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I'm into Exhibitionism

Exhibitionism is commonly listed among the top-ten fantasies for men, women, and couples. It is certainly one of mine. My cursory exploration of this kink revealed psychological underpinnings that ranged from playful, non-threatening behaviors.

Many of us may have a bit of an exhibitionist streak running through us. Me, myself, have worn something that accentuates my curves, reveals a bit of cleavage, or is in someway more revealing than what I wear in my day-to-day life.

want me to go further?
want me to go further?

Considering my photo above, there are circumstances where I could be wearing far less and it would be seen as more socially acceptable.

Wearing our clothes in a revealing way is one form of exhibitionism. On another level, individuals experience exhibitionism through nudity and self-pleasuring or as a couple through nudity and sex when others may be watching. Do you find yourself aroused thinking about being intimate with your lover in a public space where you may be seen or “caught”? This is one of the most common fantasies couples have and the one most often made a reality.

will you let me ride you?
will you let me ride you?

Some exhibitionist find great pleasure in the potential for arousing the viewer. Sex with the viewer isn’t necessarily the objective. Rather, the exhibitionist finds it hot knowing that someone may not only be watching but also getting turned on. This aspect resonates deeply within me and makes up a big part of what I often refer to as the “erotic swirl” and “mind fuck” in my writing.

Moreover, I typically write them in the present tense so you have the sensation of being in the room as a voyeur as the moment unfolds. I want you to feel it…I want to turn you on. Your excitement turns me on and we both become immersed in an erotic swirl.

What would make someone an exhibitionist?

If you’re curious if you are an exhibitionist, here are some things that could mean you enjoy this type of kink.
You love...

  • Sharing nude photos with your partner while they’re at work.
  • Encouraging your partner to go shopping for lingerie with you.
  • Engaging in public sex where you could potentially be caught
  • Engaging in public sex at a sex club where watching is encouraged.
  • Inviting a third person over to watch you have sex and/or masturbate.
tell me what you see
tell me what you see

For me, I haven't done much as an exhibitionist or to full fill my fantasies, for now what I had done was just taking videos for pictures of myself, or masturbating in front of my windows. I did try anonymous camming once but i found it to be a little risky lol.

Spread the love ;)
Spread the love ;)

Anyway, I wrote this mytake not only just to state myself for people who dont understand, but also to help other who are still lost like i was in the past!

Thank you for understanding!

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  • Well expressed! You have had the desire to be seen and arouse others for quite some time. You have a body that can do that, but you go beyond just showing your body if you look for ways to excite the viewers. You have expressed concern that your body is not as great as others. But you seem to now realize that your body appeals to many people, and those it does not appeal to do not matter! There are many ways a woman can excite others, and I am sure you will discover those ways. You have many options to do so while still a virgin.
    When you find a guy to have sexual adventures with, if he is into this also, many more ways of showing and exciting become obvious. You may choose to travel those directions, or not. But it sounds like you are happy with what you are doing, and you are learning that you are even more sexually exciting to theirs than you realized! Build your self confidence and enjoy your sexuality. And stay safe!

    • Thank you and i will

    • Thank you for MHGuy. 😀

  • The fact you're aware of it makes it even more amazing.
    I noticed you enjoy showing body parts as long as your face is hidden away. But the way you put it makes you even more interesting.
    And your body goes without saying as a majestic sight so no complaints on the visuals either.

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  • I get turned on by the thought of public nudity and getting caught but I don't actually want to be seen by anyone other than my boyfriend. Like I will flash my boyfriend and the thought of some random seeing is hot but I always make sure that no one is looking.

  • Excellent myTake Ms Luna!

    Thank you for sharing and for your honestly on such a personal and sometimes difficult subject to convey. You did a great job!

    • Thank you!

    • You're welcome :) Now that you have made me horny I need someone to help or my vibrator. That could be another myTake... lol

    • Lol its my pleasure if i could turn you on 😂

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  • I'm intrigued by your statement "I did try anonymous camming once but i found it to be a little risky"...

    Exhibitionism can be great fun, but how do you manage risk and keep it safe? What if the viewer doesn't share your notion of boundaries? What if you're unlucky enough to be seen by a rapist?

    Surely being anonymous online means you're less at risk of things like stalking, rape, STI's, and unplanned pregnancies, and you stay in control?

