Confessions of a Ladies Man: Why I love a Girlfriend's "Time of the Month" (Period)

Confessions of a Ladies Man: Why I love a Girlfriends Time of the Month (Period)

She's Horny as Fuck

In my experience dating women, the time when a woman is most horny and lustful for sex is...during her period. I often notice a change in a woman's mood when she is on her period and it is actually the opposite of media portrayal. She is emotional but also sweet, sappy, touchy feely, sensual. Sometimes a woman can be frustrated in the way a woman can be if she demands sex "RIGHT NOW" and rips your clothes off.

The Sex is Amazing

Put some towels down on the bed. Wear a condom. A woman's body during a period is very sensitive to sensation, touch, and sexual healing. And guys? If you have sex with her right during that time of the month? It helps cure cramps. You truly will be sexual healing for her. For a man the experience is very pleasurable. The sensitivity often tightens her vagina and makes it more sensitive to how warm and throbbing your penis is inside her. You are more likely to orgasm together or have a harder orgasm in these moments. Just make sure you wear a condom and put towels down.

Sexual Healing

As mentioned before. Sex during a period for a woman can be a healing experience. Her period is one of the most vulnerable times for her. She may feel pain in the form of cramps. She may feel bloated and unpretty. She may feel unsexy because her vagina is dripping blood. She may feel undesirable, gross, and unlovable. Don't be that grossed out asshole. Don't be that guy terrified of a woman's body. Love her up. Hold her. Tell her she's beauty. Kiss her body. Make her feel she can trust her vulnerability with you. Be THAT guy that she comes to every month for a bit of sexual healing.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm all for sex positivity, but being on your period doesn't suddenly tighten your vagina, the hormones actually relax you more. You are also more likely to contract yeast infections around your period because of higher pH levels, so make sure you maintain good hygiene (but not too much, like don't use chemical wipes etc, they can get rid of the good bacteria).

    Also worth saying sex on period is a preference, if you're into it cool, if not, cool.

    If you have hang ups about periods being gross or disgusting then it might be a good idea to do some reading and get educated a bit more, but if you just genuinely aren't comfortable doing it that's fine. Whatever floats your boat.

  • Psa. Not all women want sex on their period. It doesn't help everyone with cramps. Any vaginal tightness means she isn't that into it. If her vagina isn't literally sucking you in she isn't that turned on.

    • I did not say all women wanted period sex. Also your argument is flawed because there are exceptions to everything in the world. At a certain point "all" must mean "most" or a general term for a vast majority of people.

    • Good thing I said "not all" which implies not everyone, meaning some do like it 🤷🏻‍♀️. It's also not an argument, note: "psa". I'm just stating facts 😌

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm just going to go ahead and say you need fact check yourself and assuming the info is correct I'm not the guy who is up for the assignment, I'll just wait.

  • There are women who don't want to have sex while on their period. On top of that sone don't want you to touch them when they are on their period.

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  • Younger me would definitely have said no to period sex but now that I’m a bit older I must admit that I get super horny during that time (in-fact I can tell my period is going to start by how horny I get). Most men are against it but I’ve met a few that don’t mind it at all. We just jump in the shower and we both get full satisfaction. And yes it helps with the cramps. I not only feel better but sexier too!

  • Yes, yes, yes! Thank you for writing this. Very well said. I 100% agree.

  • Thanks for this. I hope other people learn something here.
    the messed up part is we are not like this all the time. I never felt this way when younger.
    I have had and it helps, other times I don’t want.
    So it is very important for both to communicate their needs.

  • We become like animals 🤣

  • Hmm.. I think most women would prefer not to actually have sex during their period, even though some may be horny at the time.

    • Have you ever done it? If a woman know you are down? Trust me... you are going to get a lot of sex period time.

  • Hard pass.

  • Yes, it is awesome. But it was the only time we did it without a condom.

  • I just want to be left alone. I feel super bloated and my uterus feels painful, the least I want is to have a foreign body down there.

  • That's what a real man does for his woman. We had period sex thousands of times. We love it

  • Just because you're into it doesn't everyone else should too

  • Uhh lol noooo my g. First I hate condoms and second I don't want blood on my pp

  • I have found that the two women that I have been with are SUPER horny the day before their period and sometimes also during their period. Just take the queue from them. If they are horny during this time, put down extra towels, enjoy, and take a shower after. :-)

  • self proclaimed 'Ladies Man' lmao sure

    • Is what i wrote true?

  • yucky

  • THIS. Comedian Ali Wong has a bit about she was dating a guy and she tried to refuse sex because she was in her period. The guy said, “well, let’s go make a mess” and she said it made her feel so sexy and valued and I totally get that. Yes.

  • Period time is anal time.

  • I don’t like period sex so it’s not for all women