What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

In this take I’ll be listing both physical and personality traits that I consider to be traits of the ideal woman

Short: I like short women, specifically women that are between 5’0” and 5’3”. The reason why I like short women is because I’m short myself.

WWE’s “Nikki Cross”
WWE’s “Nikki Cross”

Pale or olive skin complexion: I am absolutely attracted to pale women, I don’t really know why. And when I say pale women, I mean women that can camouflage in the snow. I also like olive skin complexions as well, olive complexions are mostly common amongst Mediterranean and Hispanic women. An olive complexion is described as a natural tan with a hint of green.

Helena Harper from Resident Evil 6
Helena Harper from Resident Evil 6

Pudgy/stocky at 27-35% body fat: Yes, I like women who are thick. Short pudgy women have nice bellies, butts and curves. Of course I don’t consider obesity to be attractive but having anywhere between 27-35% of body fat along with some muscle can be quite sexy. However, women who have 22% body fat can sexy as well.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Has a cute face: She doesn’t have to be Miss Universe or a female celebrity but a cute face is definitely a major turn on for me.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Tougher than she looks: I also have a thing for women that are tough enough to punch above their weight class. I know there are women don’t look that strong but still manage to show a disproportionate feat of strength or prowess by lifting more than she weighs, winning a fight against a larger woman, being able to close a heavy gripper etc. And technically speaking, short stocky people tend to be physically strong and dexterous, so it’s a fairly realistic standard.

Reina Miura standing victorious over the much larger Jazzy Gabert
Reina Miura standing victorious over the much larger Jazzy Gabert
If she is like me and she can close a 250lb+ gripper, I’d be turned on
If she is like me and she can close a 250lb+ gripper, I’d be turned on

Wears a lot of corduroy pants: If you’ve read some of my older posts, you’d know that I’m very fond of the corduroy material. It’s very comfortable and I think it looks very good on women. A woman wearing corduroy pants or a corduroy skirt gets me more excited than a woman in a bikini. So if a woman mostly wears corduroys, that’s a big sexual turn on.

Dark blue corduroy pants
Dark blue corduroy pants

Has a navel fetish: I consider women’s navels to be very sexually arousing. I like women who are into navels just as much as I am. When it comes to navel play, I want her to be both into giving and receiving.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Doesn’t mind farting for me: I’m probably one of the few guys who actually gets turned on when women fart. It’s both the sound and smell that I like.And it’s actually been discovered that smelling your partner’s farts strengthens your immune system.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Plays video games: I like women who play video games, unfortunately many of them are too liberal for my tastes. However, conservative women that play video games are definitely a turn on.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Is part of the Christendom: I only date women who are part of the Christendom. She doesn’t have to practice the same religion I do but she has to practice a religion that is part of the Christendom. Whether it be Catholicism, Baptism, Orthodoxy, Lutheranism, Christianity etc.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

We share similar political views: I only date women who have political views that are similar to mine. So if her political views are largely independent but with some right libertarian and constitution party influences then she’s a keeper.

Constitution party logo
Constitution party logo

Similar tastes in entertainment and art: I think it would be very convenient if we both like the same type of movies, tv shows, video games and music. It doesn’t have to be the same exact film or show but at least the genre should be similar.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Similar tastes in food: She doesn’t have to like the same food I like but I’d find it very convenient if we both like a certain restaurant and or there’s at least one type of dish that we both like.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

Is 100% straight, biologically female and is highly visual when it comes to physical attraction: I only date women who are 100% straight and are highly visual when it comes to physical attraction. She also has to have 2 “X” chromosomes.

What I consider to be the ideal woman for a long term relationship and marriage

So yeah, these are the traits of what I consider to be the ideal female for dating. I don’t think these standards are very strict, I think they are very reasonable standards.

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  • I'm with you on the chunky women! And "short stocky people tend to be physically strong and dexterous?" We are? Guess I never thought about it much. I think all the stuff you listed is reasonable, except the fart fetish. Even if that's what you want, I would've left that part out, as I don't see any Christian girl having such a deviant fetish or engaging in it. The navel fetish and being tough/a badass, but also Christian, also are contradictory. But hey, as long as you're saying these are YOUR standards and not "the norm EVERY woman should be," it's all good. Good luck to you on your search. We all should have someone we find near-perfect.

