Exhibitionism is commonly listed among the top-ten fantasies for men, women, and couples. It is certainly one of mine. My cursory exploration of this kink revealed psychological underpinnings that ranged from playful, non-threatening behaviors.
Many of us may have a bit of an exhibitionist streak running through us. Me, myself, have worn something that accentuates my curves, reveals a bit of cleavage, or is in someway more revealing than what I wear in my day-to-day life.
Considering my photo above, there are circumstances where I could be wearing far less and it would be seen as more socially acceptable.
Wearing our clothes in a revealing way is one form of exhibitionism. On another level, individuals experience exhibitionism through nudity and self-pleasuring or as a couple through nudity and sex when others may be watching. Do you find yourself aroused thinking about being intimate with your lover in a public space where you may be seen or “caught”? This is one of the most common fantasies couples have and the one most often made a reality.
Some exhibitionist find great pleasure in the potential for arousing the viewer. Sex with the viewer isn’t necessarily the objective. Rather, the exhibitionist finds it hot knowing that someone may not only be watching but also getting turned on. This aspect resonates deeply within me and makes up a big part of what I often refer to as the “erotic swirl” and “mind fuck” in my writing.
Moreover, I typically write them in the present tense so you have the sensation of being in the room as a voyeur as the moment unfolds. I want you to feel it…I want to turn you on. Your excitement turns me on and we both become immersed in an erotic swirl.
What would make someone an exhibitionist?
If you’re curious if you are an exhibitionist, here are some things that could mean you enjoy this type of kink.
- Sharing nude photos with your partner while they’re at work.
- Encouraging your partner to go shopping for lingerie with you.
- Engaging in public sex where you could potentially be caught
- Engaging in public sex at a sex club where watching is encouraged.
- Inviting a third person over to watch you have sex and/or masturbate.
For me, I haven't done much as an exhibitionist or to full fill my fantasies, for now what I had done was just taking videos for pictures of myself, or masturbating in front of my windows. I did try anonymous camming once but i found it to be a little risky lol.
Anyway, I wrote this mytake not only just to state myself for people who dont understand, but also to help other who are still lost like i was in the past!
Thank you for understanding!