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Why Women Shouldn't Be Self Conscious About How Tight Their Vagina Is

Apope16

First of all, every vagina is different.

There is no such thing as a vagina that feels the same. Every sexual experience is unique and quite frankly that is what makes sex so powerful and special. It is the most intimate experience you can have with someone. But it is also the most individualistic. I don't know about other people but I have sensory memory. I still can remember how it feels to be deep inside some of my ex girlfriends. Sometimes thinking about it turns me on because they are each different. The feeling is not explained.

Second, even loose vaginas have sensations and nerve endings that create intense pleasure.

A loose pussy make a guy cum hard but in a different way. A lot of times a loose pussy is do to intense horniness and arousal. Instead of tightness there is likely squirting or excessive wetness deep inside her. These sensations give an intense pleasure to a penis.

A tight pussy is like a back massage. The tightness milks a penis like milking a cow. Instead its cum inside you. A loose pussy is similar to when a woman is putting a shower head of warm water over a clit. The orgasm isn't hard an intense. Instead, orgasm with a loose pussy is all encompassing and more of a full body experience.

Ladies don't worry. I hope this helps.

Why Women Shouldnt Be Self Conscious About How Tight Their Vagina Is
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  • lilyanony1
    My ex used to try to trick me into staying with him by insulting me. Telling me it was loose and other insults regarding my looks. Then he tried the being nice tactic.
    It's so tight yadda yadda.
    It's funny because whether it was loose or tight he still begged me to take him back. So this crap is irrelevant.
    And men and women need to stop perpetrating crap.
    All people need to know is the need to do pelvic floor muscle exercises just as much as any other because like and other muscle that isn't worked on its prone to damage.
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    • Apope16

      Yep. And i bet the sex with you felt amazing too loose or not. I think he bvb was honest about it being looser than others... but did he still cum inside you? I bet he did!

    • lilyanony1

      He told me it was loose because he was upset that we didn't continue the pregnancy. Even though we made a joint decision about it. On the day I asked him more than once and he said no, we're here now. The day it happened he told me he wanted it.
      So out of anger when we started getting physical again he started insulting me. He couldn't cope. We were very young and although I wanted it I needed him to be excited or at least on board. And the first thing he did was panic, accuse me of cheating. Tell me that we couldn't tell our parents.
      I've never had any complaints.

    • I don’t get that story

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  • Anonymous
    It would be funby of your ex girlfriends could see what you are saying about their individualy pussy

    And how do you know how women feel when the shower water reach ther clit? Do you have a pussy?

    I don't have experience about pussys, but neither do you, cause you are no a gynecologist and you haven't fucked all women on this planet to know about pussys.

    As you said, all the pussys are not the same.

    But thanks for your information and experience
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    • Apope16

      That is a tired and old argument. The fact that my penis has not been deep inside all 1.5 billion people in planet earth doesn't mean I can't share an opinion on an opinion site. Here in a weird way a sex positive and pro female body message is being attacked by you just because you are triggered by the author. Second, how do i know shower clit orgasms feel like? Well as a guy in the friend zone for decades before my confidence came... women for years told me about what sex was like for them. And masturbation. Now i just have experience to back it up. I can assure you that a clit orgasm feels different than an orgasm during intercourse. A gspot orgasm/squirting feels different too.

      But what is your play here? All I said was that even loose pussy can pleasure a man. Thats all i said. What exactly is your beef with what I wrote?

    • Anonymous

      Never mind, i surrender/you win😅

    • Wait. What?

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  • Anonymous
    dude do you even know wtf you're talking about? This has got to be some of the creepiest and most asinine shit i've read so far this morning. Loose vaginas can occur from any number of things like childbirth or if a woman had surgery just to name a few examples. and that whole shower clit thing you really have no idea wtf you're talking about. and dude if you want to get your nuts and little pecker off go whack off to some porn instead of posting stupid shit like this and making people waste their time reading this garbage
    Is this still revelant?
  • Knighted2170
    And there we go poor research and partial truths.
    Try studying sexology and human anatomy.

    Oh that's right, your a "ladies man" - never mind.
    Is this still revelant?
    • Apope16

      WHAT ABOUT WHAT I SAID IS WRONG?

    • Exactly what I said, partial truths and poor research.
      Research your topic. It's called laxity and only two things cause it. Even after those, the vagina will normally return to it's prior state naturally. To help speed that process women can do specific exercises.
      Your so called "looseness" is what she feels, not the guy. It's well documented.

    • Apope16

      I am well aware of the woman's vagina elongating to accomodate my 8 inch dick and returning to normal size. I am well aware of all of what you just said. thats not what the take is about. Its about a woman being looser than average during sex. thats it. really that simple.

      To answer your question. I have had sex with women who are "looser" than other and it does not feel as tight. most of these women are ladies who have had multiple children. Now there are kegel exercises that can be done to help. But that doesn't change the fact that not all vagina feel tight. Trust me. I've been with women who could grip you like a vice and had very strong kegel muscles. BUt even looser women are pleasurable.