  • I agree with some of this.

    • Thanks for mho

    • You’re welcome

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  • You lost me at the farting thing lol. Also, the lady in the first picture looks scary, like she has the body of a man but the face of a women.

    • That first woman is a professional wrestler

    • Yeah I agree..

    • I don't doubt it!

  • I like that you know what you want. That is nice! I tend to just go all over the place with that. Does your lover have to check every single box to be yours? And your last checkbox should be that she love you back :P

    • @cherryblossomxd She should at least meet about 10 out of these 14 traits. Especially the last one on the list.

    • haha I see okay. You should have a rating list of what is more important to least important.

    • Good idea. Perhaps in a future post I’ll put them in order of importance.

  • For you age... seem fine in your mind.
    In real life... eventually... real life, if that ever becomes reality... its not like that.

    • @midnightmoon05 There’s some women who meet at least half of these standards.

  • I think found your girl or someone who could lead you to more. might be married though... not sure. can't have everything you want though.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/_XwUp63LvyY
  • What is is with guys on here who write these kinds of takes and these weird fetishes? The last few I remember had foot fetishes and one of them literally wanted a woman who'd shit on his chest.

  • The "ideal woman", LOL!! We all have our faults, and you are on a fool's errand, trying to find some 'ideal' one! But please, accept my blessing on your quest. . .
    Nobody is EVER going to be perfect, and you are not perfect either!!
    Reality, to those that don't know it, in relationships: It is about finding someone that is 'close enough to perfect' and she feels the same, with you!
    You may love a certain body type, but the Fates are never going to bring you that! You will meet, and somehow connect, with one, that is nothing like you imagine, or your ideal!! That is the Fates, and Furies, bringing you what you NEED, not what you think you want!

  • Well... good luck finding that lol

  • My ideal woman for long-term relationships and marriage are those you can easily relate to. Not only someone who shares the same interests and hobbies as you - in order to make those things more intimate and interesting - but also someone you know will always have your back and won't make you ashamed if you need the extra-support or not. Someone who has a humbled view of themselves so they won't have the "need and want better" attitude.

  • great take except for a few bits.

  • Good luck with all that. Probably fits maybe one woman I'm a large city. The navel fetish and video gaming are both rare.

  • Your ideal woman may only exist in your imagination. You have effectively objectified women 40+ years after they asked men to stop.

    • @beentherelovedit Didn’t expect so many simps to comment.

    • Thanks!

    • @beentherelovedit Hey man, you’re the one who said that I’m “objectifying” women even though I’m not objectifying them.

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  • It’s good that you know what you want, but don’t let an ideal keep you from dating someone that doesn’t fit it (although I wouldn’t compromise on her being 100% biologically female and straight- that’s completely reasonable).

  • Looks like your take has only caused people to think you're weird, how unfortunate.

    • Perhaps they are projecting since they are probably into far more weirder stuff than what I’ve listed here.

  • Yeah you lost me at short

    • Me too

    • Stop pretending as if women don't prefer tall men.

    • I'm not pretending in fact I am very much aware of that fact

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  • Good luck because she is out there. However on your journey to find that perfect women you just might overlook that not so perfect one that was meant to be your soulmate.

  • I mean you're going into them having a certain body fat percentage. Id say that's pretty strict. Lol are you gonna go to the doctor with someone you date to see where their body fat percentage is? You are very strange dude. Good luck with this.

    • @simplismilez Of course I’m not going specifically for the numbers just the appearance of her being slightly pudgy.

    • Yes, not everyone thinks like him.

  • You are an odd one for sure.

  • Well I got a bit of a chuckle from this anyway
    Reasonable is definitely debatable, there’s some pretty obscure requests here. You are one strange dude

  • "So yeah, these are the traits of what I consider to be the ideal female for dating. I don’t think these standards are very strict, I think they are very reasonable standards"

    Yes, but not if you put them all together. The possibilities of finding a woman who has each and every one of these traits is like winning the lottery.

    • So nobody should have high standards?

    • @devilman666 never said that.

    • "Yes, but not if you put them all together. The possibilities of finding a woman who has each and every one of these traits is like winning the lottery." So having high standards is like expecting to win the lottery?

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