follow the law and be careful to make sure that both engaging are adults. We have a responsibility to protect minors from this and to be alert enough to see to it that children are not being exploited or exposed to sexual things online.

    • Finding someone that you can combine arousal with education is wonderful!

    • Yes, indeed. I love it :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • There’s no harm in that, I’m proud and happy to show off my body. It doesn’t matter if I’m nude or partially nude. Bodies are beautiful.

    • You are right. No harm in that. If you want to show off your body, go for it! From what little we can see from your profile picture, I am figuring the rest of you is sizzling hot!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I hate that I can't legally share nudes. I spend like 90% of my life naked, meaning i can't post anything picture wise about me or my life anywhere because it would be sharing underage nudes. Its a really unfair law :(

    • It is for protection of young people, but it does not always seem fair. If you would like me to share more on why, pleas follow me so that I can message you.

    • Oh im well aware of all the arguments about protecting kids. But what about all of those like me that are more than aware of all of that and still want to be able to post that kind of stuff anyway? Im more than capable of consenting to pretty much anything and have been for a long time. And almost everyone I've met my age is as well. I dont need protecting like that.

    • As i said, give me a follow and we can get deeper into it.

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  • If I send a nude of myself over the web, the areas of interest will be appropriately concealed with my photo editor program. I won't waist my time pixilating, since I know how too restore resolution on pixilated photo's, and if I can do it, anyone can.

  • I don't think it's moral or prude arguments, just don't send anything u wouldn't want ur grandmother or mother or boss seeing one day. If ur happy for them to see it, go for it, cuz once it is in the hands of someone else all it can take is an argument and the wrong person for it to end up on the internet, and then u can not undo it.

  • To us no problems at all whatsoever.

  • It has potential to be very dangerous. Must be done with careful consideration and acknowledging the possible consequences

  • I'm totally fine with it, just not on this site and only If I feel I can trust the other person.

  • Amen Brother!!! 😎👍

  • I've done some.

  • I'm up for it

    • Right me too!!

    • Right!! I’m up for it too.

    • Cool, feel free to message me.

  • Exchanging Nudes

    Me too... hello ladies...

  • Sending nudes is not a wise idea anyways.