There is a very distinct conclusion that I have come to. It is really something that has blown my mind as of late.
Women view a man's sexuality timidity as a form of conquest in the same way that men view virgins as a conquest. Women on the prowl are beastly cougars.
I have some unique traits sexually. Unlike most men, I do not like blow jobs. I have never in my life had an orgasm when given a blow job. I also do not like doggystyle. I have never orgasm' in doggystyle position. What is fascinating is when I tell this to a new female sexual companion they have an INTENSE reaction.
The response I typically get is "Well, my blow jobs are fuckin amazing. No girl can suck a dick like I can." And regarding doggy style they likewise see it as a challenge. The will use it as a challenge to practice.
Its odd. All that I am doing is expressing a preference or maybe a vulnerability. Yet, women get intense and practically throw my clothes off. A dominant instinct kicks in. Pretty soon they are trying to see if they can CHANGE you. Does that sound familar? A woman wanting to change you? A woman wanting to fix you? A woman wanting to help you?
I don't think it is a bad thing. I think the more women try to experiment with turning me on in certain sexual positions I do get used to it and enjoy it more. But it is shocking to see their reaction. Fellas, the best way to get a lady dominant and really working hard in bed when you first start having sex...tell a woman how something has never made you orgasm. They will go nuts and work on it with intensity and passion.