You know that most people can get sex who are very attractive in a Hookup World. Is there anything you can do to be memorable in their eyes aside from a fantastic personality or uniqueness?
Yes there is. It is biological pair bonding and it is an incredible gift when used to your advantage.
The intimacy of cuddling with someone is certainly a great way to form attachment. Before during and after sex cuddle with your new partner and whisper sweet or funny things. It fosters emotional connection. It is very powerful.
The Phallus and the Boob
After cuddling with the partner have them spend the night. The very first night they sleep over absolutely do no role over to opposite sides of the bed. If you are a male spoon them by cupping your hand around their breast or their butt and fall asleep that way. If you are a woman kiss your man and then gently wrap your hand around their semi erect penis. Hold their penis for awhile as you both drift off to sleep. DO NOT actually give him a hand job. Just wrap your hand around it gently as you sleep.
The gentle cupping of genitals during rest creates a unique and intense bond. It connects the sexual experience with you to feelings of warmth and attachment. This is the most important thing you can ever do each night to turn a casual partner into a long term attachment. Trust me, I've done it and it works. There is nothing like waking up the next morning to a man embracing you with a hand on your breast. Or waking up to a woman holding your cock gently. It makes the person feel DESIRED and SEXY. Like you are irresistible to them.
Many are obsessed with caking on perfume or cologne. Do not do this. You want you actually want your partner to smell your body odor the next morning after sex. Think of perfume and cologne as a way to allure the partner. The next morning however, your partner will eventually be more aroused by the smell of your armpit or your hair or your neck.