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Why I gave up masturbating

When I gave up masturbating I didn't think I could handle the relentless urge of my sexual desires and some days they feel overwhelming. My penis swells, red and throbbing with desire, craving the relief of sex and orgasm. But I think this pleasure should be reserved for sex. When I stopped masturbating I felt more like a man, less of a boy. When I look at a woman I feel a sense of confidence, knowing my potential to fulfil her with my manhood - if she desires it. I feel I have more control over my body - of being able to choose if I want sex. I feel free from the endless cycle of masturbation, the compulsive urge for instant gratification.

On the physical side I feel more energised. The sexual desire sublimates into a physical need to run or swim or physical exercise. As a result I look and feel better, so I feel more confident with women.

My erections are harder and more frequent. I wake in the morning with a rock hard erection. I'm not having sex at the moment - so I go out for a long run. I feel the energy flowing through my body - it feels good, legs full of blood, I feel my chest expanding, it feels like I'm on fire. My balls also look bigger - or I feel they are, because I am not discharging sperm frequently, or because I am more aroused. My balls are sensitive, full of sperm and sex hormones, feeling them hanging from my groin, knowing that I am in control of my. body and that I have a full load of sperm makes me feel manly.

I'm married and I think that a married man should fulfil his sexual needs with his wife. I think marriage is about joining two people and part of that is that they are free to have sex together. Masturbation seems childish when I am married and have a wife to make love to. Making love to a woman and ejaculating into her is a manly thing to do and it honours her. When I ejaculate it is so I can plant my sperm and I honour the woman by making love to her and planting my sperm in her. We are not having sex because of some difficulties - it is hard to bear. But I don't masturbate because I want to keep the energy for sex - the next time I caress her body, arouse her and penetrate her.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Finally I see a real man with brains and a good heart. Ignore other's stupid comments who say that you're religious.
    You don't need to be religious to have self control and loyalty. I'm also not religious but I share similar thoughts. But thanks for this mytake it really will change my sexual cravings to masturbate. I just finished masturbating and this mytake appeared. Now I will improve myself.
    P. s - People say that it's because you're religious, then what will happen to them if they find one genuine person who is really kind? Will they call him GOD? NO!! They're just doing it to put you down or to appear more cool.

  • Sex from a Christian perspective. ↗

    • Interesting - I think sex is a privilege of marriage and I should fulfil my sexual needs by making love to my wife. Also my penis is for pleasuring my wife and planting my seed inside her. This is something I must do. A boy masturbates, but a grown man enjoys a full sex life with his wife. It took me some time to realise this - but I feel less like a boy now that I have stopped masturbating, and I am aware of my own potency. My sexual urges are strong, my manhood engorges - by not masturbating I feel my potency and it gives me energy. I make love with more passion. At the moment I'm not having regular sex with my wife, and it is hard to endure going without sex. I hope to rebuild our sex life again.

    • Beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾

    • I know right? ... It wants applause for being a sun beam for jesus, ... and artificially CHASE.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well i tried it, but after 12 days i gave up... Because in last 4-5 days i been through lot of tension and depression... But when I did it... I felt weakness for like week and since from then I'm have some issues with my health... But when I feel good again I will try that out again for sure...

  • What about for single people or when she stops sex after marriage?

    • This is a personal choice, but I would still not masturbate as I think it depletes my energy.

    • Are you one of those religious fanatics?

    • No - I'm not religious

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  • Sucks to be you. You must be a glutton for punishment, or twisted upstairs due to some religious mind-virus that has taken root in you unfortunately.
    It's fucking laugh out loud funny to hear a guy even say that (your post title) in public with a straight face!!! -- It's your wiener, ... ain't nothing wrong with touching it!! -- You should be masturbating up a storm, not artificially CHASE. Yuck --- What the fuck is wrong with you?

    • On behalf of my penis and my hand and myself. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • yEs,.,.,. bEaT dA mEaT!

  • Noice noice.

  • not sure I could give it up completely. my bfis away a lot

  • and while you continue to be so full of yourself, you're boring the shit out of your wife so don't be surprised to find that I've left you a cream pie for your next desert.

  • 🤔Does it count parlor massages?🤷‍♂️. Specially four hands 😁.

  • No if only women would stop masturbating too.
    Then both partners would be sensitive and fully in sync.
    Does your wife save herself for your encounters too?

    • Nope she is the bathroom railing herself with every phallus looking object she can find.

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