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  • Tiffany_Taylor_Made
    Vaginal feeling is something a woman would always be self-conscious about, not unlike men feeling self-conscious about their penis size. Vaginal feeling determines the level of pleasure that the woman provides the man during sex. Many men often state that tighter vaginas feel better during sex and would even break up or cheat on a woman if her pussy is too loose for their preferences, not unlike how women dump or cheat on men with small penises. Not every man shares the same view on how pussy feels. While you might claim that even loose pussy can experience intense sensations and can make men cum in different ways, some men might not experience the same level of pleasure with a pussy they consider "loose." Thus, not every man is likely to be happy about the feeling, which could result in break ups and cheating.

    In addition, vaginal looseness is also subjective because the reasons one might consider a pussy "loose" could vary. For instance, a normal fully aroused and wet vagina could feel "loose" to a man with a thinner dick than average. However, another man with a girthier dick could say that the pussy feels just right or even tight depending on how thick his dick is. In any case, I agree with attempting to encourage women not to feel insecure about having a loose pussy, but the reasons you've given aren't the most practical or rational. These women could get over their insecurity by simply being encouraged to stay with men that don't care too much about the feeling, doing kegel exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, (which are responsible for vaginal tightness among other things), or simply finding a man with a bigger dick and better fit for her vagina.

    "A loose pussy is similar to when a woman is putting a shower head of warm water over a clit."

    Seriously, this doesn't make any sense at all. A showerhead of warm water over a clit? I can't even wrap my head around that. Sometimes, when I read your Takes, I wonder if you write stuff like this strictly for the shock value. Let me help you out. Simply put, if the pussy is loose, it would feel not much different to having sex normally, but with a lighter grip on your dick. A tight vagina would have a more firm grip and if her pelvic floor is strong enough, she would be able to use her muscles to squeeze, making her feel tighter. Doing this could make inexperienced men cum quick.
  • katiesmuff
    I am truly amazed that you are such an expert on this subject which in some ways would make even a qualified gynecologist shake there head in wonder of your knowledge here.
  • iKarmaJones
    Hm? Interesting. Based upon your MyTake... So, I'm confused as to why women feel self-conscious about their vagina being tight than loose? If men don't care? Are you saying they don't? It doesn't matter? Does it matter for the majority of men? And, how many men know this information to stop holding it against women with loose vaginas? 🤔 Just curious.
  • djmzes
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  • Nazgol
    Maybe that's your opinion. But it's unfortunate that some men still exist that would greatly judge a girl based on a silly thing like that. A lot of things can make it loose, especially after childbirth. But you'd be surprised how some guys are so judgmental and not in favour of a "loose" and will come up with a million reasons why she is, slut being the first that comes to their mind. We need to break the stigma and judging
    • Yup and women have never even joked about penis being small such an angels they are 😇🤣

    • Rob17792

      @Nazgol i was thinking that too after childbirth

    • OneLove87

      A vagina should completely go back to its normal "tightness" between 6 and 12 months after child birth. Kegels will help it get there faster. As for me I don't feel self conscious about the tightness it is more about the external look that has changed with childbirth. 4 pregnancies have changed my entire body but at the end of the day my husband still loves me for every tiger stripe and mark on my body.

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  • GingerCatLover
    @Apope16 - do you take drugs by chance?

    It is NOT how TIGHT their vagina is that makes women self-conscious - a tighter vagina means more sensory simulation = better sex = better orgasm for her & her partner - but how LOOSE their vagina is.

    There are FEW, if not NO, derogatory comments about how tight a woman's vagina is but there are PLENTY of derogatory comments about how loose a woman's vagina is because to most men a loose vagina = sleeps around = sluttish behavior.

    If anything most men prefer women with tighter vaginas because in their minds it means she hasn't slept with half the city by the time she's 30.
    • I mean seriously how dumb are you? There are even fucking courses on kegals and other exercises for women to tighten their vagina after childhood because being LOOSE is viewed as BAD in NORMAL society.

  • zagor
    How tight they are also depends on whether Shaq or Gary Coleman is fucking them.

    Yes I know the latter is dead...
  • KrakenAttackin
    True enough , also you should not be worried about how your pussy looks. No one cares and guys are just happy to see it!
  • honeylover21
    maybe its because they are really embrassed at how tight they are or loose they are
  • yourbabygirl921
    Uhm sure
  • Chikky
    Noted, I like it
  • ChrisMaster69
    🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️..
  • WowwGirl
    Wtf?
  • Pete671
    Loose vaginas are hot,
  • Shihab91
    And there he is, striking with no mercy 😂
  • shalt
    Lmao what
  • MasterOfReality
    I have often said everything you have stated.
  • Anonymous
    Studies found that when women have a regular sex partner the vagina over time will adapt to the shape and size of said partner which can add to the feeling of being loose to men since it wasn't fit for them at first but over time has become a perfect fit. However the vagina is a muscle that is constantly used even when you don't think so (ladies will agree if you've ever torn down there childbirth etc. Movements on the daily suddenly you notice can move the vagina muscles too) it can also stretch up to 200% its size however it contracts to its base size there is not really a loose vagina per se. If you usually take a huge or fat dick then it'll be more stretched or loose but if you stop for some time things will shrink back down easily.
  • Anonymous
    lol have you ever even had sex?
  • Anonymous
    Lol A bigger D will have you feeling tight regardless
  • Anonymous
    I cannot believe the amount of shit you spew dude. 😂
  • Anonymous
    Keep the pussy tight

    https://youtu. be/jGzXI5GqnjoWhy Women Shouldn't Be Self Conscious About How Tight Their Vagina Is
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