  • I have always liked wearing revealing clothes, especially shirts. It is exciting for me to wear a skirt and no panties. Shirts with no bra.

    I'm into Exhibitionism

    I tease bending over wearing a half-top shirt !

    • Nice boob shot.

    • @Wise4myage THANK-YOU ! That is sort of what I mean by wearing revealing ,, a half-top shirt. And shoping, and getting something off the bottom shelf, guys have a habit of stopping and looking at me, but pretending to be looking for something on a shelf.

  • Lol, I'm guessing I would likely fall into that category myself. I'm not in any porn either, and I don't share any nude pics online, but I'm not shy about dressing in a way that shows off my body. I'm in excellent shape due to my daily workout regimen, and I take great pride in my looks and body, so short miniskirts or dresses and a frequent lack of at least some undergarments is the norm for me. I have on occasion visited an "optional" beach, and at times engaged in some public naughtiness, whether it be touchy-feely or sex and fortunately my boyfriend is a willing participant in my exploits. I'm guessing both you and I would describe ourselves as comfortable in our sexuality and proud of our "feminine virtues", so it's all good!!

  • I like tour take on this. I've always thought there is more to showing your body off than just "less clothes more skin"

  • Excellent MyTake @Luna1998 - there are many of us who who get a sexual buzz out of being seen semi-naked or fully naked by the (opposite) gender, either in public places eg clothing optional beaches, massage spas, being brazilian waxed by female therapists, to name a few --

    -- or in sharing pics/videos online (as long as the receiver has said it's ok to send them)

    It's kind of a shame there can't be a restricted section on GaG (perhaps requiring an initial enrolment + special password) for those who would like to post + see such pics to be able to do so.

    How much more of yourself would you be prepared to reveal if there was such a section?

  • I think it's very sexy. I have had sex in public places it is very exciting. I've given bloowjobs on the highway in the taco bell drive through line. Played under the covers with other people in the room. I get very turned on knowing I'm wanted right now and the feeling of getting caught. Very sexy pics. 📷

  • Good for you :)

  • I have had sex in public 4 times and every time it felt amazing I felt so dirty and free!! So did both of my partners!

  • very cool my take. and i enjoy many of what you wrote about. very erotic fun :)

  • Some people can sometimes become insecure and may start doubting if they are even normal/sane, when they discover about their kinks initially.

    Thank you for sharing your experience to help others :)

  • Years ago I owned a home with a nearby neighbor had a useless good for nothing 50-something your old son living with him. One day my then fiancé were in my kitchen getting hot and heavy and I pick her up upon the counter top, entering her. As I look beyond her should I see this pick watching us through my back window. I tell my fiancé and we both say at the same moment, “Let’s give him a show...” Fucker watched the entire time we remained there. We did move onto my bedroom to continue but I’ll never forget that moment.


    Same gal, she enjoyed performing oral sex upon me while driving down the freeway. Giving a show to the truck drivers so to speak. We received our number of thumbs up, honks, and waves. Nothing like seeing a semi swerve into you for a better/closer view while trying to bot crash yourself... Numerous times we would pull over and just go at it. Once over the hood next to a campground we could see in the distance. We definitely led a healthy sex life whilst we lasted.

  • Most women wear revealing dress. I won't mind if my cleavage is seen in public.

  • You got such a nice body and yes thank you for showing those goods

  • I'm a nudist, but I have some exhibitionist tendencies also

  • Nice mytake Luna!^_^👍🏼

  • Wow your skin so nice

  • I love being risky in public

  • Sometimes in darkness, I get naked, 8 in soft, swinging, balls low, all for everyone to see! If close enough, suck, and lick and suck more. They drive slowly by, looking, lips wet, tongues dripping, balls hanging! Look, see what I've got? Ans he has a lot, hairy, big and throbbing. I want everyone to see this, jesus, my dicks huge. They walk up in the night, before I know, two lapping tongues dance won my huge balls, I turn off the porch light, lay down. In 1 minute 4 tongues are tasting everything hanging., Sucking and licking, i cum, another round lines up to lick my balls, in 30 minutes I aquirt 5 un into the mouth of my teacher! I almost blacked out. But its all still there , huge dick and balls. Someone srarts licking , I dont worry about heaven, my most private places are being sucked. All night long.

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