Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
These are my personal opinions you can disagree with if you want but again my opinion.
1. Having a high body count, doesn't mean you're a sex genius: I have mainly male friends and most of my female friends are their girlfriends. One of my best friends claims that he is a "sex god" becuase he has so much experience. However, his girlfriend has complained to me that she has only finished 1 or 2 times since they started dating and they're been together for almost two years now. My point on this is that you could have a body count of 900 and still be very average at sex. Experience and practice are the best when it comes to learning how to be good at sex in general but if you are just smashing away and not learning anything from it... you're just clapping skin, which is why communication is key
2. Raceplay is fine, just not outside a sexual setting: Personally, I would never get into raceplay. I'm pretty sure it would haunt me for life. Nevertheless, some people are and if you are it's fine but remember that your partner deserves respect still. If you're outside the bedroom or not in a sexually setting calling your partner some slur is going to look so bad, especially in public. I've seen some people on here saying how much they love calling black people the n-word in bed and yah, that creeps me out but I guess what gets you off getting you off but you might when to think about why that turns you on so much, but hey enjoy as long as you're partner is okay with it.
3. BSDM is completely normal: I like BSDM and most people do, it's one of the three top sexual fantasies people have. I saw a post saying, "If a woman like BSDM, she's not wife material". Personally, I think the opposite I don't mind vanilla sex but if it's always vanilla, I couldn't marry someone like that. BSDM is about sexual adventures with a sexual partner or partners, wink wink. I think maybe 20-25 years ago it was pretty taboo but now most people have at least 2 or more kinks. From hair pulling, spanking to even electric shocking (yah I was surprised that was a thing). In all honesty, I see BSDM more as sexy dress up for adults, then some taboo anymore. Besides, who doesn't like a good spank every once and a while? It's a great way to get to know your partner and it can also bring you closer together as a couple.
4. Porn isn't bad as people think it is: Porn, Porno the whole thing the reality is most people have seen porn before their first time, it's something I personally think it normal to see it's normal to be curious about sexuality and trying to find things that could explain it. Now the problem with it is that it sometimes gives people unrealistic expectations for what sex is meant to be like and their own sexual skills. In porn, you have "18-year-olds" magically able to take 10-inch dicks like it's nothing and him lasting for 40 minutes long. My first time he was maybe 6 inches and nutted in 3 minutes cause I was "too tight" ( like duh bro, I'm new at this). My point is the concept of porn a way for people especially young people to experience porn or have some understanding of how it's meant to work is getting. The reality causes a lot of unrealistic ideas for people especially young people like myself.
5. Bigger doesn't mean better: I've seen the "is 5 inches enough questions a lot", I've come up with this as a reply would you prefer to be completely in her or have an 8-9 inches dick that could possible only fit in halfway, which leaves the other half cold for the cruel element in this magical journey to completion!!.... Okay, okay I'm sorry for the dumb joke, but as I said in point 1 body count doesn't equal sex god but neither does dick size. I feel like another drawback on porn is the unrealistic sizes of penises on there. Let's look at this scientifically if bigger means better always then more men no matter the race would have bigger dicks becuase women would only flock to bigger sized men and don't get me wrong some girls do this but most women don't becuase the world average size is about 6 inches so you're fine you don't need a "monster cock", one like no woman has ever seen before (.... dexter's laboratory, beautiful show). Seriously, man rub her clit, ask what she wants more of, ask her about her kinks, keep a good rhyme and honestly, lower your voice a little works magic.
6. Ride him, it's only fair: I will attempt that sometimes when I am tired or sleepy, I am the starfish girl. However, you gotta ride him sometimes or at least if you know you can. I've had guy friends tell me that women don't do anything in bed. So, I've taken notes and tried to improve myself. On the other hand guys, sometimes you need to understand she has no idea how to do that... legit no clue, I didn't know how to do it perfectly for about a year. But personally, I feel like it's only fair you ride him or try positions where you put in the effort.
7. Lesbian porn online is more for straight people than gay people: I'm bisexual maybe a little pansexual and I've never watch lesbian porn as in a whole video, but from what I have heard from my gay friends' lesbian pron is directed in a way that it's attractive to straight men mainly, sometimes women too. It's not surprising the concept of a woman being attracted to other women does turn on some guys becuase a lot of them think threesomes or they want to watch and I have to say. Most lesbians wouldn't be cool with that, I'm not even a lesbian but I've had a guy ask to watch me do stuff with a girl when I was dating one and I have to say. Gay relationships are not made for sexualization stop it. Also, apparently, some women are the same as gay men which are again very gross.
8. The person you having sex with deserves to finish too: now unless they have a fetish for edging or something else along those lines. If you are having sex try and make the other person cum. Sex is great personally, I support the idea of a healthy sex life however if you are in a relationship with someone or even just hooking up. Try and make sure they get their kicks too.
9. I have no idea why having daddy issues correlates to people thinking you're a freak: Now, I know the whole DDLG or just the overall BDSM aspect of the concept but it creeps me out that it such a thing now that I see 14-year-old girls on the internet saying they have daddy issues. If you are interested in the DDLG thing it doesn't necessarily mean you may have daddy issues but, again I think it isn't weird that popular culture has translated that into "I'm a nymphomaniac". Daddy issues in my dad doesn't mean she's freaky but if she overly expresses that she has these issues, she's trying to look like a freak.
10. Can someone explain to me what cuckolding is? This isn't even an opinion I just see posts about it and I don't understand why it's so appealing
But those are my unpopular opinions. I hope you liked it and I hope nobody is too pissed off
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